Can I go to my parents in law s house for the New Year after my father dies? He has an elderly man i

You can go, this is not in the slightest obstacle, and it has nothing to do with whether there are elderly people in his family. As long as your mother is willing, she is alone at home for the New Year, quite lonely.

It's completely okay to go, even if there are old people in his family, it doesn't matter, you have married someone else, it is normal to go to your parents-in-law's house for the New Year, and now your father has died, and only your mother is left in the family, and your mother is accompanied by someone, so you can completely go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year.

I don't know if you are from the countryside or the city, you are a married person, your home should be the home with your husband, the father you are talking about should be the father of your mother's family, is the death of his old man the reason for you to go to your parents-in-law's house for the New Year? Actually, no, your parents-in-law's house is your home, you and your husband are married, and your parents-in-law are your parents and elders, so you can go to celebrate the New Year, and you should also spend the New Year with the elderly, the old people on both sides are our elders, and they should take care of them, I hope your family is happy, be a good daughter and daughter-in-law!

My father passed away, can I go to my in-laws' house for the New Year? There are old people in his family, of course you can, go to your parents-in-law's house for the New Year, but you yourself are his family, your father, who died is your family, not your mother-in-law's family, you marry well, your husband is a member of their family, who can go to their house for the New Year?

You can definitely go, the old people can't ask for it, everyone is happier to celebrate the New Year together, and it also shows that you are a person with filial piety, filial piety is priceless, and the family will have a more flavorful reunion during the New Year.

You can go because you and your parents-in-law are family.

Absolutely.

But I wonder what other relatives you have in your family? If your mom is here, you should have spent the New Year with your mom, but if you're married, it's a different story, you're not married, and your mom agrees to spend the New Year with your brother or brother, and you can go if your boyfriend invites you.

As long as you are not superstitious, of course you can, the most important thing is to see how your in-laws are?

If they are particular about their family, don't go, after all, it's not good for the elderlyIf you live alone, you can bring both parents over. If you don't pay attention to your family, you can go to the New Year, you can ask your in-laws directly.

If there is no old man in anyone's family, no one will die one day, so there is no need to be too taboo about death.

You can ask your husband about the customs of their family, and you can ask your in-laws directly, it's a very simple thing.

If there is such a taboo in the local area, let the husband go back to the New Year by himself to take the children, or he will not go back for the New Year this year.

Don't be too superstitious about how your parents can go to your parents-in-law's house for the New Year when they die, why can't you go to the New Year?

If it's your first year, it's recommended that you spend the New Year at home by yourself. After all, the elderly sometimes taboo these things.

It's best not to go, when the time comes, the old man in his house will have a little problem, and then he will say that you are the victim.

All that can go is a family.

You go to your parents-in-law's house for the New Year, of course, you should, buy some gifts for the New Year.

Glad for your question. I don't know if your hometown is **, the north and south are a little different in the customs and habits of red and white things. In the north, if your old man has just died, especially during the "first seven" period, it is a period of filial piety, and during this period, you generally do not go to anyone's house, so as not to bring bad luck to others.

On the anniversary of your father-in-law's death, you are a family. Suggestions: 1. If it has been seven days since the death of your old man, that is to say, it is not in the period of heavy filial piety, it stands to reason that you should go.

2. The key is to discuss with your in-laws, whether they are willing to let you go, if they agree with you to go, if there are taboos, it is better to respect the opinions of your in-laws. Hope mine can help you and get your approval.

Your father passed away this year, so of course you should go back to your parents' house for the New Year this year, and now your mother's mood should be very sad, and you, as a daughter and son-in-law, should go home for the New Year and accompany your mother.

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Thank you for your patience and the pleasure of answering this question for you, the answer to this question is up to you and your family. Generally speaking, if you have a close relationship with your father's grandmother and you think you need to go to her funeral to show your grief and respect, then you should consider going. However, if you don't have a very close relationship with your dad's grandmother, or you can't go to her funeral for some reason, such as if you're in another city or country, or you're going through some personal issues, then you don't need to go.

Whatever decision you make, you can express your condolences and support by calling a family member. In this process, remember to respect your own feelings and needs, as well as other people's decisions.

Do I need to go to my father's grandmother when he died.

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Thank you for your patience and the pleasure of answering this question for you, the answer to this question is up to you and your family. Generally speaking, if you have a close relationship with your father's grandmother and you think you need to go to her funeral to show your grief and respect, then you should consider going. However, if you don't have a very close relationship with your dad's grandmother, or you can't go to her funeral for some reason, such as if you're in another city or country, or you're going through some personal issues, then you don't need to go.

Whatever decision you make, you can express your condolences and support by calling a family member. In this process, remember to respect your own feelings and needs, as well as other people's decisions.

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When you call ** to express your condolences and support to a family member, you can say something like: I'm sad to hear this, and I want to express my condolences and support. Please let me know and if you need anything from me, I'll do my best to help.

If you want to talk about your feelings or you need someone to listen, I will always be here for you. I will always miss him and her, he and she mean so much to me. I know this is a very difficult time and I am here to support you and your family.

Most importantly, express your concern and support and let them know that you are here to support them. Try to avoid giving unsolicited advice or trying to solve their problems. Instead, respect their feelings and tell them that you will always be here to support them.

Hello, I'm here to this question, the daughter-in-law's grandfather died, of course the daughter-in-law can go back to her in-laws' house during the Spring Festival, after the girl gets married, the in-law's family is the real home of the woman, she doesn't go to the in-law's house, that is, her home, she goes to **, it is normal for people to die of old age, sickness and death, as a daughter-in-law just go to the funeral for her grandfather, she can go back to her home at any time, originally the daughter-in-law and in-laws are the real family, most of her life is spent in this family, this home is her own real home, so, After the daughter-in-law and grandfather passed away, they could return to their in-laws' house during the Spring Festival.

Hello, here I want to tell you, there is no feng shui in this, the daughter-in-law must go back to her in-laws' house after the funeral, and there is also a saying that after a woman gets married, she does not have anything special to do not spend the New Year at her mother's house, so the daughter-in-law can not only go back to her mother-in-law's house but also must go back to her mother-in-law's house.

It depends on the local customs, and some places seem to be not allowed to go.

Why not? The Spring Festival is a day of reunion, just keep the deceased in mind, can't you even celebrate a normal festival?

If you care about spending time at your own house this year, don't go out.

The customs are different in each place, so you can ask your in-laws.

When my grandfather died, my father's relatives could go. After all, there is a kinship. It is normal for people to go and worship and comfort their families.

When your grandfather died, you are the one with filial piety.

Try not to visit immediate family members on my father's side.

It doesn't matter if it's a distant relative.