Be sure to stay away from hypocrites, do you know how to discern them?

I won't do what I promised you, I am often late or miss your appointment, I will speak ill of others in front of you, and I will speak ill of you in front of others.

Observe their behavior, if they are inconsistent with their words and deeds, it is a sign that they are hypocritical.

The first thing to observe is whether they are inconsistent and will gossip about others behind their backs.

Hypocritical people are kind to you on the surface, but in fact, they are not sure how to slander you behind the scenes, and this kind of person is actually not sincere to you, so it is easy to distinguish them, depending on whether they are willing to share weal and woe.

From childhood to adulthood, we socialize with a lot of people and become friends with some of them. But Yan Wei, as we grow older, we will gradually recognize the essence of some people and find that the other party cannot have deep friendships. ......Specifically, when you grow up, you will find that mercenary people can't have deep friendships, hypocritical people can't have deep friendships, and people with indifferent feelings can't have deep friendships.

1. If you find that the person you are dating is mercenary, then you can't have a deep friendship with him.

It is normal for each of us to need to obtain benefits in order to survive and develop. However, when we obtain benefits, we must adhere to the principle of doing something and not doing something, so that "a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way." ...In real life, some people have reached the point of unscrupulous means in pursuit of profits, and this kind of mercenary people just can't make deep friends, and they have to be as far away from them as possible.

2. Hypocritical people are not of good quality. Such a person is a person who cannot be deeply acquainted.

For a person, the most important thing is character. People of good character are not only respected, but they can also benefit greatly from associating with them. ......However, there are people in real life who are very hypocritical, and such people are of poor character or even inferior character.

Associating with such people is not only detrimental to one's own development and progress, but may even damage one's own interests. ......Therefore, it is not possible to have a deep friendship with hypocrites.

3. Friendship with people is about feelings. Therefore, people who are emotionally indifferent cannot have deep friendships.

The communication between people is actually the exchange of feelings, so the most important thing to interact with people is actually feelings. Only when each other's feelings are sincere, can there be heart-to-heart exchanges, and the relationship between each other can continue to deepen, and the feelings can continue to develop. But among the people he interacted with, some people were very indifferent, no matter how they treated him, they couldn't get a response, and all their efforts were taken for granted in the eyes of ......the other partyDealing with such an emotionally indifferent person will not get his sincerity at all, so it is in vain to associate with such a person, and this kind of person is not worth deep friendship at all.

In life, people like to associate with sincere people, and a sincere person will be understood and forgiven even if he has inadvertently offended or hurt others.

But for hypocritical people, people are unwilling to deal with them out of disgust and disgust, and to put it bluntly, they just don't want to waste time and energy on such people. Of course, except for those who have the same smell.

Hypocritical people have a variety of performances, which are reflected in all aspects of life, words and deeds, such as yang and yin, duplicity, humility and kindness on the surface, but in fact arrogant and cunning, saying one thing and doing another, etc.

It is not difficult to identify hypocrisy, sometimes it is enough to rely on intuition, and it is easier to see a person's sincerity through specific interactions, working together, and dealings.

But hypocrites don't put a conspicuous label on them, they don't be stupid enough to let others see what kind of person they are at a glance, on the contrary, they will try to disguise themselves as likable and confuse people.

Those who do their best to flatter in front of the leaders, those who talk to others and echo them casually, those who greet others without smiling, those who exaggerate and can praise people, those who are overly enthusiastic about people, those who like to stand on the moral high ground and judge others, those who talk loudly, and so on, they rarely have sincerity at all, and everything they do is a cover to cover up people's ears and eyes, in order to win the trust or favor of others and grab a little personal gain.

We must be wary of the hypocritical people around us, and we must be careful when dealing with them.

In order to avoid the harm that hypocrites may cause or to get rid of their negative influences, it is necessary to adopt appropriate and proper ways and means.

Keep your distance and stay away. This is probably the easiest way to deal with hypocrites. Unless you have to, don't associate with such people, and even if you do, keep a safe distance and don't give them a chance to perform.

Follow the trend and govern others in their own way. Since hypocrites have no sincerity at all, we might as well attack the shield of the son with the spear of the son, pretending to be confused, as long as we are not embarrassed, they are the ones who are embarrassed.

The most decisive thing is to expose their hypocrisy and make it nowhere to hide. But the consequences of this must be considered clearly, whether you are willing to bear it, after all, many times everyone looks up and does not look down, if it is a colleague in a unit, you have to pick a horse spoon in a pot. Many times, the face still has to be taken care of, and it is embarrassing to tear it.

Hypocritical people, their lives should not be easy, in order to maintain the image of "sincerity" and "hail blind" in front of others, they try their best and rack their brains, for fear of revealing their feet.

Moreover, hypocritical people, because of their own selfishness when they say things against their will and do things against their hearts, may also have entanglements in their hearts, a trace of pain, most of them are not heinous people, they can never extinguish all the good in human nature, in their own opinion, they do this as a last resort.

At the end of the day, hypocrites are also pitiful.

Without a certain life, reading which blind can make Li Ju can not do it; But as long as you observe carefully, you will always find some clues, learn more about the people around you, and after a long time, God will naturally see it.