My husband hooked up with his first love, what should I do now?

If it were me, it would be difficult for me to make a decision, after all, it has been so long, and the feelings are very deep, especially the feelings of women, which are not so easy to let go. The family that he worked so hard to build was ruined by a person who was just his first love. If he has changed his mind, no matter how humble you are, it will be irretrievable, it is better to walk away without looking back.

In fact, life is not that you can't live without this man, if you have children, try to let them follow you. In this way, there is also a comfort to yourself, there is no mother in the world who does not love her children, you and your children can also live well, and strive to live a fulfilling life, and the past is in the past. I will not bless them, if Heaven wants to make them happy, let them go.

If your husband has changed his mind, then I advise you to let go as soon as possible, while he is still young, because life without love has lost its taste, and it is tasteless to entangle, if your husband just wants to have a fun experience of what it is like to have an extramarital affair, then you can use actions to be with your husband more, care about him, love him, let him be satisfied, if necessary, you can calm down and talk to your husband, talk frankly. Tell your husband that I already know about you, wait, if you can't be together, let's split up. See how he reacts, and finally I wish you all the best to continue to walk happily.

It is often said that the first love is unforgettable. In fact, this man has no sense of responsibility. Now you take care of your life.

If you're married, sit down and talk. Try to maintain the family as well as possible. If you don't get married, ask him what he wants to do in the future, either break up, be with your first love, don't want two women to be sad, or break up with your first love, and go on.

First of all, make sure that your husband is really with his first love, otherwise you don't understand that it is yourself who suffers, if you are really together, if you still love him, try to change him, if he still does not have self-knowledge, so directly in vain, so you are tolerant and generous, it is difficult not to impress him, so that he can't find a better one than you.

Make it clear to him that if he is sure that he wants that junior, then well, leave decisively. I regretted it, I kept pestering, scolding the mistress, and in the end, I felt very embarrassed, because the saw that I always scolded the mistress, and kept blaming me for how I was. You let him choose, he didn't choose you, just leave, work hard, and make him regret missing you later.

Since your husband doesn't like you anymore, let's get a divorce.

Grab the evidence and get ready for divorce!

Abandon illusions.

You have to figure out what caused them and how far they are now before you can make a decision.

What does such a husband want him to do.

It's definitely unacceptable. You can do it yourself, and you can heal others. Go find your first love to connect.

And let your husband also know that you and your first love are still in contact. See how your husband reacts. If your husband can accept it.

Then it means that your husband is still a generous person. Of course, there is no man who can accept his own woman. Also in contact with my first love.

So. Is there any woman who can accept it? My husband is still thinking about his first love.

Such a man suggests a divorce directly, or you are also entangled with your first love and angry with him, if I go up, I will suck him to death with a big mouth, and I will talk about it after I get angry first.

First love is pure, nothing, as long as he is sincere to you.

This kind of thing must not be acceptable, but if you force them not to be allowed to contact, ** may also be very big, so it is not advisable to quarrel, the sister in his mouth is just an excuse in his heart that he is reluctant to put down, you have to think about it, what result you want, want to make trouble with him, and then leave a dead knot in your heart, the two look disgusted, he has an 80% chance of continuing to contact her, but you may not know. Or do you want to talk openly and honestly and see where his persistence lies? Why do you have to let an outsider keep cutting his lover's heart with a blunt knife, so that he understands that this is torture for you, some men are really straight, maybe he thinks it's not serious, to communicate effectively.

If he insists on continuing, then you can only live with it and let this dead knot be in your own heart. Then you can understand something.

No, it's false if I say I don't mind, because you don't mind that he has a past, you just mind that his past is not yet in the past.