Why are we always separated from each other? Is family or relationship important?

Everyone's personality and temperament are different, and your boyfriend may be the kind of person who is more sensitive at heart.

The boyfriend gets angry over a little thing and then cold-wars for days.

In this sentence, there are two situations: whether this little thing is a small thing that you think is a small thing, or whether your boyfriend seems to be a small thing.

Situation 1: If you think it's a trivial matter, then think about it differently, think about it from your boyfriend's position, if it's still a trivial matter, then it's much easier and brighter to deal with.

Situation 2: If it's not a trivial matter for your boyfriend, then I'm sorry, you have to apologize, explain why you did it, and try to get his forgiveness.

Here is a special mention of the first situation, which seems to be a trivial situation.

And the boy who has been cold fighting with you for days for a little thing.

First of all, this boy has a small belly, and he only has himself in his eyes, and the person he loves the most is also himself, don't doubt it.

A person who loves you will not have a cold war with you for days for something sesame, you have to think about what will be like with him in the future.

In the future, if he often fights with you like this, will you be able to stand it?

Second, ask yourself if you love him. If love, then make it clear to him, he deals with problems in this way and makes you very uncomfortable, this time you can forgive him, but definitely not a second time.

A boy who likes to deal with problems with the Cold War is immature, and you are not obligated to tolerate him and accommodate him.

Everyone is equal in front of love, he will not deal with the problems between you, and there is only one chance to use the cold war to force you to bow your head first, because you love him, you give him the opportunity to correct his mistakes.

Finally, see if he apologizes to you afterwards.

It is inherently undesirable for a man to like to use the Cold War to deal with love relationships. And smart men will apologize when they know they were wrong, say sorry or buy you some gifts to apologize. Such a man may really correct his wrong behavior, on the contrary, if he doesn't apologize, he doesn't realize his mistakes, then you should leave as soon as possible, because he doesn't love you at all.

It's not like you spoiled it yourself at the beginning... No way, in the face of love, whoever loves more is the loser!

Deal with men. Of course, I slapped a dense date. Men don't get angry unconsciously. It's possible that he's in a bad mood. It's also possible that you've done something he's angry about. Ask clearly, and it's over.

When you fall in love with someone, do you change for him? Think about it.

It should be difficult to come together, because such a family will not be happy when they come together.

may be able to come together, but they may not really be happy, life is so cruel.

It's difficult, unless there is no parental obstruction, there is still some hope, but it may not be happy.

I think it's okay, after all, two people are together, and the family factor is secondary.

It is not recommended to be together, family factors will be the main one, especially the kind where the woman's family is superior and the man's family is poor. Because you are not the biological children of each other's parents, there is naturally a certain estrangement. The superior party of the family will feel unbalanced about the contribution of his parents, and it is inevitable that his self-esteem will be hit sometimes.

After marriage, you have to face all kinds of difficulties, the more help the other party's family has, the more uncomfortable you will be, if you are not the kind of person who is very capable, the long pain is better than the short pain, divide it. If you are very capable, but it has not improved yet, it is advisable to wait and get married.

In my opinion, if there is a huge gap between the families of men and women, no matter how much they love each other, there will be differences.

Family is of course very important, because the relationship seems to be a matter of two people, but in fact it is a matter of two families, if the family creates a lot of pressure on two people, if these two people can't bear the pressure, they are likely to separate, if the family of two people is very supportive of two people, then they can go a long time.

Of course, it is important because the family can give selfless support, help you solve problems, and give you sound advice.

Family is really important, after all, there are children in the family, even if two people have no feelings, they have to choose to be together for the sake of their children.