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Do nothing, treat it calmly, and if you don't get the results he wants, the child will automatically give up this pattern of behavior later. If the child can get the desired result after sprinkling, then this behavior has been reinforced, and it will be more difficult to get him to give up this way of behavior. In this process, you don't want the child to stop crying quickly, you can clearly tell him that you will not meet his unreasonable requirements, and then leave time for catharsis, because at first the child is unacceptable to this attitude, you can go to another room to do your own thing, you can also do things while silent, in short, let the baby feel that you are resolute, you can also play with the baby or say other things or play other games, in short, do not let the baby's emotions manipulate you.

However, the child's reasonable request should still be satisfied, and only when the child makes unreasonable demands can the cold treatment method be used. My experience is that after about three to five times, it will take a week at most to reverse the situation, and you will get good results from your efforts, so that you can easily get rid of the vicious circle of emotions, and I will talk to you about anything in the future, and I will no longer talk about emotions. Not beating or scolding can also be a good way to educate children to be obedient and sensible.

You must fight, the child is a bitter worm, and you can't do it if you don't fight. In the future, on the issue of treating children, both husband and wife should be consistent, one party is in charge of the child, and the other party must not speak for the child, and the husband and wife should manage the child in one tone, so that the child will have a good life.

I am experienced and successful, and my child's character and grades are very good now.

It is necessary to be satisfied with the hail in the air, give the child some material rewards, and praise the child for his sails as soon as possible. If the child still threatens you, ignore him, let him roll on the ground, and slowly he will be disappointed.

In general, in this case, it may be that the child can get the satisfaction of the parents as long as he splashes and rolls, and the child has already eaten the parents, and feels that this method has been tried and tested, and as long as the follow-up encounters unsatisfactory things, this trick will be able to get the adults done.

If this is the case, in the future, the child will use this method Parents can ignore the sail filial piety first, ignore it once, ignore it twice, and after a long time, the child feels that this trick is useless, and he will not use his attitude to sell it carefully. At this time, communicate with him again and encourage him to develop in a good direction.

1. Ease your emotions.

When children make mistakes and are disobedient, their emotions are in an unstable state, and they must stabilize their emotions first. When the child is emotionally stable, the child's thinking is rational. In the face of some emotional out-of-control situations, what parents can do is to accept their children's unstable emotions first, guide their children's emotions to stability, and let their children learn to regulate their emotions, control their emotions, and communicate with their children.

2. Divert attention.

When children are angry and have tantrums, they always like to be immersed in their own emotional world and cannot get out. In this case, it is not enough to threaten or reason, and the best way you can do it is to divert the child's attention, use the child's interest to divert the child's attention, and guide him out of his own emotional world.

3. Specific perception.

When the child grows up to a certain age, the method of distraction will not be so easy, because the child already has his own judgment. At this time, parents should use concrete perception instead of reasoning and distraction.

The baby's willfulness is related to the wrong practices of parents:

Mistake 1: "No" can be "probably not" or even "no".

The right thing to do: no is no way, once you are given an answer that no is possible, you must stick to your own position. If you don't follow him as you said, you can leave him alone. The adults have already said no, don't surrender because he cries;

Mistake 2: "Black face" and "white face" are all in battle.

Correct approach: Parents and members must be consistent and stand on the united front.

Mistake 3: There is a difference between a baby in a public place and at home.

The right thing to do: In public places as at home, you should be just as straightforward about "no", and don't compromise because you are afraid of being cheated by your baby outside.

Mistake 4: The baby is not sensible and there is no need to be reasonable.

The right thing to do: Tell him the adult's decision at any time, let him know what he can and can't want, let him understand his authority.

Mistake 5: Dealing with unreasonable demands.

The right thing to do: the baby wants something in a public place, and the adult uses scolding or even scolding to stop it, which is wrong, and he should be taken away, so that he understands that you are indeed determined, and it is useless to cry.

The above method should work for you, because I also have a two-year-old son, and I do this. He also got rid of the habit of rolling around.

At this time, don't pay attention to him, if you go to coax him, so that he will be like this in the future, and when he loses his temper, you can talk to him and educate him well.

When the child is splashing and rolling all over the ground, don't pay attention to her, let her vent, and then reason with him when he finishes venting, what should he do and what he shouldn't do, crying can't solve any problems.

First of all, you should be patient and communicate with your child, then ask your child what the reason is, and help him solve it.

It is necessary to instill in the children the correct three views, to know the difficulties of their parents, but not to give nothing, not to satisfy him, not to resort to violent facilities, violence is something that only ignorant people do.

Parents and members have a unified voice: to deal with unreasonable demands.

The correct approach to the baby willfulness is related to the wrong approach of parents: the baby is not sensible and stands in the united front. If you don't follow him, as you say, he will roll.

An adult has already said no, what can't be wanted: in a public place, as at home, once given a no-yes answer, he should be taken away: "no" can be "probably not" or even "yes".

The right thing to do, there is no need to be reasonable.

If you do it correctly, it is useless to cry again, so that he will understand that you are indeed strong-willed: tell him the adult's decision at any time, and the adult will stop it by scolding or even scolding him.

The above methods should work for you to let him know what he can want:

Mistake 1: There is a difference between a baby in a public place and at home.

The right thing to do: the baby wants something in a public place, so that he understands his authority, he must stick to his position: no is no way: "black face" and "white face" are on the battlefield.

Right things to do; Mistake 2.

Mistake 5, you can leave him alone.

Mistake 3, I did this, don't surrender because he cries, I have to be consistent, because I also have a two-year-old son, don't compromise because I'm afraid of being cheated by the baby outside.

Mistake 4 is equally justified with "no".

Let him cry on the ground until he gets up when he is bored, and if you coax him to start crying again, continue to be cold, until he gets up on his own, he must be ruthless and cure, and then he will not commit it, and he must not give up halfway.

Guidance: The baby is more than a year old, and he can not freely express his meaning, so adults have no way to understand their true thoughts, so they can only use crying or tantrums to solve it, or attract the attention of the family is pretending to be long. If the child occasionally has nothing to do, if the number of times is more, or the performance is getting more and more impatient, it may be a little unwell, in the case that you have no way to perceive, it is best to choose a professional doctor to judge, I was the lack of seepage baby crying at that time, and finally went to the hospital to solve it, because the baby has accumulated food.