My boyfriend is not in good health, am I going to break up? 50

Updated on psychology 2024-08-08
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I just read your description, and I feel that it is first recommended to let my boyfriend go to the hospital for a check-up to see if there is really any disease in the body, and if so, be hospitalized as soon as possible**. If there is not just a diet and physical problem, you need to let your boyfriend live a regular life from now on and strengthen physical exercise to see how it goes.

    As for whether to break up or not depends on your relationship, if you can consider breaking up at first, if you love him for a long time, you must take care of your body first. Of course, you also have to refer to the words of your parents, come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If the two of you really like each other, love each other no matter what the reason, you will not abandon or give up the kind of love, I will support you to care for her and take care of her. But your internationality has not yet reached that level, but it is not yet in love at the initial stage, so unforgettable, I suggest you leave him, because it will definitely be very stressful for your later life. It depends on your own choice, to see how deeply you two love each other, choose to break up or not to break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If I am your parents, I would also recommend breaking up.

    Unless it's true love, the kind that would rather suffer and suffer in the future than give up, then I will support you.

    But if your love is still in the general stage, it's better to break up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The body is the capital of the revolution, if you are sick, seek medical treatment, and break up should be determined by the depth of feelings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, this can be **.

    Of course, the key is to pay attention to him, pay attention to his diet and living habits, and arrange his work reasonably.

    However, you don't have a deep relationship with him, you don't love him, and there is nothing you can do about his physical health, so I suggest you give up on him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Whether to break up or not depends on your own decision, the key is whether you are willing to take care of him who has been sick, and consider whether he will take care of him wholeheartedly if he is sick in the future, without regrets. If you are married and have children, and he has lost his labor force because of poor health, then you have to support two people by yourself, and you ask yourself if you have the ability to take care of them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If two people really love each other, the more they are in the case of their boyfriend's poor health, the more they should stick to that relationship and accompany them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't stay with him just because he's sick, I don't think you're going to be able to talk a little too much. I want to know what your relationship is usually, if the relationship is good, I think he is not in good health and can be adjusted, that is not a reason to break up. Of course, you don't have a good relationship, you can break up with him for this reason, it's all up to you, but you have to think about it.

    I know that no one wants their life to be entrusted to a sick person, and they all want to find a healthy person to spend their life with, how good that life would be!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    See if you want to break up, right? If you feel that you are often sick and that it is not good for you, then you should divide it early, on the other hand, if you feel that you have a bad stomach and get sick, it should not be a big problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's up to you to think about it. If you or your boyfriend's financial situation is okay. If you can support your life in the future, or the expenses after you get sick, and you love her enough, let's be together.

    If life becomes a problem after being together, I don't think I will be happy, because when we are really together in the future, it is not just love, there is no firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Listening to the situation you described, this man's body is indeed a little weak, if you really like him, you should mobilize him to do more exercise, improve his physique, if it really doesn't work, you should really consider listening to your parents, break up early, delay too long is not good for everyone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up, if he is really good for you, he should also choose to leave, it is very beautiful to look at it, in reality, it can only make you more and more bitter, in other words, it is better to leave than si.

    Girl, he doesn't love you as much as you think, don't feel sorry for him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend is not in good health, you can choose not to break up, but you have to take care of your boyfriend who chooses to break up with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems to be a sister Lin-style character, in fact, the best choice is to break up, break up to avoid trouble in the future, of course, it depends on the relationship between you. His body is like this, his immunity is not good, he is not optimistic for a long time, and he goes out to drink, and he does not cherish himself. Sooner or later, there will be big problems, be careful!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is advisable to think about the love for your boyfriend, and look to the future and choose for yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's share my opinion, I hope it will be useful to you.

    Love is different from marriage, love as long as two people have a compatible personality and feel happy together. However, marriage is not like this, and the issues to consider are much more complicated than falling in love, and you need to consider the following questions:

    1. Whether the two of you really get along, whether you really love each other, and most importantly, whether he really loves you.

    2. Is he really a genetic weak physique, a disease that cannot be changed through the day after tomorrow, life is not easy, be realistic, even if you don't think about yourself, you have to think about future generations, think about your parents.

    3. With him, can you take care of both parents, if you decide to be together, then both parents should take into account, it is not easy to compare parents, is the best person in the world for us, I am because I was in the field, I failed to take good care of my parents, my father left us because of an accident, for this, I still deeply blame myself.

    Considering the above, whether you are together or not, the key is yourself, and the advice on the road is just a reference.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love continues, and if you don't love, leave early.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A man is the pillar of the family, and his body is really not good, depending on your description of your boyfriend's very serious illness, going to the hospital in the future is commonplace, and the expenses are like running water, which you can't afford. The advice is to listen to your parents.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Quit smoking and drinking, recuperate your body, and exercise together. Can do it and give him a chance. Don't let each other have regrets.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello friends, it is recommended to first understand what the specific reason for your boyfriend is like this, and then whether the body can be improved. Falling in love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, and someone may morally kidnap you, but you need to understand the situation, and at the same time, your boyfriend and parents both communicate how you plan to consider this matter in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What's wrong with your boyfriend's health If it's a serious genetic disease, it's hard to say.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you love her enough, don't break up, but pull back to reality, so that you will indeed be tired.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Boyfriend and girlfriend are a period of observation and understanding, legally you do not have an obligation to be with your boyfriend in the future, and morally you do not have such an obligation. Whether you leave or not depends on your will.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's better to break up early, so that his body will have cancer cells.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The main thing is that this boyfriend is good to you, if it's good, continue to talk, and it's okay under this kind of conditioning.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the two love is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Such a person should not drag you down

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's better not to break up, having a boyfriend who is not in good health, if he is good to you, it is okay, the scary thing is that he is in good health and not good for you, this is the saddest thing.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Personally, I think that at this time, you can communicate with each other well, tell each other what you really think in your heart, and then break up peacefully.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Try to compensate him in other ways, communicate with him, explain your reasons and circumstances, and believe that he will understand you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    <> boyfriend is not in good health and you want to propose to break up, it is really wrong for you to do so. Because after all, you are already lovers, and you may become your husband in the future, husband and wife should share blessings and hardships, and you can't propose to break up with your boyfriend because he is not in good health, you can only show that you don't care about him at all, if you really care so much about his poor health, then why did you agree to be with him in the first place? This behavior of yours is actually a kind of deception, if you think it is not suitable, you should not agree to be with him, it is estimated that you have been together for a long time, if you leave him at this time, he will definitely be sad, which is very bad for his body.

    You can first ask what is wrong with his body, if this problem can be solved, you will actively go **, strive for an early **, if his health is not well adjusted, as long as it does not delay normal life, there is no need to make a fuss. Everyone's body will have more or less minor problems and problems, is it necessary to break up and divorce if you are not in good health? This is clearly untenable.

    In fact, everyone can't guarantee that their body will always be healthy, in reality, there are many old husbands and wives who are not in good health, but they still love each other as always, and no one has left anyone, this is true love. Whether it is a man or a woman, when it comes to choosing a mate, they will choose a healthy person, which is understandable, but in the process of getting along, if one of the partners suddenly becomes seriously ill, do you have to leave? A lover who has been with you for more than ten years, can you give up if you say you give up?

    If you can't accept it, don't agree to each other's courtship, since you have agreed, get along well, even if there are any difficulties, as long as each other's hearts are connected and get through the difficulties together, the days ahead must be smooth sailing.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think it's right for you to break up with him if it's just because he's sick, and it's understandable if there are other reasons. In fact, it also depends on why he has a nervous breakdown, and this disease can be **, and it is not a terminal disease.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have a very good relationship with your boyfriend, you won't want to break up, although he is not in good health, but because of this, you have the idea of wanting to break up, which means that your feelings for him are not particularly deep, so I think it's better to break up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you don't love your boyfriend anymore, then you should do it, after all, it is unlikely to put your life of happiness into it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The relationship is not maintained by one party, it is inevitable that there will be a little friction when you are in love, I hope that both parties will look at this relationship rationally, and the miss and fault are just different in the order of appearance, and the results are very different, thank you!

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