A couple of lovers who have been talking for a long time, will love turn into hate after a breakup?

Updated on healthy 2024-08-14
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    I think the answer is yes.

    When you love someone, you give everything for the other person, including your feelings, your youth, and you really want this love to continue to the end of your life.

    It's a pity that you are wrong, you have been in love for a long, long time, and it feels like you have become one, and you love to the point that you can't extricate yourself, but unfortunately in the end you still can't keep your looks, and finally end up breaking up.

    After the breakup, you will think of the sweet scene you had in the past, and you will fantasize about the horror of losing each other, so you will slowly hate in your heart, from love to hate, your hatred for him is your unwillingness, unwilling to pay so much, and still not get the due return.

    Because you are unwilling, so you want the other party to compensate, but what can you use to compensate for love, there is no substitute, it is this kind of unwillingness, you will hate him, hate him for not being by your side, hate him for hurting you in love, the more you give, the deeper the love, the more unwilling you are, the more you hate him.

    Therefore, it makes sense to hate because of love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    - Personally, I really don't think that the breakup was because I had been in love for too long!

    It really doesn't matter how long it takes to get married, the right one can't be separated from it for a lifetime, and if it's not suitable for love, it's three or five months before you get married, and you will eventually leave.

    I feel that after a long time of getting along and getting to know each other deeply, I found that the two were really not suitable before they broke up!

    It doesn't matter if you love or not, do you say you can be together for so long without love? It's all love at the beginning, it's the basic development process.

    So why did love break up after being together for so long?

    Because love and compatibility are really two different things. It's like love and liking are not the same thing!

    I love you but we don't necessarily fit in, and this kind of case abounds in life

    So, don't talk about love anymore and don't talk about it for too long, you will break up after too long!

    If you want me to say that you must talk about love for a long time, otherwise how do you know if it is suitable to dig the void rock? Do you get along well? Can you live?

    You have to know that when people first know each other, they will show their best side to each other for the sake of face or many factors, hiding a lot of unbearable, only after cohabitation or marriage will slowly be revealed, you don't spend more time to understand deeply and want to get married in three or five months, then in the end, you will be like most resentful women who think that the man who once loved you has changed and does not love you.

    In fact, the appearance after marriage is the real prototype!

    In the end, I found out that I was the most wrong person, and I mistook the beauty of the beginning for forever!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    1. The relationship is too long, and the urge to get married is lacking.

    The longer you talk, the weaker your impulse to get married. Psychologists believe that the best time for a couple to get married is between one and three years of dating, if it is less than a year, there is a lack of understanding, and after three years, when you feel tired and tired, you don't want to get married. And between one and three years, it is the best time to get married, which can ensure that you understand and have a yearning and impulse for marriage.

    2. In the process of getting along, it has long been found that it is not suitable for marriage, but it is difficult to change habits.

    Whether two people are suitable or not, it is already very obvious that they have been together for a period of time, but in the relationship, it is difficult for everyone to remain rational, especially if they like each other very much, they will comfort themselves for a long time together, and the other party will change, or they can change each other, and they have been investing time and experiencing consumption.

    3. I don't love it anymore and want to find a new partner.

    After being together for a long time, some people have long stopped loving. Especially if one party has success in his career, he will feel that he deserves better, and he doesn't want to marry the other party at all, he just wants to find a better one. When two people fall in love together, they must consider whether the other party is a suitable person while getting along, and they must also remain rational in the process of grinding brothers, otherwise it is easy to spend a lot of time and energy in the future, and the other party is really not suitable.

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