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If you are rejected for dinner, if you are rejected by someone you like, then there are two situations: first, the other party doesn't like you, and second, it does conflict with the time of the appointment. Then say "then I will have the opportunity to invite you again in the future", or directly say "It's a pity", in fact, it is also a common situation to be rejected for dinner, just think about why the other party will refuse, don't take it too seriously, I hope it can help you!
If you are pursuing a girl, then you can look at the thatched house three times, if you can't do it once, then invite it twice, or in another way, invite you to watch a movie, travel in the future, and participate in some activities together in the future, which are all good choices! Hope it helps!
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Hello, you can reply like this: I just received a **, a little urgent, I don't have time today, we'll make an appointment another day.
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If you ask the other party to eat and are refused, the other party should be deliberately keeping a distance from you, and don't want to develop a more intimate relationship with you.
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How do I reply to a rejection of an appointment to eat?
First of all, it depends on what your situation is, if it is a man and a woman dating, then it is okay to be cheeky and make another appointment, and at the same time see what the other party's attitude is, if it is very bad, there is no need to date.
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In the face of the girl's rejection, don't choose to continue to ask the reason for the rejection, and rationalize what the girl said. Find a reasonable reason for her, simple and not too exaggerated, in order to give her a step down. If the girl really doesn't want to come out, don't continue to invite at this time, and turn it into a light topic.
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Here's how you can say it to your girlfriend. How can it be a girlfriend to make an appointment for dinner, this kind of thing should be done by us boys.
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How to reply to someone's invitation to eat with high emotional intelligence: follow your friend's words and question your friend's sincerity with the same joke.
1. Follow your friend's words
If a friend uses a joking remark that he wants to invite us to eat; Normally, I follow what he says. Agree to his invitation and then tell him what he wants to eat, so that the joke can continue.
Of course, in the end, he doesn't really want to let his friends have dinner, which goes against his original intention and leaves a bad impression on us.
If someone takes a friend's joke seriously, it can create an awkward situation for the other person. Therefore, when following the other person's words and continuing to chat, we only need to stop in moderation, and in the tone, there should also be obvious jokes.
2. Question your friend's sincerity with the same joke
Among our many friends, there is a very unreliable group of friends who always like to write some blank checks and have fun with them. In the face of such jokes, I think in the first two times, everyone can accept it; But as the number of jokes increased, I slowly lost interest.
In such a situation, I would also use joking words to question his sincerity. They usually ask, do you really want to invite me to dinner? I'm very good at eating, or "You're saying something fake!" "Wait.
Use this kind of words, too remind friends, such jokes are not funny, it is better to try to be as little as possible in the future.
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It depends on how the person who invited you to dinner has a relationship with you:
1. If you are very good friends and colleagues, the relationship between you is not to refuse to eat once or twice There will be any estrangement, even if you don't eat for ten or eight years, you are still a confidant, then there is no problem of politeness or impoliteness, directly say the reason why you don't want to go, if you find a bunch of hypocritical politeness, it will be confidant alienation!
2. One-sided friendship or general friendship, to delay their own things, not to go and hinder the situation, this is a polite refusal is very necessary. So this kind of meal should be rejected from the beginning. If you refuse at the beginning, there is no downside to it, let him see that you have a principled side.
Have the courage to face the tension brought about by saying "no", and the boundaries of health are established after "no".
3. Business dinner, I feel that it is helpful to my work or life, although I don't want to go, but I still want to go, I have to weigh the pros and cons, and it is best not to refuse if the pros outweigh the disadvantages. It's easy for you to refuse this kind of dinner, but you have to think about it first, eating together is an excellent platform to communicate the feelings of colleagues, if you don't communicate often, it is very likely that people will not look for you in the future. At work, if you don't have good relationships, do you have the ability to manage other aspects of your job, your business, your (e.g., promotions, etc.).
If you shirk it a few times and don't go, people will naturally not look for you, and you will be forgotten, and you may have lost a lot of opportunities. I think you can go to this kind of dinner if you don't have anything else to do, and you don't need to spend money. You don't want to go, or maybe you don't have a topic with them, forcing yourself to find a topic with them, blending in with them, and making you happy every time you meet, is an important point in exercising your interpersonal communication.
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1. If the customer takes the initiative to invite, you can politely refuse, for example: "I'm sorry, I'm busy with work right now and I'm not available." Or, "I'm sorry, I'm still in a meeting at this time, so it's inconvenient to come out."
If the customer is invited in the name of work, you can tell him euphemistically: "Our company's system is not allowed to go out casually, if you have something urgent, you can call me." 2. If the customer invites you in the name of an individual, you can tell him directly:
I have something to do right now and can't eat with you, so I'll treat you to dinner next time I have the chance. 3. If the customer invites you in the name of the company, you can tell him euphemistically that your boss is not in the company, or the boss is out, you can say: "Our boss went out to talk about things, I don't know when he will come back, you can wait for him to come back and have dinner together."
4. You can also directly tell the customer that your company is not available now, and you can make an appointment with him another day.
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Friend: 1You can politely reject the other person once or twice, and then explore what the other person means first, why do you want to eat together?
2.If you're a woman, I recommend bringing your colleagues and having the opportunity to pay a visit that they don't have time to consider! But first observe and find out what it means.
3.If you think my method is inappropriate, I recommend bringing a reliable colleague or friend to the appointment, if you can make a friend during a meal, it is not a terrible thing! Maybe there's a better return? The key is to make sure you're safe!
4.Tell your manager what you think, use his experience to help you analyze it, and maybe have a good suggestion!
Understanding each other is a good practice, people do have something, don't think too crookedly. The next time you make an appointment, if you are repeatedly rejected, that is. People don't want to get along with you. Long live understanding. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Just know it in your heart.
Refused. You keep trying, but if you refuse again. You don't want to cross paths with him. You can only be friends, and friends don't have to eat.
Maybe it's true.
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