What are some of the choices that have ever left you in a dilemma?

The hardest choice I've ever made was in May of last year, whether I wanted to get married or break up. This relationship has only been with him for a year, there is nothing wrong with him, and he is also a good marriage partner, but I can't be as comfortable with him as myself. I think it must be because there is no love.

My family and friends around me persuaded me that marriage is like that, it doesn't matter if there is love or not, everyone comes over like this, and they are not young anymore, don't pick and choose, it's good to find such a thing. During that time, he kept hinting at me to catch him and get married quickly, I was very confused and hesitant and often had insomnia, but there was a voice in my heart that kept saying no, this is not the life I want, marriage should not be all about women. So in the end, I chose to break up.

The moment I spoke, I let out a long breath and knew I was not wrong in my choice.

If I had to talk about a dilemma, I was impressed by the choice of staying in Fuzhou or moving to Shanghai after six years of work. At that time, I was working for one of the best companies in Fuzhou, and I quickly became a department manager, but I always longed for the opportunity to get in touch with the wider world. That's when I received a nice job offer in Shanghai.

Going to Shanghai gives you the opportunity to give yourself a bigger challenge, which means starting from scratch and facing a huge unknown. If you don't go, life can be very comfortable, but if you stay in a company steadily, you always feel that something is missing. After two weeks of dilemma, I made the decision to quit my job and go to Shanghai.

When it comes to this, I have to say that the problem that plagues thousands of male compatriots is that for their lover, if they lift bricks, they can't hug her (except for local tyrants, of course) Every responsible man will take it as his responsibility to work hard to earn money to make his lover's life better, and every woman hopes that her man can give her a sense of warmth and security, but people's energy is limited, and the best of both worlds is always not very achievable. I don't know how many compatriots are like me, Valentine's Day, Christmas, Tanabata ......These are impossible days off, and in the face of the complaints of my lover, I can't tell the bitterness. "Every such festival is only once a year, and no matter how busy you are at work, what's wrong with taking a day to accompany me?

This kind of questioning makes you feel irrefutable, work, love, is this a dilemma ......

After the results of the college entrance examination came down, I was faced with the ordinary second book and rereading, and I cried all night, unwilling to go to the ordinary second book, and I was afraid that the repetition result would be worse. After spending the whole summer wondering if this was what I wanted, I finally decided to repeat the school the night before the admission results came out. The whole person's mental state has been refreshed, from jealousy of a good friend who is better than himself, to being calm about himself.

Accept the fact that you haven't worked hard enough, accept that life depends not only on strength, but also on luck, and accept the worst result that may not be good even if you repeat it. At that moment I felt that I had grown up, probably without this attempt, I would regret it for the rest of my life, and I would say in the future if I had ...... in the beginning

I think it's in front of my parents and myself, I don't know how to choose now, my parents raised me, I feel that I should try my best to meet their expectations, but I also have things I want to achieve, but I choose my parents, I have to live up to myself, I have to live up to my parents, although many people say that your child is not actually your child, he came through you, but not for you, they have their own ideas, their own lives, but this is really cruel to parents, If my child told me this, my heart would be broken, although I was reasonable, but I couldn't pass a love word.

Summary. When it is difficult to choose, it means that these two things have their own pros and cons, and when you are optimistic about the benefits of this matter, you can choose A, and at this time the benefits of B come out again, and it is often accompanied by the disadvantages of A, and then a new round of entanglement begins. At this time, the benefits of A and B are not clear and difficult to decide.

At this time, I have been struggling for a long time, and I have sorted out the advantages and disadvantages of A B, but I just can't decide. Then I will take a piece of paper, list the advantages and disadvantages of AB, compare the scores of these advantages and disadvantages in my mind, positive points for advantages and negative points for disadvantages, compare these two points, and finally decide.

Hello dear. When it is difficult to choose, it means that these two things have their own pros and cons, and when you are optimistic about the benefits of this matter, you can choose A, and at this time the benefits of B come out again, and it is often accompanied by the disadvantages of A, and then a new round of entanglement begins. At this time, the benefits of A and B are not clear and difficult to decide.

At this time, I have been struggling for a long time, and I have sorted out the advantages and disadvantages of A B, but I just can't decide. Then I will take a piece of paper, list the advantages and disadvantages of AB, compare the scores of these advantages and disadvantages in my mind, positive points for advantages and negative points for disadvantages, compare these two points, and finally decide.

After graduating from college, I want to work hard with my boyfriend in a first-tier city, but my parents want me to go back to my hometown to develop and accompany them, I don't want to be separated from my boyfriend, and I can't bear to let my parents down, a dilemma.

At present, the most difficult choice is to take care of the children in my hometown or work with my husband in other places. I chose the latter.

On the one hand, I am reluctant to have children, and on the other hand, I am reluctant to husband. My own parents help me take care of the children, and my husband and I go to work together, trying to earn money for two or three years to go back before the children go to elementary school.

I think when I was looking for a job, one was a job that didn't pay well but it was close to home, and the other was a job that was far away from home but paid well, but I wanted a job that paid well and was close to home, so I struggled.

The most dilemma is that I don't know which city to go to, sometimes I want to go to Guangzhou, sometimes I want to go to Hangzhou, so I am more entangled.

The most dilemma is that on the one hand, no one is watching the renovation of the house at home, and I need to resign, and on the other hand, the leader is ready to give me a raise.

Now, whether to stay and work in a tertiary hospital in Tianjin, continue to live alone in Tianjin, or go back to my parents to find a similar hospital in a prefecture-level city to work.

So generally I will consider this situation at my discretion, if it is the usual kind of small exam, you ask me to help, I will help, ask me what multiple-choice answers and so on, I will tell you directly. But that kind of big exam is different, generally every time I take the big exam, I will be particularly cowardly, I always feel that the teacher has been staring at me, although it is not, but the pressure in my heart is still not small. So in this case, I can only say that I can't do anything and I can't take care of myself.

There is also the kind of person who is usually unfamiliar with you to borrow money from you. You say I'll borrow it, I'm not particularly familiar with you, what if you don't pay me back, I don't want to borrow it, it's a nodding friend, I don't see you looking up, and it's too embarrassing to refuse directly. Therefore, I will carefully consider this situation, if the amount borrowed is relatively small, I will borrow directly, if the amount borrowed is relatively large, then there is no way, I can only say very sincerely, I can't help you.

I still remember when I was a child, I would be in a dilemma because of which toy I chose, I really wanted to have both, but unfortunately my mother was only allowed to choose one, pick and choose, and finally I could only reluctantly say goodbye to a toy silently, and walk home with another toy that was lost!

Later, when I went to school, I didn't do well in the exam, and I would be very entangled, and when I went home, I told my parents, admitted my mistakes, or secretly signed by myself, and passed the test in a fool's way, I really regretted it at the time, I knew that I should study hard, so that I wouldn't dare to go home because I didn't dare to go home because of the misery, for fear that my mother's iron sand palm would leave a mark on me!

Later, when I fell in love, I really had a struggle, whether to choose what I liked, or choose to like myself, especially when a boy was good to me, I would really be very entangled, now I think about it at that time, if that boy was braver and firmer, would there be a different scene in my life, and I wouldn't be so poor and lonely now!

The most recent dilemma should be to work and accompany my daughter, this is really a worrying choice, I also thought about working hard to earn more money for myself, but the reality makes me feel that it is more important to accompany my daughter, I can't ignore my daughter's growth just to make money, the child needs my company in recent years, and when he is older and has his own life, I want to accompany her will not want me, so in the end, I think about it, I think it is better to find a light job, I can have more time to accompany my daughter, For this reason, I can only give up a challenging job, choose a comfortable job, live a comfortable life, and only hope that my daughter will have a happy childhood!

Sometimes choosing the wrong one time is the choice of a lifetime, and you really need to think it out for yourself, as long as you have no regrets!

In fact, there are dilemmas everywhere in life. Sometimes this kind of person chooses not to appear around you easily and disrupt your original rhythm. These dilemmas force you to choose one and give up the other.

Life has to be giving, this is what these dilemmas tell me.

I'm only in college now, but as a foodie. The choice you have to make every day is, what do you eat in the morning? What to eat at noon?

What's for dinner? Do I want to eat from this store or go to eat from that store? I feel like these choices are already hard for me.

I wanted to eat everything at the same time, but I couldn't fit so much in my stomach, so I had to make a choice.

I often have to worry about whether to eat braised pork or sweet and sour carp at noon. Because both of these are my favorite things to eat. But if I order both, my purse can't handle it, so I have to choose between the two.

I struggled with it for a long time, and I also asked my parents and elders for their opinions. But I still couldn't make up my mind. In the end, how did I make my choice?

I chose the method of drawing lots, writing the names of these two universities on two pieces of paper, crumpling them into a ball, and then I grabbed one of them with my eyes closed, and went to whichever university I caught.

So, sometimes it's not that I don't have the ability to choose, it's that the choice I'm faced with is too difficult. We are always reluctant to get something, but we are eager to get something else. People themselves have desires, but they are all trade-offs in life.

Therefore, when faced with a dilemma, you still have to consider carefully and do not make hasty decisions, which may cause you to regret endlessly in the future.

Also, the opinions of others are also very important, but listening to the opinions of others does not mean that we should accept the suggestions of others in their entirety, we still have to have our own opinions, but the opinions of others can help us make this choice more comprehensive and safer.

In fact, there are many things that people need to choose in their lives, such as you want to play games now, and your girlfriend wants to go shopping, or you want to review your knowledge points tonight, and your favorite TV series will finale tonight. There are a lot of things like this that need to be decided.

I remember when I was in high school, I wanted to go to college in a foreign country, because I wanted to go outside to see and experience a new living environment, but my parents wanted me to go to college locally, thinking that I was still young and not suitable for living outside, and they were afraid that I would be hurt outside, and they hoped that I could be by their side, go home often, chat with them at home, and have a meal together, I finally chose to live locally, and chose a very ordinary university, I feel like being with my parents and taking care of them is what I should do. And as long as you have the ability to have goals and the courage to solve difficulties, you can have a good development even in a small city and find your own happiness.

My college alumni chose to drop out of their sophomore year because they had a dream of studying abroad, went back to high school to study hard, and after two years of revision, they were admitted to their favorite university and realized their dream, which was also a good choice.

In fact, there are many choices to be made in a person's life, and some choices are not right or wrong, the multiple choice questions in life are not like the math multiple choice questions in the college entrance examination, there is not only one correct answer, and there is no score, the only thing you can rely on is your own ideas, and choose the right way to live according to the life you want. And don't regret your choice, no matter what setbacks you encounter, learn to face and solve them, so that you can live your own life.

Everyone makes countless choices, big and small, in their lifetime. Sometimes you don't have to think much about making a choice, but sometimes what kind of choice to make makes people fall into a dilemma, and their hearts are extremely entangled, and they can't come to a conclusion for a long time. Half a year ago, I was faced with such a dilemma.

Isn't it time for my 22-year job to end? I thought about it over and over again, and sometimes I decided to quit right away, and sometimes I thought it was a good job and just did it. I hesitated, and the matter of resignation became a big problem for me, and during that time I was listless and absent-minded about everything.

The reason why it is so difficult to make a decision is because this unit is my family business, my immediate boss is my eldest brother, I was assigned a job after graduation, and I have been working for 22 years, this job has become my daily habit, my office has almost become my home, and my daily necessities and books are everywhere. Thinking about it, moving out of this office is a huge project, and I can't start it. Emotionally, I am afraid of hurting my family, work and family are closely linked, I can escape from work, but I can't avoid family, I always have to see each other at home, it will be very embarrassing.

But if I don't quit, this job is too limited to my freedom and space for self-play, I didn't have contact with the physical, mental and spiritual growth when I didn't realize it, but after the contact, I realized that this job has become my shackles, cages, so that I can hardly contact the outside world, I am like a bird in a cage, birds have wings, I don't know if my wings can be used to fly. With these resentments, I never had the courage to resign, and I spent my days listless.

In November 2016 I signed up for a zen tour that took a week, but it was impossible for me to take a week off. This Zen tour is another one that I am fascinated by and I don't want to give up. There is not much time left before the trip, and I haven't taken any leave yet, so what should I do?

I can't delay any longer, I can only come to the leader and ask for leave, the leader was furious when he heard it, looking at the angry face of the leader, I blurted out: "I resign!" ”

I was relieved, and the problem that made me embarrassed for a long time was solved so easily, which was completely different from the situation I imagined, and it was not very difficult. As long as you think about the ending, listen to your inner voice, show courage, and act positively, you can achieve the ideal goal.