Share, how can I make a good relationship with roommates in my dormitory?

Learning to help each other, everyone is a child who left their parents to study, and it is not easy. Therefore, when life and emotions are not going well, roommates can give him the greatest help, and everyone lives together as if they are a family, and they should love each other.

The members in the dormitory are different from ordinary friends, they all look up and don't look down, so don't make the relationship too stiff. If there is a conflict between friends, you can not see each other for a few days, but roommates are different, and you can see each other if you don't want to see them. So try to be tolerant of your roommates and live peacefully and everyone is happy.

To learn to be tolerant, because the dormitory members come from all over the world, have different family backgrounds, and have different habits. Therefore, it is necessary to understand and tolerate the various habits and even minor faults of roommates. You can't have a conflict just because you don't get along with your habits, and you can't feel like you can't stay in the dormitory.

Roommates may have different living habits, eating habits, and even speaking accents, so they must learn to adapt without affecting their normal life. If it really affects your life, you should be polite and friendly to bring it up, and there must be no conflict.

Be tolerant, don't be too glassy and care about personal gains and losses, even if roommates can't become close friends, they still have to get along day and night for four years, just don't have contradictions.

Don't speak ill of other people. Everyone comes out of a kind child, and no one can deliberately do something that no one likes on purpose. So if some of his actions affect him, just say it politely.

Some people don't say it to their faces, but they say bad things about this person behind their backs, which is the worst behavior.

How to deal with the relationship between good friends and roommates? It's right to be close to friends, but roommates can't be ignored, because after all, they have been sleeping and living with them for three or four years, and no one can compare to this kind of feeling. Dormitory activities should not be neglected because everyone spends all day together.

Pay attention to the impact your behavior may have on your roommates, for example, if you like to stay up late but the lights will affect your roommates' sleep, then dim the brightness of the lights and pay attention to the fact that there is no sound during your activities at night. After all, there are so many people in a dormitory, everyone should be considerate and take care of each other, and not affect others because of their own enjoyment.

I think it's important for everyone to help each other, and if you get into trouble, the first thing that comes to mind is your roommate, and at the same time, your roommate is likely to become good friends. So if your roommate has any problems, pay more attention and help as much as you can. ‍‍

You can hold dormitory activities frequently, but a dormitory without dormitory activities is not a good dormitory, and a dormitory director who does not hold dormitory activities is not a good dormitory director. From the beginning of entering the dormitory, at least three group activities per semester, eating, shopping, playing together, watching movies, and karaoke can be. Practice has proved that there are often dormitory activities, and dormitory relationships will be very close. ‍‍

1. Treat each other sincerely. Entering a new environment is not only nervous and hesitant inside, but also the other roommates. Someone of us has to take the first step to get to know each other, whether it's a cheerful personality or a slow person, we should all work hard to get used to this roommate relationship.

The roommate is likely to be the one we will be with for the next few years, so it is extremely important to exchange sincerity for sincerity. For example, if a roommate's hair dryer is broken, we can take the initiative to lend our own hair dryer to our roommate. My roommate forgot to bring her a meal card, so we lent her a meal. Although these are small things, they are a bridge to bring roommates closer.

2. Don't always try to take advantage of others. Getting along with roommates, just like getting along with friends, can't always let others pay, and you definitely need to take some action. For example, others always share what they buy with you, but you always like to eat secretly and refuse to share it with others.

Once such behavior is recognized, the relationship will break down as quickly as possible. Roommates are the people we don't see when we look up, and maintaining these relationships is not only conducive to the harmony of the dormitory, but also related to whether we are happy or bored when we sell this good feeling. On the issue of taking advantage of others, we can even uphold the view that suffering losses is blessings, and let the other party more often, perhaps there will be fewer contradictions.

3. Don't talk about others behind your back. There is a saying that "if you don't know, you can't do it unless you do." Keeping your mouth shut is a very important part of your roommate relationship.

There are only a few people in a dormitory, try not to form a gang, which will only add to the trouble for yourself and everyone. If there is any misunderstanding between each other, everyone just talks about it, and they don't compete behind the scenes at all. Many people end up causing the relationship between roommates to crack, but in fact, it is because they gossip behind their backs, and as a result, the other party knows about it.

4. Take the initiative to integrate into roommates. We can take the initiative to communicate with them generously, listen patiently to their worries and stories, and confide in each other, which is a key step in bringing us closer. 5. Respect every roommate.

Mutual respect, mutual understanding, knowing how to empathize, not inquiring into other people's privacy, etc., are all important skills for getting along with roommates.

I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break. Because as a big collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Learning from the teacher and asking questions if you don't understand is the best way to learn knowledge. The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek support from teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by relying on the knowledge of others, it will be more effective. When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully. In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking the teacher, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and finch personality, and they can get along with the teacher and the school are very harmonious.

Ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand your own shortcomings from the questions, and acquire knowledge, but you will remember better. Secondly, ask questions to the main content, ask your own doubts, understand whether you don't understand, which knowledge point has an aspect that you don't understand, so that the teacher also knows how to help you answer the knowledge.

Understand the habits and hobbies of each simple person, and try not to disturb others when doing your own things in the dormitory.

Organize some group activities to strengthen the spirit of cooperation and collective honor among roommates, and narrow the distance between each other.

In the dormitory, because people are from different regions, we should respect their cultural customs, as well as some personal hobbies in daily life, get along well, don't make trouble, and communicate as soon as things are buried.

Living in a hungry house, I think the most important thing is to drink and call for food, don't interfere too much, don't be too curious about other people's things, everyone should give each other the most important respect, so that they will get along very yoga.

First of all, you need to adjust your mentality, you need to know that you come from different places, have different values and worldviews, come to different homes, and have different economic levels.

Go with the crowd, shout what are you doing to destroy others, don't worry too much about anything, the general roommates are very easy to get along with, everyone wants to spend college life in a relaxed and happy environment, so just follow the crowd.

Respect each other, tolerate each other, and communicate well to solve problems when encountering problems, so that you can have a good relationship.

Be sincere with each other, don't be selfish, be zealous to help others, and be mindful when others help you.

How can you manage the relationship between roommates in a dormitory? Communication is very important, and in some things, if there are different opinions, it is also necessary to have a good ditch and lead and more.

You can treat the other person's affairs as your own, and when the other party encounters any difficulties, you should help the other party.

In a dormitory, it is very important to manage the relationship with your roommates, and it is also a training process for you to integrate into the society in the future.

Mutual tolerance, everyone is living in a dormitory for the first time, there will definitely be some contradictions, mutual understanding, and it will get better slowly.

1. Take the initiative to integrate into your roommates.

Many people feel that they are incompatible with their roommates, have different interests and hobbies, and it is difficult to play, but in fact, everyone comes from different regions, and many differences are inevitable. Don't shirk group activities, it's the best opportunity to get in with your roommates, and on weekends and holidays, you can take the initiative to invite your roommates to hang out. A person who takes the initiative will not be too unlucky.

Understand that everyone in this world is an independent individual, and everyone's thoughts are different, and we must learn to respect and tolerate, as well as understand and sincerity.

2. Consider the feelings of your roommates.

It's a group life, any of your casual actions can affect others, we can't guarantee that we can do everything best, but we can try not to affect others. For example, don't talk loudly in the dormitory, especially between couples; Don't talk when someone sleeps in the dormitory; Close the door with a tap; Do not mop the floor when walking; Do not play out loud on the computer, etc. Dormitory life always involves a lot of details, and sometimes a conflict may accumulate from these details, as long as you consider the feelings of your roommates, the atmosphere will be much more harmonious.

3. Share more with your roommates.

If you tell a friend about happiness, you will get two happiness, and if you confide your sorrow to a friend, you will share half of your sorrow. Personally, I think it is more suitable for friends, and the relationship between ordinary roommates, talking about spiritual sharing may not be realistic. So what can you share with your roommates?

Share food. Food always has a special power that can create a lot of conversation and enhance feelings. Sharing is a wonderful thing that not only strengthens the relationship between roommates, but also brings happiness to oneself.

College students have to live in the dormitory for four years, and the roommates will become the people we spend the most time with and are the closest to us, so building a good dormitory relationship is the beginning of a good university life.

Here are three things that I think you should keep in mind and master in your university dormitory.

Respect and understanding, seek common ground while reserving differences:

After going to college, everyone's family environment and life experience in the dormitory are different, and everyone's personality is also very different, but we can choose to respect each other, such as respecting others' dressing styles, respecting others' hobbies and interests, respecting others' work and rest habits, respecting others' values, as long as we don't touch our own bottom line, don't quarrel with roommates or cold wars unless necessary.

Empathy, self-discipline and forgiveness:

People with the ability to empathize, his heart is not just his own person, but a lot of people, when we can empathize with more people, in fact, it also means that we can fit more people in our hearts, the so-called prime minister can hold the boat in the belly is empathy to bring us more imagination and more possibilities, we will be more understanding of other people's behavior and thoughts, more able to get along with others well. Discipline oneself and forgiveness to others, treat oneself and others can not be double standard, but should be more strict with oneself, and learn to be considerate and understanding of others. This will give others the impression that we are tolerant rather than aggressive.

Help each other and treat others sincerely:

If your roommate is struggling and asks for your help, don't be stingy and go for your help. I think most people still have a good character, you help her once, she will remember your good, and the next time you are in trouble, they will also come to help you. Usually you have to care more about your roommates, use your heart to open their hearts, sincere people are always the most likeable.

These are the three things I think are the most important things to have good relationships in the dormitory.

I hope that all students who read this article can have good interpersonal relationships in college and have a good four years! Remember, if you bloom butterflies, you will come!