Does the boy say that he wants the girl to redeem himself after the breakup? Why?

If a boy proposes to break up, it has been carefully considered, and the girl may not have a chance to redeem it. Boys will not mention breaking up easily, boys are very rational in the face of breakups, once they propose to break up, it means that the boy's heart is dead or the boy has fallen in love with someone else.

Love needs boys and girls to manage each other, and if they don't manage it well, they will come to the intersection of breaking up. Once the boy has made the decision to break up, the boy does not want the girl to redeem it. It is useless for girls to redeem it, as the so-called freezing three feet is not a day's cold.

The two of them have been together for a long time, and there have been many contradictions, and they have not thought about solving them in time. So the contradiction is getting deeper and deeper, and in the end, they can only choose to break up, and the two of them can't get along. Boys ask to break up, of course, they don't want girls to make amends, because letting go is also a fulfillment of each other, and boys usually don't like to drag mud and water.

Boys and girls behave differently in love. Girls are usually very emotional and sometimes very headstrong. Girls like to be spoiled, and if it is not something that violates the bottom line of girls, they will not easily say that they will break up.

Girls say that most of the breakups are coquettish or angry with boys. The boy said that breaking up means that he is going to break up completely, and the boy feels that there is no love between the two people. So the feelings came to an end.

One part, two wide, each with peace of mind, the boy made the decision to break up, of course, he didn't want the girl to redeem it, because the boy had already thought it through, so this decision could not be changed by others.

Boys break up with girls, most of them don't want girls to make amends. Because the boy mentioned breaking up, it means that he doesn't love girls. Men love novelties and love romance. The boy is past the hot love period.

After that, they will be hot and cold to girls, which is a manifestation of gradually losing interest. It shows that the boy may empathize with the boy, and the boy no longer loves the girl, so he proposed to break up. Most of the girls can't change the facts if they want to redeem it, so the girls still persuade themselves to let go quickly.

Love is more important for each of us, it is an emotion in our lives, which can make us look forward to the future, and will greatly increase our happiness in life. Does the boy say that he wants the girl to redeem himself after the breakup? Why?

In fact, many boys don't want their girlfriends to redeem themselves after a breakup, because if they want to break up, they have lost the freshness of the relationship or they don't love it anymore, and they want to live a single life after the breakup instead of being disturbed. <>

One. Guys may not want their ex to redeem themselves after a breakup.

In fact, many boys don't want to be this bad guy when they want to break up, and they may use various methods to make their object unbearable and finally have to choose to separate, which is very cruel, in fact, it is to consume a person's emotions. Boys don't want their exes to redeem themselves after a breakup, because at this time they only yearn for a free life, because boys are easily bound in their relationships, because girls want to feel safe, they like to check their boyfriend's mobile phone, or restrict their circle of friends. <>

Two. After a breakup, you should calm down with each other, and the people you love will eventually come together again.

In fact, after the breakup, you should not keep it at the first time, you should give each other a certain amount of time to calm down, because at the beginning of the breakup, both people were in a very desperate state, and there may be too many misunderstandings about this relationship, maybe you want to live the life you want, and you will yearn for a life of being comfortable with love for too long. In such a situation, it is best not to keep the other party in the first place, because the boy does not realize how important the relationship is when he first breaks up. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think about this issue?

If the boy still loves the girl, even if he breaks up, he will hope that the girl will redeem himself. Because of love, boys still miss each other in their hearts.

When a person attaches great importance to the other party, but breaks up for some reason, the boy actually hopes that the girl can redeem himself, and at the same time, he will worry that the girl will not come to redeem himself. It is precisely for this reason that many boys actually regret it after breaking up, because they are afraid that girls will no longer take care of themselves, so they will lose their love.

1. The boy said that after the breakup, he would want the girl to redeem himself.

In real life, if a guy really likes someone, he will care a lot about the other person's feelings. Even if you break up with a girl because of some contradictions or hardships, you will very much expect the girl to redeem yourself in your heart. The boy himself does not take the initiative to redeem it because he does not know what the consequences of such behavior will be for the girl, and whether he will hurt her again.

Second, because there is still love, there will be thoughts.

In most cases, if the boy still has love for the girl in his heart, he will continue to look forward to their love. Because there is love in my heart, I will miss it very much, and the more I miss it, the more I hope that girls will redeem themselves, give themselves a step, and continue to go to the future with girls. When both people are in a state of inactivity, then the relationship may not be able to last for a long time, and it will slowly fade away, so it is still early to recover.

Third, there is also a kind of boy who loves face, even if he breaks up, he will hope that the girl will redeem himself.

In addition to the above-mentioned boys who still have love for girls, they will hope to redeem them, and there is also a kind of boy who hopes that his girlfriend can redeem himself. That is, a boy who loves face, he will think that he said he broke up, and then if the girl comes to redeem it, he will be very face-saving, thinking that he is valued by his girlfriend very much, and there is no appearance that he can't live. If you meet such a boy, it is better not to.

Therefore, in love, we must treat it rationally. <>

In fact, if a boy takes the initiative to break up, then the chance of them wanting to get back together is very small. Because boys are relatively very rational, they have already thought about breaking up once they propose to break up. And there will be no looking back.

The boy said that after the breakup, he hoped that the girl would redeem himself. Because the boy is actually still in love with the girl, it is just a momentary anger to say that the breakup is just a momentary anger.

I don't want to, because once the boys say to break up, they really have made up their minds.

If the girl still loves her ex, go to redeem it. In the emotional world, many people will encounter emotional problems, especially if they don't know how to cherish together, and regret it after losing, then they will understand that they still love him deeply, and in the face of such a situation, girls can take the initiative to choose to keep. However, during the retention period, it is necessary to master the ways and means to avoid pushing the other party further and further.

If the boy takes the initiative to ask you to keep him, it means that the boy still loves you, and you will definitely succeed in keeping him.

1.Make yourself better and better. To keep a boy's heart, what you need to do is to get better and better.

You're extra fat when you're with someone else. Then during the breakup with him, you will work hard, if you have been dealing with other people, your own economic development standards are not as good as his, then now you have to become more and more capable yourself, so as to attract his attention. And try to get him to see him differently.

This method retains the boy's heart more powerfully. They may feel that our previous decision to break up with you was very incorrect, and they may even regret making this decision before.

2.Actively admit your mistakes. If two people communicate, only one party takes the initiative.

Then the relationship must not be easy to last. If there was a conflict before, it is always the other party who takes the initiative to admit the mistake to you and coax others. So this time, why don't you try to take the initiative to coax him to admit his mistake and apologize to him.

Sometimes showing weakness like the other person will spark the boy's desire to protect you. Acknowledging your mistakes positively will also help you to reflect more and more on yourself, which will help you to become more and more extreme and others will accept you more and more.

3.Keep in touch with him. A mistake that many girls make is that once they break up with a boy, they delete all contact with each other**.

This personal behaviour is a way to escape hatred, and it is especially reflective of their high morale. But if one day you regret it and want to find him, it is likely that you don't even know his contact number. Even if there is no compound type, then the contact with everyone will become more and more awkward next time.

Not deleting the other person's contact** is to leave a way for yourself, and when you regret it, you can still have the opportunity to communicate with him, and you will appear particularly atmospheric.

Girls should take the initiative to apologize to him, take the initiative to be coquettish to him, take the initiative to give him gifts, take the initiative to find him, and take the initiative to ask him out to watch a movie.

Girls should guide boys correctly, should also pay attention to proportions and scales, and should also choose the right way to redeem each other, should not contact each other too often, and should not be unreasonable.

You must take the initiative to apologize, correct your mentality, and let the other party understand your sincerity, so that you can redeem the other party.

If a girl says that a breakup is for a boy to keep him, he must first determine what the other party really thinks. Some girls want to get attention, so they break up. But some girls have another one they like.

If it's the former, you can change yourself and care more about your girlfriend, then you will be redeemed.

If a girl says to a boy that she broke up and now the boy wants to keep the girl, in fact, you can tell the girl some beautiful things you used to be together, let him remember the good things you used to be, and then look forward to the future between you with him, if the girl is generally soft-hearted, maybe she will change her mind and be with you again, and then in this case, she is already talking to her, and she will definitely work harder in the future, and it will be different from before, and it will be the same good for you.

If a girl mentions breaking up, and a boy wants to keep a girl, he should put down his body at this time, and then apologize to the girl, and make some changes so that the girl can see her sincerity and determination.

When a girl says to break up, how should a boy keep it, it mainly depends on why the girl said she broke up, because the boy didn't do well enough, or because the girl didn't love each other anymore.

In fact, I think that no matter what you say, if that girl really likes you, and you quarrel and break up because of something, even if you say something very ordinary, or apologize and send a word of concern, she will not be separated from you, but if that girl really doesn't like you anymore, even if you say more, it won't change, you just silently bless her, this is the best way for you and him, haha, I'm just an ordinary girl, I don't know if I understand it this way.

First of all, we need to understand what the reason for this girl said to break up is because we don't do well, or it doesn't want to fall in love, so let's find a way to redeem it.

Boys have to make a change.

Because the girl took the initiative to break up, it must be because the boy was not good enough or cared enough about the girl, so that the girl did not feel safe.

Therefore, boys must change all those bad behaviors and habits, and then try to win back girls, so the probability will be greater.

Boys can recall with girls the good memories of the two of them, or if the boy did something wrong, he must apologize to the girl, if the boy does not give the girl enough security, then make a promise directly to the girl, so that the girl should not break up.

A girl's words say that if you break up, if the boy wants to keep it, of course he wants to keep it, and then keep it, and then keep it, in the future, I think well, a lot of the time, well, maybe the girl is just angry and has a little temper, and she doesn't really want to break up if she wants to break up.

Temporarily give the girl a cooling-off period, and then but it doesn't mean that it doesn't appear at all, you can do some small things that you did when you pursued her, and then ask her why she wants to break up after two or three days, and then the girl after a certain cooling-off period, and you did some small things he did to her, maybe the willingness to break up can be eased, and then at this time you put forward the intention of retention, the probability of success will be relatively high and you have to seriously reflect on the reasons for the breakup he proposed, Whether it's because you're not doing well enough, if you really like this girl and are willing to make changes for him, you can tell this girl sincerely and clearly express your feelings for her.

If the girl says to break up, and the boy wants me to keep the other party, I think I should first understand the reason for the matter and see why the girl wants to break up with you. Change again.