Why do I have a tacit understanding with the object, and why do I always have a lot of tacit underst

There is a sixth sense between people, there is family affection and romance, and many times thinking about problems will go in one direction. Because their psychological environment is similar and the content they focus on is similar, they will make people feel very tacit.

In fact, tacit understanding is frequent training and trying to come out of the drop, but not 100% drops, hehe.

Moreover, it's not just the tacit understanding between lovers that is rare, do you watch the World Cup? Watch the NBA or not? How did the chemistry between the players come about?

There are also drops that are not tacit, remember the story of the foreign drop "sold the hair to buy the bracelet and sold the famous watch to buy the comb"?

Because two people have been together for a long time, they know each other's personalities and habits, so they naturally have a tacit understanding.

Why you can get along with the object very well may be caused by the following reasons.

Hearts and minds are connected, and feelings are compatible. As the saying goes, as long as the hearts of two people are connected, everyone can know and understand what they want to do, so they will have a tacit understanding.

Like-minded personalities and like-mindedness. Two people have similar personalities, the so-called "temper tantrums", like-minded people have a common language and roughly the same hobbies, they can think of going together when they encounter things, and they can go together, so they can also have a tacit understanding.

Love each other and know how to cooperate. Love is a delicate emotion, if you love each other very much, can respect, understand, and tolerate each other, then everything will be very happy and happy, and the cooperation will be very tacit.

I wish you and your object true love and true love, always tacit understanding, and happiness!

In a lot of the time. There will be a lot of tacit understanding between us and the people we love the most, and we will have a lot of hearts and minds with each other. This will make you feel that two people are destined to be together.

Whether this tacit understanding really represents the destining in the dark needs to be analyzed by Zheng Sen from three aspects: accidental factors, his own active choice, and the interaction between them.

1. Two people can be together, and the accidental factor plays a very big role.

In real life, the encounter between two people is actually very accidental. ......Different people have different living conditions, they don't have much contact with each other, they can come together from different places and meet each other, and they can meet and fall in love, all of which is completely accidental. If it is said that two people are destined to be together, this kind of chance may be the most unsatisfactory factor.

2. Who you are with has a very big relationship with your own active choice.

Who a person is with seems to be accidental, but in fact, there is also an inevitable component. ......Specifically, one's own active choice has a very important impact on who he is with. ......Among the people I meet, I only want to associate with people I like.

In this way, the person who is with him is not destined in the dark, but the result of his own active choice.

3. The mutual influence between each other is an important part of the tacit understanding between two people.

For the situation that there is a lot of tacit understanding between two people, some people interpret it as predestined in the dark. ......But it is often more reasonable to interpret them as the result of their interaction with each other. ......In daily life, two people who are together have an understanding of each other's interests and hobbies, and will fully consider each other's preferences when doing some things, so two people may make the same choice......This explanation of the tacit understanding between two people is obviously more reasonable than the explanation that is destined in the dark.

Because of shouting and arguing, who you are with and the tacit understanding between each other, in addition to the destining in the dark, your own active choice is actually a more important factor.

Two people who love each other, as long as they can recognize that they are in love with each other, why care about how long they can't be together, why blame themselves for not being together, standing in the distance and silently praying for each other, this kind of love is better than eternity, better than eternal vows. Because they love each other, and they care for each other.

Two people have been together for a long time, and they naturally have a tacit understanding, no matter how far apart you are, your hearts are connected!

It's a very happy feeling to have a tacit understanding with someone. Because the two of you have been together for a long time, you know each other very well, you know what the other person is thinking, and you know what the other person will do. That's when you get along more pleasantly.

I think it's a cyclical process, when you get along well with someone, then you will gradually become tacit, when you feel that you have a tacit understanding, you will feel that your relationship is very good, and then there are positive psychological cues, your relationship will indeed be better.

I remember that when I was in high school, I had a very good relationship with my classmates. In the beginning, we didn't get along very well, and we were very prone to conflicts, but we were all sullen and didn't want to talk directly. Then the problem of our personal opinion gets worse and worse.

In fact, it will be easy for us to look down on each other, he is a dead idiot, even the order of the book must be sorted out, mathematics must be placed under the language, and English must be placed under the mathematics. And I'm a very casual person, I don't think I'll admit that I'm sloppy! That is, although the test paper is folded down, it is placed on the table.

It's good to find out what kind of books are used in what lessons. Sometimes it's easy for me to find things, but it's all on my desk, there's no doubt about it. But as for him, although he is well organized, he often takes home what he wants to use, and when the teacher says what to use, but does not say it in advance, it is the most painful time for him.

However, it may be because the study is really tiring, and our relationship has become very good later. The things that I didn't like each other before gradually got used to and became tacit understanding. When I can't find my book, I look at him silently and he puts it in the middle.

When the teacher said to take something out, he looked at me, and I knew that I had to try to find it, and I didn't bring it. In addition to this, our words are sometimes very similar, and it is easy to say something in unison, which is really surprising and brings a touch of joy to our heavy learning atmosphere.

In fact, I think the most terrible tacit understanding is when the two of us do math problems. When I was in high school, math problems were always puzzling, and both of us were only average in math, and basically no one could do it well. But we have a characteristic that if the other person does something wrong, I probably do it wrong, and the way it is wrong is the same.

It's not because we learn from each other, it's just like that. No one can say why. So sometimes, we can't see anything wrong and let the other person see it, which really works.