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Anonymous users2024-02-16When I was a kid, I always liked to follow the adults. Especially on weekends, I always yelled for my parents to take me outside to play. Usually, even if my mother goes to the vegetable market, I am happy to never leave.
But I don't know when I started to change, I became reluctant to go around adults, and even during the holidays, I didn't want to follow them to visit relatives and friends. I love to shut myself up at home, do what I want to do, think about the problems I love, and just be quiet. I am sometimes surprised at myself and think that it may be because I am withdrawn and unsociable by nature.
Later, when I was a little older, I read a lot of Chinese and foreign books, and I gradually realized such a wonderful thing - being alone is not a beautiful moment and a beautiful experience in life, although a little lonely, but there is a kind of fulfillment in loneliness, it makes my heart ethereal and pure, and teaches me to feel full.
To be alone is to face yourself, to withdraw yourself from others and trivial things, and to return to yourself, then you can chew on life well and truly have a dialogue with your own heart. Chatting with others is just small talk, only when you are immersed in the masterpieces of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign masters, will you have a real spiritual understanding; Only when you face the vast mountains and the sea alone, can you really feel the communication with nature (the so-called "mountaineering is full of love in the mountains, and watching the sea is overflowing in the sea" is probably such a feeling!). It can be said that all spiritual life in the strict sense of the word is when you are alone.
Masters such as Rousseau and Immanuel Kant were particularly fond of solitude and saw solitude as a way for their souls to enjoy.
Of course, man is a social animal, he needs to interact with his kind, he needs to love and be loved, otherwise he cannot live. There is no one in the world who can endure absolute loneliness, but the person who can never endure loneliness is a person with an empty soul. There are some people in the world, they are afraid of being alone, as long as they are free, they have to find a place to have fun, some karaoke dance hall, bar or so on or just play mahjong, alone either to find someone to chat, or turn on the TV, endlessly watch those shoddy programs.
Because they are afraid of being alone, afraid of facing themselves, they can only escape in various ways.
Therefore, we need to learn to be alone, which is a good opportunity for self-reflection and a process of self-cultivation. In today's noisy and chaotic world, in this turbidity of materialism, you might as well find a pure and clear stream for yourself. Enrich yourself and improve yourself in solitude!
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