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First of all, you must know yourself, once formed, people's personality is basically unlikely to change much. And this formation process is affected by many factors, such as birth, growth, family, education, etc.
If you want to mix well in this society, it must not be simple, because everyone will fight for their own interests, and the resulting gloom has directly led to many people lamenting that life is a tragedy (to some extent, I also think so, hehe, a little helpless).
But it's not that easy for you to change, if your personality has become difficult to make yourself complicated, then it's better to keep your own simple, absorb some of Zhuangzi's thoughts, and get involved in some things, you may not be able to live this life well.
So, try to hone yourself, adapt to this society, if you can't, don't be too extreme, it's good to keep your own simplicity. Suffering is a blessing, and simplicity is true.
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Neither animals nor humans can exist apart from the corresponding laws of life, and human life creates society, which in turn affects people's lives. Therefore, successful people integrate into society, and those who fail are out of society. A person with great wisdom must first adapt to society, then integrate into society, and finally change society.
In fact, it is the majority of people in society who ultimately change society, and the leader is only a catalyst and catalyst.
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It doesn't have to be simple! It's complicated, you can handle it yourself, and you'll have fun!
Besides, it's not easy to make a lot of money!
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Life is in this world, and you can't bully others.
But you can't let others bully you. Live to be wonderful.
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I hope that people nowadays are not like this.,For their own interests, you can ignore anything.,2 eyes know money, money.。。
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Is it satisfying to live simply?
People, they all have pursuits.
Living a wonderful life is the right way.
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It's best to have enough survival wisdom!
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Simplicity is not necessarily a good thing, and this kind of society has taught you a lot.
You'll be better able to adapt to this kind of life.
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Society is dominant, and life is simple depending on your standard of living!
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Simple life, no need for luxury palaces, brand-name cars, ordinary, happy, enough! Simple people's hearts, don't complicate everything, control your desires, don't covet things beyond your ability, simplicity will be happy, happiness will last for a long time! There are many unexpected things in life.
Focus on the most important part of yourself, don't let other things consume your time and effort, and life will be simple and happy.
But it is easier said than done, and I am willing to encourage you together!
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It is to think about everything, to see openly, to be content, to be satisfied, and to feel happy from the heart.
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Flowers bloom regardless of poverty, and the moon shines on the mountains and rivers everywhere. There are only evil hearts in the world, and everything must be nurtured by God.
Blind, deaf, dumb and dumb families are rich, wise and clever but poor. The year, month and day should be determined, and it is not up to people to calculate the fate.
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Cow, you're a cow.
It is recommended to go to a university to become a professor of literature.
Have you read what Goethe wrote?
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It is easy to be content in the face of life, and to be content and happy!
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I come from accident like a piece of dust.
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People grow themselves in continuous reflection, learn to bear and fight back at the same time.
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Everyone has times when they're feeling down, and it's okay.
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Relax and don't overthink it.
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1, "Nine Songs of Bamboo Branches" Tang Dynasty: Liu Yuxi.
Long hatred is not as good as water, waiting for the waves on the flat ground.
Translation] The world of "waiting for idle flat land" will also make waves, which is really unguardable, and the "human heart" is more dangerous than the water of Qutang Gorge.
2, "Baitou Yin" Tang Dynasty: Li Bai.
The two grasses are still one heart, and the human heart is not as good as the grass.
Translation] The two grasses in nature are still like this, but the human heart is not as persistent and firm as the grass.
3, "Two Songs of Spring Residence Miscellaneous" Song Dynasty: Wang Yuyan.
Whoever has no intention will tolerate it, and it will also turn the hearts of villains upside down.
Translation] Who said that you can be at ease without a heart, but in fact, you are also like a fickle villain.
4, "People's Heart" Song Dynasty: Chai Yuanbiao.
The hearts of the people are only one inch, and the storm rises day and night.
The human heart is so big, but there will always be their own desires and things that will happen on the ground.
5, "Difficult to Walk" Tang Dynasty: Xue Neng.
Where the power is unbearable, people's hearts are in danger.
Translation] People's hearts are sinister and changeable, making people constantly exhausted and not knowing what to do.
6, "In the first month of the spring of the third year of Zhide, the sea salt was ordered to be heard by Wang Shi to collect the second capital....Fifty Rhymes" Tang Dynasty: Liu Changqing.
People's hearts are hanging in the balance, and the way of heaven is temporarily empty.
The human heart is sinister and changeable, just like the rise and fall of the world, the rise and fall, the rise and fall of the world, and so on.
7, "Feelings (Fourteen Songs)" Ming Dynasty: Yang Ji.
There is no doubt in people's hearts, and reason and power invade them.
The human heart originally believes in everything, but when it is mixed with reason and power, it will be different.
8, "Miscellaneous Drama Cui Fujun Breaks the Creditor of the Wronged Family" Yuan Dynasty: Zheng Yanyu's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, and the world is full of mantis and cicadas.
If people are not greedy enough, they will be victimized by their own desires, and in the end they will be just praying mantis catching cicadas, and yellow finches will follow.
9, "Journey in the Gorge" Tang Dynasty: Yongtao.
Chuke Mo Yan Mountain is dangerous, and the hearts of the world are even more dangerous in the mountains.
Don't think that the mountains are steep, and the human heart is more dangerous than the mountains.
10, "Water Margin" Ming Luo Guanzhong.
There are only evil hearts in the world, and everything must be nurtured by God.
Translation] The hearts of the people in the world are the most sinister, and everything still depends on the Lunhui of the Heavenly Dao.
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Flowers bloom regardless of poverty, and the moon shines on the mountains and rivers everywhere. There are only evil hearts in the world, and everything must be nurtured by God. ("Water Margin").
It means that good flowers will not bloom on barren land, and perhaps it may be a metaphor that good things will not come to the hands of the powerless. But the moonlight can illuminate the infinite earth, and it should reflect humanity and the world. People's hearts are sinister and difficult to solve. In all things, you must ask the heavens to help you.
The Water Margin is one of the four great Chinese masterpieces, which describes the uprising of 108 heroes led by Song Jiang in Liangshan in the late Northern Song Dynasty, as well as the story of accepting Zhao'an and fighting everywhere after Juyi. It is also one of the most epic works in Chinese literature. It is one of the earliest chapters written in vernacular in Chinese history.
There are many editions, which are widely circulated and popular, and have had a profound impact on narrative literature in China and even East Asia.
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People's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and they don't know how to do things, this sentence shows that people's hearts are sinister.
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Flowers bloom regardless of poverty, and the moon shines on the mountains and rivers everywhere. There are only evil hearts in the world, and everything must be nurtured by God.
Blind, deaf, dumb and dumb families are rich, wise and clever but poor. The year, month and day should be determined, and it is not up to people to calculate the fate.
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It is easy to rise and fall, and it is easy to reverse.
The sea is shallow, and the villain is inch deep
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I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain.
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Long hatred is not as good as water, waiting for the waves on the flat ground. —Nine Bamboo Branch Words (its seventh).
Flowers bloom regardless of poverty, and the moon shines on the mountains and rivers everywhere. There are only evil hearts in the world, and everything must be nurtured by God. ("Water Margin").
The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, and the world is full of mantis and cicadas.
Over time, it may not be lovely, but it must see people's hearts.
It is difficult to draw the skin and bones of a tiger, and it is difficult to know the face but not the heart.
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Quite simply, it seems that you still haven't done "see people talk to people, and talk to ghosts", if you do this, I think, you won't have such troubles; Hypocrisy is actually a means, but people who can't distinguish who should be hypocritical and who they can't distinguish between who they are not hypocritical are, then this person is hypocritical; If he is hypocritical when he should be hypocritical, and not hypocritical when he should not be hypocritical, then we cannot say that he is hypocritical. It's still the same sentence: "When you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you talk about ghosts."
No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:
Don't give up this second, there is a miracle in the next second, life will inevitably fall and wait to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.
Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.
Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.
Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.
Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.
Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it!
Finally, I wish you a happy life!
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In the same way, whether you are facing the harm of strangers or the harm of people around you, you must be calm and calm. If you can, you can also add a counterattack. Yes, people will put profit first. Some people will harm others by unscrupulous means for the sake of immediate interests, and we must avoid such people.
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Life is full of hurts, you have to protect yourself, persuade your more impulsive and domineering friends, sometimes a little hurt, it will make you stronger, try to do it, everything is downplayed, everything is fine......
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Human nature is inherently selfish. The more familiar it is, the better it hurts, and life is just a few decades. This is also an experience. A small setback, this is a stroke of life. Life is only when you have experienced any emotion.
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I think it's really difficult to be a person now, you have to see clearly what kind of people you are in contact with.
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Norwegians like to eat sardines, especially live fish. Live sardines in the market have much higher levels than dead fish. So fishermen always do everything possible to get the sardines back to the fishing port alive.
However, despite all the efforts, the vast majority of sardines still die of suffocation in the middle of the process. But there is one fishing boat that always brings most of the sardines back to the port alive. The captain kept it a strict secret.
It wasn't until the captain's death that the mystery was revealed. It turned out that the captain had put a catfish that used fish as its main food in a fish tank full of sardines. After the catfish enters the fish tank, it swims around due to the unfamiliar environment.
The sardine was very nervous when he saw the catfish, rushed left and right, dodged in all directions, and accelerated his swimming. In this way, the sardines returned to the fishing port in a happy manner. It turned out that the catfish entered the fish tank, which made the sardines nervous and speed up their swimming, so the sardines made it to the port alive.
This is known as the "catfish effect".
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People are kind, and the reason why people's hearts are sinister is because of too much vanity, which has something to do with the living environment and the experience when they were children. Once a person is too inferior and jealous, he will do anything to satisfy his vanity.
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Because people's hearts are separated from their bellies, as the saying goes, "people die for money, birds die for food" for personal interests, anyone can sell them, even if they are relatives around them, so no one can believe it. On your own!
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Now it's a man who doesn't kill the heavens and the earth for his own sake! How much money is, men and women who don't love each other sleep together, this is the status quo of society.
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In fact, most people are not like this, but the calculations of a few people make everyone have a crisis of confidence.
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Regardless of whether others are sinister or not, first of all, be good to yourself and improve your own level.
I send you a famous quote "The kinder and wiser a person is, the more virtue he sees in others; And the more stupid and vicious a man is, the more he sees the flaws in others."
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In order to live a better life for yourself, step on others and use others to achieve your own goals... It's just that we kind people are unwilling to do those dirty things, which is taken for granted in the eyes of others.
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Because people nowadays are too practical, and there is no humanity anymore, so they can only protect themselves and their important people.
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