In a relationship, what do boys want girls to know?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.If we're together, I'll keep my distance from everyone of the opposite sex except mom, and hopefully you too.

    2.I hope that when you plan to watch dramas, review, and work, you can tell me what you are going to do, instead of suddenly disappearing, of course, after you finish watching the drama, put on the **, take a shower or finish your work, I also hope that you can send me a message to tell me - you are back, because I don't want me to suddenly disturb your work or make you noisy to watch the drama, and telling me that you are back after you are busy with your own affairs can also give me a sense of peace of mind. (I don't know what Zhihu's little brothers are like about this one, but I really hope my girlfriend can do it).

    3.If I do something wrong, please tell me, don't ignore me suddenly, I can't really guess what you're thinking sometimes, auntie, since we are a couple, it is natural to communicate well when we encounter problems, I hope you can express your dissatisfaction with me, instead of holding it in your stomach, and then start counting down to me, when you raise your dissatisfaction, I will find a way to correct it, I am really good at talking and communicating.

    4.If you are in a long-distance relationship, when you encounter something, you can talk to me, instead of feeling that your boyfriend can't help you if you're not in this city, tell him why don't you save him from worrying, you must not think like this, you think like this, there is a distance between us, even if I really can't help at all, I will find a way to make you happy.

    5.Since we have chosen each other, we should manage our relationship well, even if we can't get together in the future, at least we won't regret it.

    6.I can give a lot for you, I hope you can give back to me, not too much, even if it is a word, a look and a smile, I will remember it in my heart and will love you more and more.

    7.I will tolerate you, and I hope you will too.

    8.I like you.

    9.Chasing stars is your freedom, and as a boyfriend, I have no right to interfere. But please don't keep praising a certain male star in front of me for being very handsome, calling him husband in front of me, which will make me feel very uncomfortable (about this, my ex-girlfriend likes a certain male star, so I took her to watch a movie starring that male star, and when the male star appeared on the screen, she grabbed me excitedly and said, look!).

    My husband! I expressed suffocation......)

    10.Sometimes when we quarrel, I will take the initiative to apologize (if this matter is my fault, I will definitely take the initiative to apologize, if both of you have something wrong, I will also take the initiative to apologize), I do this to give each other a step down, so that everyone can calm down and communicate well, not to let you ask me what is wrong, nor let you continue to ignore me with a shelf.

    11.It's not easy to fall in love, everyone can do it and cherish it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. If there is a problem, say it directly, don't let the boy guess; 2. Boys are sometimes in a bad mood, not because of you, but because of the fact that the work is not going well; 3. Don't always have a cold war; 4. Keep your distance from other boys.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Boys will want girls to care more about themselves, and they will also care about some details. Boys need to be understood, generally speaking, girls like to be vexatious, but in moderation, they must learn to understand boys.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is more hoped that girls can treat them equally, and also give boys more care and care, and also hope that girls know that each other is very important, but also understand each other's minds, and don't always compare with others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. I hope that girls can know their minds and live up to their feelings. 2. I hope that girls will know that they will also be sad, and sometimes they will want a warm embrace.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't mention the breakup lightly. If there is a conflict, breaking up will not solve the problem. It's normal to have conflicts together, we need to run in with each other and understand each other. If there is anything I have done badly, you can tell me directly, and I will seriously reflect and apologize to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, a boy will want you to rely on him, and he will want you to know that he only loves you now, but most girls are very sensitive and always feel that boys don't love enough, so it is very important to be firm with each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Know your own interests and hobbies, know what you like and don't like, want the other party to empathize with you, think more about your own things, let the other party understand your own mind, and also want the other party to know that you want to spend your life with the other party, and so on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do boys in love most want girls to know? Like my friends, click "Follow" below, and write a comment below if you have any ideas! Friends who like my content can also **show your friends around you!

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are a few things that a guy wants a girl to know in a relationship:

    First, boys approve and allow girls to be petty, but don't be heavenly.

    Second, boys are not as sensitive and delicate as girls, and they can't guess the little ninety-nine in girls' hearts, and they will hope that girls can communicate openly and honestly. Girls are very emotional creatures.,As soon as it's a little broken, it's on the line.,Men are asked if they don't love themselves if they don't move.。 They will coax, even if they don't know what they have done to make their girlfriend unhappy, but over time, they will be tired and disappointed, and the disappointment will explode when it accumulates to a certain extent.

    Third, they want girls to love themselves, but they don't like each other's infatuation. And once a person is infatuated, the sense of need will burst, and he will involuntarily plunder his partner in time and space, which will make people feel involuntary and breathless, and boys are natural hunters and explorers, you can't wait to pounce on it and take out your heart to show him, it will make him unhappy for a long time, and he wants to escape.

    Fourth, please don't disappoint any boy who is good to you, now in society, everyone is very busy and under pressure, in this case, if a boy is wholeheartedly good to you, please don't take it for granted. Don't take love for granted.

    Fifth, you can be arrogant, but please don't be a princess all the time, I've seen the arrogant heads of many girls, let boys do this and that, or be unhappy at every turn, and then boys find a way, and the inexperienced ones will be coaxed as a heart-to-heart coax, and the experienced veterans will fish you anyway, which disrupts the rhythm of the boys' lives, and at the same time is also killing your love.

    Sixth, love in love is fragile, please stop making inappropriate jokes in front of them. No one's humanity can stand the test, and some girls in love always like to inadvertently torture their boyfriend just to get an answer, and at the same time hurt him while getting the answer.

    Seventh, don't be sulky in life, compared to a goddess who sulks in life, boys prefer those, and girls who have any problems are taken out and solved directly, so it's good for the girls themselves.

    Eighth, boys also need praise, now in this society, boys are praising girls, how beautiful, and then girls are disgusting their boyfriends, love is mutual, you have to see each other's advantages more, praise each other more, so that not only the other party is happy, your relationship will also get a qualitative leap, more solid. In short, if you want to live a prosperous life in love, don't be willful, girls who have self-control and are good at management will be the final winners!

    Therefore, the above eight aspects are what boys in love want girls to know!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The boy hopes that our relationship is reasonable, and when we encounter conflicts, we will discuss and solve them together, instead of you making trouble without being reasonable, and I will coax you well. I'm willing to pay for you, I'm willing to treat you to dinner and watch movies, I'm willing to buy you gifts. But don't take this as my job, and don't be arrogant enough to ask me to do more just because most boys do, or even get angry at me if I don't like your gift for you.

    I love you, but I don't owe you anything.

    Whatever emotions and grievances you have, you should at least let me know why. It's not a good idea to put on a face and let me guess. If we are together, I hope you don't tell me what brother and brother you know and male girlfriends, I'm not careful, but I know that since two people are together, they should be responsible and consider each other.

    Although we are together, we are still two independent people, I will have my own work, study, and life, and I also hope that you will have your own things to do. We support each other in life, share happiness together, and work hard for the future together, instead of one party being dependent on the other. I can chase you, but I can't keep chasing you all the time.

    I want our feelings to be balanced, and no one needs to beg, look up, or worship anyone. I'm good to you because I like you, and I want you to be good to me. If you compare yourself with your sisters, show off, and play awesome, then I don't think you deserve to be good to you at all.

    Feelings need to be managed and maintained, and two people need to run in and understand each other.

    If one day you yelled at me and said that I had changed, I would also ask you coldly, what about you, have you changed? I know I have a lot of shortcomings, but I've always been with you as authentic.

    I didn't pretend to be anything, and I didn't package myself as a high-end persona. If you don't like me, then don't lie to me, just tell me directly, don't take advantage of my liking for you, and don't force yourself to be with me. I am an ordinary person, with an average family and an average education, and I want better material conditions like you, but I hope that everything is obtained by the two of us working together, not from anyone or nowhere to be supported.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Boys in love want girls to know some things about themselves, the most obvious is that. Don't take me for a fool. Do you love me or not? Is it true to me? I can feel it.

    One. It is said that if the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight. is two people who are in love and walk together, they should cherish each other, but blindly let each other pay, but they are just empty gloves white wolves.

    Just no matter how the other party pays? It's always the way it should be. Take the other party's feelings inappropriately, and even keep asking for them.

    This is what will make the boy feel that this girl is playing on him.

    Two. Everyone is a strong person in life, but it also has the most vulnerable side, so you don't always think that boys should be brave and strong, and there is nothing sad about it. Once she is unhappy, I also want you to coax her, because boys sometimes need to be coaxed like a child.

    Three. Don't do anything to hurt this boy behind her back, because if she doesn't say it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't know. She is also very sensitive, and he also cares about everyone's feelings very much, and she is selfish.

    Same as I thought, so be it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For men and women in love, will they really taste the forbidden fruit? Don't rent back here, this is the most beautiful kind of story in the relationship.

    As for what things do girls in love want boys to know? I feel that it should be a single-minded person who feels hail sails and is unbridled.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I believe that all women's concerns and fears apply equally to men. People think that men are always cold lions, but in fact, they are also children who want to be spoiled in front of you. We are willing to give for our loved ones, but we don't want you to take that sacrifice for granted.

    John F. Kennedy, Love) I think the most fearful thing for men to fall in love is not to understand.

    Everyone thinks they are not afraid of anything, but in fact, the more responsibility they have on their shoulders, the more they are afraid. They seem to be relaxed, but they are afraid of losing their lover, afraid of snubbing their parents, afraid of giving their partner a good life, afraid of ignoring him and his cold war, afraid that you are not good enough and abandon him, afraid that you will be unhappy, afraid that you will slowly not love him, afraid that someone will laugh at him when he cries. The love that men need most is recognition and understanding.

    I think what men are most afraid of when they fall in love is that loving someone is just their own efforts.

    When you meet a man that you really try to like, you don't want to always squeeze him like crazy, you don't want to always command him, you don't want to give you enough care and love every minute, but you want to be with him and have a good time with him. I think one of them is kind and attentive to you, not to make you feel amazing, but to really think that you can be good to me. I think couples should do that.

    You can tell the other person what you want to do, or what you have in mind.

    Don't hesitate in front of the other person, always let one person guess. There is nothing that cannot be said in front of the other person. If a person does something wrong, tell them directly.

    I think what they need most is to communicate with each other, which is the best way to solve problems. Relationship management requires two people to work together. Relying on one person is not love, but persistence.

    Because there are great differences between men and women, conflicts and problems often arise when falling in love. But I think that as long as we have the determination and wisdom to get along, we can eliminate these contradictions and continue happily. Love doesn't come easily.

    If you can be together, you must cherish it.

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