When a person is subjected to some gossip, how can he resist it?

I don't know what happened to you, but I want to say that gossip is often unproven. Many times the impact of gossip is even beyond our imagination, there are such things in my family now, and it will even affect my married life, of course, this does not refer to my personal problems, many times we can't face these, but looking back, no is no, there is yes, rumors are only temporary, this is just a matter provoked by boring people, because people who don't know the truth are not qualified to make any comments, as long as they do the right thing, You have to stick to it, and if you give up, you give in to the rumors, and then they will only feel that their speculations have been confirmed, and it will not do us any good. Bao, the suffering rumors are temporary, and the escape at this time will only make us not have the courage to face the next life, as long as you believe in it, then stick to it, I support you ......

Sometimes the parties think that each other is a very pure relationship between men and women, but in the eyes of others, they don't think so, after a long time, even the strongest person will not be able to resist the blow of gossip, and gradually the relationship between the two people will deteriorate, either gradually drifting apart or will become another relationship. Sometimes it's when two people just get in touch, one just wants to be a simple friend and the other wants to be another relationship, and after a long time, that person's thoughts will be revealed. If you accept it, the relationship between two people will become lovers, and if you don't accept these two people, you may become strangers!

Hey, I'm about to go through it, and maybe for the rest of my life, but I've decided to face it, live my best life, and fight back against the gossip.

I often say that the workplace is like a battlefield, although there is no cold weapon in the workplace to fight each other, but the competition between this kind of gossip in the workplace is very rampant, although he does not want to be fatal like a cold weapon, but this kind of gossip can slowly control people to death, if you pay attention to this kind of gossip in the workplace, others will say that you have done something bad dog jumped off the wall, all look at your jokes on the side, if you ignore the gossip, then the gossip is intensifying, In the end, you will be ruined, so many people in the workplace are very distressed by gossip, it is not appropriate to fight back strongly, and it is not appropriate to ignore it, so how to deal with this kind of gossip in the workplace?

First, show weakness and fight back. There are always some people in the workplace who deliberately raise the bar, they seize your weaknesses, deliberately squeeze you, ridicule you, if you are more impatient at this time, and they quarrel, it is in their arms, on the one hand, you do not necessarily fight for others, on the other hand, you maintain your own face and quarrel, so that you give others the feeling that your vanity is very strong, avoid mistakes, can not face up to your own problems, the more you quarrel, then the more problems you show others, You must know that others can kill you with a word, I remind you that you are for your good, so that you don't make mistakes in the future, so that you are dumb and eat coptis, you can't say bitterness, you can only watch others bully, so your right way is to show weakness, others say that you are wrong, then you admit your mistakes, and thank him for his guidance, praise him in public for being a good person, you admit it like this, everyone will focus on the body of saying bad things, everyone will say that the other party is mean, In this way, you not only show your own mind, but also let the other party completely expose it, killing two birds with one stone.

Second, the silence is fired back. In the face of some people's deliberate provocations in the workplace, don't deal with it head-on, to know that there is no harm in bowing your head at the right time, to know that bowing your head is an ability, it is not inferiority, nor cowardice, it is a transmutation in sobriety, only by bowing your head can you come out, you must know that your tolerance will allow you to avoid a lot of unwarranted disasters, your tolerance will completely expose others, the more obvious he realizes, the more exposed he is, the more he can catch his handle, because of your enough forbearance your colleagues will sympathize with you, will think that you are more honest and good to socialize, although they may not necessarily help you, but at least will not harm you, you must know that the Chinese Qiaohan are sympathetic to the weak, when you wait for the destruction of you to endure to a certain extent, you will find an opportunity to completely break out once, show your temper, seize the handle of the other party step by step, and your opponent because of your outburst, will become the object of a thousand people, so the more you bow your head in the workplace, the more humble, the more you raise your head, the more arrogant, in the end it is inevitable that the chicken and egg will be empty.

Use these 3 methods well to easily deal with gossip.

1.Don't get angry when a colleague says bad things about you. Be calm, and if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

2.If you know from other co-workers, they say bad things about you. When you hear this, you can't take it too seriously and compete too hard. If only you knew it in your own heart.

3.Find a suitable opportunity to chat with other colleagues in the future, and when everyone is excited, you can praise the colleague who often speaks ill of you.

03.Get along with colleagues and chat with high emotional intelligence.

Chat with colleagues with high emotional intelligence.

For example: treat your colleague Sister Zhang (according to the way you usually call your colleagues).

Speaking of which, I suddenly thought of Sister Zhang, she is really careful in doing things, I remember that there was a typo in my document last time, I didn't check it, she helped me find it.

Remember, it's an unintentional compliment, not a deliberate one.

In the future, on any occasion, you can inadvertently compliment your colleague. For example, when colleagues are eating hot pot together, when they are eating energetically, when they are discussing some topics.

That's when you can say:

Speaking of which, I thought of our company's Sister Zhang, she is really a person who is very good at photography, and every time she looks at the ** of her circle of friends, she is so beautiful.

As long as you insist on praising this colleague of yours from time to time behind your back, after a long time, this colleague of yours will not dare to speak ill of you behind your back.

As the saying goes, those who talk about right and wrong must be right and wrong.

Your colleagues often slander you behind your back, but you often praise her behind your back and give her extra points.

If she keeps saying bad things about you behind your back, it is estimated that more than half of the people in the company will want to stay away from her by then. Because chewing on the root of the tongue is a habit, who wants to be with someone who ruins their reputation?

Face it sensibly, be good to ourselves, silence those gossips, and bury them ......If it really doesn't work, draw a circle and curse ......

2. In this case, we should defend ourselves against the law, but we must have evidence, so when we encounter this kind of thing, we must first be calm, we must correct our mentality, be confident, be firm in ourselves, do our best, and still treat others sincerely, I know that it is difficult, but we must persevere, be cheeky, dead skin, and then wait slowly, I believe that those who spread gossip will be punished as they deserve, and time will eliminate everything.

3. Don't pay too much attention to it, otherwise you will be hurt in the end. For those who like to spread rumors and slander, I hope they can become kind, otherwise they will be attacked one day. There are two sides to everything, you can't make everyone like you, there are those who like it, and there are naturally people who don't like it, which is a normal thing.

4. No matter how good or bad you are, there will always be people who make irresponsible remarks, and the best way is to ignore it, just live your own life and live your own life.

Ask me more.

Answer: Yes. When you are not excellent to a certain extent, it is the most likely to cause controversy, but when you step from excellent to excellent, then there will naturally be countless people who will become your believers, so as to become your public welfare propagandists to help you spread word of mouth, and then gossip will naturally fend for itself like feudal superstition.

Questions are being asked.

Answer: If you have done nothing wrong, why should you be afraid to face those gossip? Gossip is the most disgraceful of all and will only spread in private. And if we take it out in public to bask in the sun, or even mock the contradictions between gossip and reality in a ridiculous tone, it will also show that we have nothing to fear, and then those who spread it privately should be nervous and afraid.

Remember, the more sunny you are, the more obscene the slanderer will appear. Why? Everyone else will look down on him:

What kind of ability is it to have the ability to directly reflect other people's problems in the most formal way, and even speak ill of people behind their backs and even use some verbal violence like Internet trolls from time to time? ”

In fact, the real masters know that the best way to look down on a person is to keep their mouths shut, rather than using vicious words to demean to show their taste and sense of existence. Dealing with unworthy people makes it easier to lower one's level.

1. Be open-minded, do things openly, and don't do bad things without fear of ghosts knocking on the door. There is no ghost in my heart, so naturally I don't have to be afraid of anything. 2. The body is not afraid of shadows.

Gossip is inevitable. If you want to open up, don't take those gossip too seriously. Of course, if the other party slanders you and leads to serious consequences, we must stand up and fight with reason, and don't be submissive and shrink our heads.

3. Properly remind those colleagues who spread rumors to make a pun, not to refute directly, and hurt the relationship between colleagues, otherwise, the future work will not be carried out.

Living in this world without rumors and rumors is impossible, it mainly depends on your own attitude, just sneer at it, many things are mainly gossip about people, this is human nature, and it will naturally get better after time.

Restrain yourself and don't get angry.