What are some of the best ways to educate naughty children?

Introduction: The younger the child, the more naughty he is, because the child is naturally curious, and he wants to know about everything. Parents should maintain a tolerant and understanding attitude when facing such children, otherwise they are likely to be angry with their children.

But your anger doesn't do much for your child, they just feel happy.

First of all, it is necessary to find the child's shining point, for this kind of naughty child, their shining point is very much, we must catch his shining point, and then to encourage, let the child know his own advantages, and then to say his shortcomings again. Praise first and then make suggestions, so that the child can make a self-transformation. Of course, it is important to give affirmation when your child is transformed, otherwise it will feel meaningless.

For such children, they are actually trying to get the attention of adults, or to get the attention of teachers. Because most teachers like the kind of children who are more well-behaved, or those who are more capable. And for these naughty children, they are the objects that the teacher doesn't like very much, and the more this happens, the more it will cause the child's rebellious psychology.

In order to get the teacher's attention, they will be more naughty, so be sure to give the child a chance to behave, and then encourage the child to let the child slowly correct his behavior, so that the child knows that the teacher likes the kind of behavior that is more well-behaved or can control his behavior.

Regardless of whether the child's naughtiness is beneficial or not, it is necessary to know that this naughty behavior is normal, so it is important to let the child improve his self-control. Otherwise, parents will not be able to restrain their children in the later stage, and they will become more and more uncontrollable, so they must find something to learn the best thing to control themselves, which is to find the kind of games that require stamina and need to be quiet.

First, follow the path, second, make a plan according to the characteristics of the child, third, you can use the way of suppression, fourth, be serious, and fifth, pay attention to the way you speak.

It should be a way to punish, and it is also appropriate to encourage the child, for example, when the child is particularly obedient, tell the child that you did a great job today, and reward him with something. In this way, the child may not continue to be naughty next time. Be punished if you do something wrong, and tell your child why he did it wrong.

The best way is to let the child do something, you can also discipline the child, you can arrange some work for the child, you can reward the child, you can also punish the child, so that you can educate your own child, you can make the child realize that his behavior is wrong.

It is important to educate children that this kind of naughty behavior is particularly bad, and it is also necessary to educate children to let them sit quietly in a place.

Parents should actively guide their children, and at the same time should set a good example for their children, let them develop a good study habits, establish a correct three views for their children, and should strictly educate their children, never spoil their children, and never indulge their children.

You should understand what your child is interested in, nurture your child from the side, understand relevant knowledge, and play games with your child.

Children's growth is a matter of concern to parents, many parents are at a loss to educate their children, and they do not know how to correctly educate children who make mistakes, but in order to make children grow up healthily, parents need to do these things right. Children of different ages have different education methods, and they cannot be generalized, and the education methods of parents should also change.

Different education methods for children of different ages

For the mistakes made by children who have just become conscious, parents should set an example to correct and guide them. Many young children don't want to grab other people's peaches when they see them, but this way is absolutely wrong, as parents can give examples of both people, and tell their children that this practice of stealing other people's things is absolutely wrong. At this time, the guidance of parents is crucial, because the child does not understand when reasoning with the child, but the parents and both parents give examples to the child, which can promote the child's understanding.

Pay attention to your child's comprehension skills

For children who are already in kindergarten, they have the ability to understand the basics. At this time, they are making mistakes and need to be taught by their parents. When children in kindergarten have arguments with other children, parents must teach them harshly, and tell them why this is wrong and what the consequences will be, although the children are very young, they must make them understand that there will be serious consequences if they do so.

At this time, the child already has a preliminary understanding of right and wrong, and parents should let them distinguish clearly and understandably.

Words and deeds are equally important

For older children, parents should take their teaching to the next level, telling them why they can't do it, and the consequences or what the consequences of doing it are, many mistakes that children make in adulthood are actually very simple, and if parents teach them in a timely manner, this will not happen if they are taught in a timely manner. If the child is growing up, the mistakes that the child will make when he becomes an adult. Parents should let them solve it themselves, many naughty children will break the glass of other people's homes, at this time they should ask the children to come forward to solve it, to apologize, to think about the corresponding consequences and measures, so that the children know that it is not easy to solve the problem after making mistakes, and they will know that they will change their mistakes.

We should educate children on their psychological quality, and we should also pay attention to children's ideological education. Children should also be educated in some moral aspects, three views should be educated, and character should be educated. You should also set a good example and teach by example.

Limitations should be taught, and children should be restrained by their own behavior, so that children can understand how their actions should be.

You can reason with your child, or you can convey some correct knowledge to your child through some games, so that you can get the right education.

We must communicate more, analyze specific problems, find out the problems existing in children, and then communicate patiently with children to improve children's concentration and attention.

The education methods of naughty children include moderate exercise, cultivating observation ability and correct cognition, formulating rules for children to follow, doing a good job in psychological education and guiding children to consciously correct.

1. Moderate exercise.

Parents need to fully respect their children's play needs and provide them with age-appropriate sports, such as playing basketball, football, table tennis, etc., so that children can vent their excess energy, so as to improve their naughty and active personality. However, it is necessary to pay attention to safety protection during sports to avoid accidents.

2. Cultivate observation ability and correct cognition.

Guide children to pay attention to the essentials and methods of sports in play or sports, so that children can gradually master the sail and hail skills of sports and play, not just blindly running and jumping, which can not only expand children's observation ability, but also give full play to children's nature. At the same time, it is also necessary to cultivate the child's correct cognition, if the child is too stubborn, stop the child's inappropriate behavior in time, and tell what the bad consequences and effects will be, gradually correct the child's behavior, and let the child slowly form a correct cognition.

3. Make rules for children to follow.

Tell your child that it is right to follow the rules, and that if you don't follow the rules, you will be punished for not being able to hold toys for 20 minutes. In this way, children can gradually build up a sense of abiding by the rules, so as to restrain themselves from being overly naughty and inappropriate.

4. Do a good job in psychological education.

If the child makes a mistake because he is naughty, parents should not scold him too much, but can patiently explain the reason to the child. If the child is excluded or frustrated because of naughty and active group activities, parents should work with the child to find ways to face and solve it correctly, so that the child can maintain a positive attitude from the psychological level and avoid emotional blows and adverse effects.

5. Guide children to consciously correct.

Some children seem indifferent to their problematic behavior, but their desire to improve is hidden. Therefore, when a child's naughty behavior has just appeared or has been repeated, we can use shaking the head and eyes to indicate that it has stopped, which not only protects his self-esteem, but also enables him to understand what we mean.