I asked my boyfriend for a breakup fee, what should I do when I break up with my boyfriend and he as

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello landlord: In your opinion, it may be reasonable, and we are more sympathetic to you. Because you have given so much for him. However, the law will not approve of your behavior. Unmarried cohabitation or abortion is not protected by law at all.

    When you ask him for a breakup fee, he may have more ugly words waiting for you, for example, I didn't force you at the beginning, you volunteered, and so on. So you have to be mentally prepared. In addition, it is better to leave him, leave the last bit of self-esteem for yourself, leave him bravely and strongly, and remember the painful price of your own time.

    Don't do such stupid things again. It's best not to have sex before marriage, which will not only hurt you, but also the child in your womb, this is a life, in foreign countries, abortion is illegal. Although it is not illegal in Japan, it is not a joke, so be careful.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Fair and reasonable!! In the tank!!

    A man should always be grateful to the woman who was by his side when he was in his 20s A man in his 20s is at the lowest point in his life, with no money and no career And a woman in her 20s is ...... when she is at her most splendid

    A man should always be grateful to the woman who was there for him in his 20s. Because: men in their 20s are still very "ignorant", while women in their 20s are very splendid;

    A man in his 20s is at the lowest point in his life, while a woman in her 20s is in her prime years;

    Men in their 20s don't know how to cherish, and women in their 20s need to be cherished the most;

    A man in his 20s has extremely low self-esteem and is very conceited, while a woman in his 20s is trying to build his self-confidence;

    Men in their 20s don't know how to love, can't love but need love, while women in their 20s need to be loved, cared for but cared for;

    Men in their 20s have no money or career, but they have desires, while women in their 20s are no longer guarding their own time;

    A girl is about 20 years old and is at her most beautiful. At this time, she has the kindest heart, she is a little mature, and a little childish.

    The boy's darkest days are around twenty years old, when he has nothing, cannot be independent and does not want to be dependent, struggling to find his place. Therefore, when a boy meets a girl of the same age when he is about twenty years old, he must cherish her, because this girl has accompanied him through the bleakest days with her most beautiful years! As long as the girl walks with him, the girl will be happy forever.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It can be considered reasonable, as long as he is willing to give it to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He has no right to give it to you, and he does not agree with it legally. You can ask him for it, but he doesn't know if he gives it or not.

    It is better for a woman to live with a man less before she gets married, and it is you who suffers in the end. In the days of cohabitation, he has been tired of playing with you, and when he is about to get married, it is time to break up. Hehe, you should know better than I do.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He really doesn't give it, he's still like this, this society, how can there be any kind of scum, you are wholeheartedly devoted to him,! , must be! This world!

    This money, the fact of starting a marriage, live together in this world! You can ask him, men are white-eyed wolves, but you must collect you to live together, and you will sue him in court! Is!

    That's how you have a chance of winning, or how will you and your children live in the future?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Favors are reasonable, if he is particular about it, he should give you some compensation, but to be honest, if he just doesn't give it to you, what can he do? . .

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why are you putting things off so late, silly girl, you have to think more about yourself, loving yourself is the premise of everything. The breakup fee must be more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I consulted with a lawyer, but since there was a verbal promise, I wrote an IOU and stamped my fingerprint.

    I think you have a good chance of winning.

    In some cases, the court admits a verbal promise, not to mention that you still have an IOU in hand.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Support you with everyone, it's hard to say whether you will be given money or not! Good luck! On behalf of the broad masses of the people, bs that rotten person!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can ask for it, I'm afraid he won't give it to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not enough to be a fraud, you keep the note, don't give it to him, you go to a lawyer and sue him. There have been such incidents. You can check it out.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay to be stupid, you are willing to say that others cheat you? See if you can sue you, if you do, you can also sue for early death, I don't know how many men.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's up to you what you think, but you can hack him if you want.

    But that kind of man is really cheap.

    You should give him a good beating, it's not too cheap for him.

    You're so stupid.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, since he's ruthless, there's no need for you to be angry, hehe.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Reasonable, but he willed.

    If you don't, you have to think of a solution, but it can't be too extreme.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Reasonable You can sue him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since you broke up with your boyfriend, you have to separate it financially. If it's boyfriend's money. It should be given to others.

    You will also have a backbone. If money is not owed to him. Don't give him a penny.

    The financial problems after the breakup should be resolved with a respected person or the person concerned.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If this is given to you something particularly valuable, you can return it to him, and there is no need to give money.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you break up with your boyfriend, he asks for money, and you ask him to come up with the evidence, because sometimes if it is a loan, it still has to be repaid.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Henan people have a breakup, he asks for money. If it cost him how much money it was, the best thing to do is to return it to him, such a man. It's hard to entangle, and it's completely unnecessary. entangled.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello. Break up with your boyfriend. He asks you for money to see how the money is spent.

    If it's just watching movies and eating, it's okay not to give this kind of money. If you buy clothes, jewelry. You still have to pay the price for your valuables, and give them back to him!

    After all, the feelings are gone, and leaving this little thing can't change anything. Seeing things and thinking about people often makes you sadder and leaves a material impression on the other person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If he breaks up with you and he asks you to give him a breakup fee, then you can also ask him for compensation, because both parties have to pay, so it is difficult for him to calculate this money.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When we were together, I felt that it was right and necessary for a man to buy something for his girlfriend, and now he asks you to break up. Fei can only show that he is not a man. If he goes to your house, I suggest you go to the police.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you break up with your boyfriend and she asks you for money, you have to see what kind of money it is. If it's when the two of you get along. Buy something for you, buy a gift for you, there is no need to give him such money, if it is a bride price, then you must return it to others.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You broke up with a boy, if you were friends, the boy spent a lot of money on you, you really need to give the boy back a part, you can tell the boy what you did, I am very touched, please remember this relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on what kind of money it is, if it's money you borrow, then you have to pay him back, if it's two people who interact with each other and he spends money for you, then you don't have to pay it back, because he has a girlfriend, he spends it, and it is also necessary.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, since there is no chance to be together, it is good to be reconciled and dispersed, there is no need to divide the money used before, and it is unreasonable for him to ask for money!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If a boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up, if there is a financial dispute, it is recommended to negotiate with one party first to see if it can be returned. However, if the two parties fail to reach an agreement, they can file a lawsuit with the court, and the court will decide whether to return it. If one party borrows money from the other, it can be refunded.

    However, if one party gives it to the other party, it has no right to demand return. Unless the parties agree to return.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Break up with your boyfriend, he asks for money, I think my caress is that the two of you go to the restaurant for dinner, or some items she bought for you, this kind of boyfriend who treats money as his life, it's right to break up, call you for money, and you say I don't owe you money,

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What should I do if he asks for money when I break up with my boyfriend? In fact, you can negotiate with him about this, because if you break up, both of you will lose, not that he only needs money.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If there are more people who spend more, then when they break up, he will give him money, I want too much money from other people's families, if people have a lot of money with you, you have to break up with others, and if you don't give people money, it is easy to have some big things, which is not very good for both parties.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Break up with your boyfriend and see what kind of money he asks you for? If you are both in a relationship. b You bought a small gift, and some small things, if you are arranged to ask for such money, then he is too stingy, such a man.

    It's okay to leave him, if he gives you the bride price because of the bride price, but you want to break up with him, then of course he has to get his money back, no. When the time comes, both people and money will be empty.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If he gives you a gift, just give it back to him, there's no need to cash it out to him, if it's the money you usually eat and go shopping, just ignore him, such a man is too stingy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After breaking up with your boyfriend and he asks for money, you should ask him to provide proof of the amount of money he spent for you and return it to him as it is.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Then I want to know what kind of money he wants, it is the money he gave you during the previous relationship, then it should be repaid, if it is something else, you can ignore it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you use a lot of money or receive very expensive gifts from your boyfriend and girlfriend during his lifetime, you should return it. If it's just a regular meal, you don't have to return the money you spend.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Why do you ask for money, is it because when you were in love, you spent a lot of money on him, or he gave you a lot of money, and if so, you give him back the money you didn't spend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then you break up with your boyfriend, and when your boyfriend asks you for money, it proves that he has indeed spent enough on you, he is just unwilling, and when you decide to break up, it is still recommended that you give him some compensation.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you don't have the money, you can just not give it to him.

    But if you have money yourself, you can give it to him in style, and there will be no relationship between you again.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When getting along again, spending money between boyfriend and girlfriend is a willing behavior, there is no compulsion, and after breaking up, it is unreasonable and illegal to recover it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    See if his request is reasonable? If it's unreasonable, you must refuse. If necessary, you can protect yourself through legal proceedings. Hope mine can help you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You broke up with your boyfriend, if you take his money materials, you just give it to him, that you use a lot of money from him, that's when you give him a little, because you don't want him, don't you have to share a little?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Summary. After a breakup, your boyfriend asks you for money to spend in love, which is obviously not appropriate. If the expenses were paid voluntarily by your boyfriend without a clear agreement or agreement, it doesn't seem reasonable for him to ask you to pay them back now.

    You can communicate with him to clarify your position, and if he insists that you pay back the money, you can consider seeking legal advice. The best solution, though, is to establish a clear agreement during the relationship that makes it clear who pays for what so that similar problems don't arise.

    After a breakup, my boyfriend asks me for the money I spent in a relationship, what should I do?

    After the breakup, your boyfriend asks you for the money you spent when you were in love, and this behavior is obviously not appropriate. If the expenses were paid voluntarily by your boyfriend and there is no clear agreement or agreement, then it doesn't seem reasonable for him to ask you to repay the money now. You can communicate with him to clarify your position, and if he insists that you pay back the money, you can consider seeking legal advice.

    The best solution, though, is to establish a clear agreement during the relationship that makes it clear who pays for what so that similar problems don't arise.

    First of all, you should be clear about your rights and obligations, as well as the agreement between you and your boyfriend. If the parties have not signed any written agreement, there is no legal basis for your boyfriend to ask you to return the money you spent, so you do not have to return it. If there is a written agreement between the parties, it shall be performed in accordance with the content of the remaining agreement.

    You can also seek help from your local legal department to ensure that your rights are protected.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Summary. Dear, hello, after breaking up with your boyfriend, he asked you for money in two situations: 1Explicit gifts do not need to be returned, 2If there is no explicit gift, it needs to be returned.

    After breaking up with my boyfriend for a few months, he asked me for money.

    I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for four months, and I was looking for a partner together, and he transferred me some money, but he said that he gave it to me voluntarily, and he didn't say that he wanted it.

    Dear, hello, after breaking up with your boyfriend, he asked you for money in two situations: 1Explicit gifts do not need to be returned, 2If there is no explicit gift, it needs to be returned.

    Dear, if I said that I gave it to you voluntarily before, I have no right to return it now.

    If it is said to be voluntary, then there is no need to return it.

    But now there is no chat log, and now come and ask for money.

    At this time, you can find your ex and tell him what happened, and the amount is large.

    Tens of thousands of dollars in bits and pieces.

    Dear, did you contact your ex.

    He's living with that girl, so he should know about that girl sending me to me, and he's a guy who listens to his girlfriend.

    Tens of thousands of dollars in bits and pieces.

    You can say to this girl, why are you asking me for all this money, she gave it to me during our relationship, and she didn't say that it was lent to me.

    There is no connection between her and the woman's cohabitation.

    Dear, how that girl contacted you, you can contact him and tell him that this was clearly given to me during the relationship, why should I pay it back.

    Tik Tok But I'm afraid of quarrels.

    If you're afraid of quarreling, won't you reply? Is he going to let him harass you like this all the time? Are you going to exchange her money?

    If it gets bigger, do I have to pay it back?

    Dear, at that time, your ex said that it was given to you, and this does not need to be returned, but try to have evidence.

    Okay, thank you, if he sues me for a lawsuit, how much does it cost him.

    Article 13 of the Measures for Payment of Litigation Fees Case acceptance fees shall be paid in accordance with the following standards: (1) Property cases shall be paid cumulatively in accordance with the following proportions according to the amount or value of the litigation claim: 1

    if it does not exceed 10,000 yuan, 50 yuan shall be paid for each piece; 2.The part exceeding 10,000 yuan to 100,000 yuan shall be paid according to the payment; 3.The part exceeding 100,000 yuan to 200,000 yuan shall be paid at 2%;

Related questions
11 answers2024-04-25

Since you have seen that he is not a responsible person, and you have been disappointed, and you have discovered many of his faults through your interactions, if you feel that you can go further, then be tolerant, understand and cover everything, communicate with each other when appropriate, and give each other their opinions. If you also have the heart to let go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, willing to be willing, willing to be willing to gain, and then entangled for a long time, you may suffer the grievances will increase, and your feelings are constantly degenerating, he is kind, good people have their own place, rather than so tired to maintain this relationship is better to be a little simpler, just like in the end there will be no beautiful results, why bother to keep chasing it......You are also very kind, otherwise you wouldn't care about the emotional foundation that went through ups and downs in half a year, people always have spirituality, and it is inevitable to have emotional interactions, if you have another him, everything will fade away.

8 answers2024-04-25

Hate because of love! Normal, be sensible! Even if you can't be together, why force it! >>>More

28 answers2024-04-25

Look at what kind of so-called "disrespect".

If he wants to develop with you, he must have a long-term plan, and communication with your family is essential. >>>More

24 answers2024-04-25

Then you must not be doing very well at home. Otherwise, his friends won't say how bad you are. >>>More

22 answers2024-04-25

It doesn't matter, no matter how well you get along with him, you can do whatever you want, it's okay to break up, it's okay not to break up, I don't have feelings for you, I don't care about you, such a boyfriend should be separated early, I don't care if you go or stay, are you still interesting with him, find a new boy who cares about you, a boy who likes to stay with you every day, a boy who sees you as particularly important, <>