At what point did you not be able to forgive yourself for your mistakes?

It's that when I lost my temper and ran away, my family or boyfriend had an accident because I wanted to find myself, although it was not very serious, but I really couldn't forgive myself, and I felt very guilty. In addition, when completing a project with a companion, because of their own negligence, the whole effort was scrapped, although they don't blame themselves so much, but they are still very disappointed in their hearts.

It's when I collide with my parents, I can never forgive myself for my mistakes at that moment, because I feel that I have hurt my parents after all.

When he was in the mobile phone of youth and rebellion, he contradicted his parents. It is a lot of guilt to take advantage of your parents' love for you and to constantly hurt your parents. I feel bad. I feel like I can't forgive.

When I drink the sheep soup, I think about the process of the sheep from birth to death, and then it is boiled into soup and goes into my mouth. I would think about how sad he was, and then I would be sad, but I couldn't forgive myself, and I would never drink mutton soup again.

It was when I was a child, I had a Chinese pastoral dog at home, and then, he was more loyal, followed me to and from school every day, and when we were in junior high school, we went to school in the next village, there was a road in the middle, and he still followed me to school, every time I drove him back, very hard, and then there was a time, just a car came over, I drove him back and he ran into the car, and since then I can no longer play with him.

It was when I was causing a lot of damage that I felt really bad at that time, and then I felt like I had really made a big mistake.

It should be an unintentional act of my own, but I hurt others, I didn't want to hurt others, but others were hurt because of me.

Everyone has secrets unspeakable, even the closest ones, the most loved ones. Everyone has a dark side and doesn't want people to know about it, and keeping that secret is also a balance to maintain the relationship.

Learn to forgive and you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, and mature.

Sometimes, some words and practices of friends may hurt you, family members, colleagues misunderstanding make you distressed, there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change the way of thinking and learn to forgive? It is a kind of open-mindedness to forgive others, and it is a relief to forgive yourself.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or dissatisfaction buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, inferiority, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You stepped on the blooming flowers, and the flowers left you with the scent of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate you still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

I will. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:

The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.

To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.

Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.

Reading and sharing.

Savvy and successful people always have high demands on themselves. Sometimes they have to learn to forgive themselves for the mistakes they have made in order to become better leaders.

I also get excited about one thing, and sometimes I lose my temper with people. Anyone can lose their temper, and if medical means can improve it in the future, I will, but this temper can also be our inherent self-protection mechanism.

The trigger for tantrums is complicated, and of course I know that it comes more from within. However, our hearts are also very easily affected, a sudden rainstorm, some kind of noise, some boring and dull meeting, even hunger, etc.

So can I try to apologize in advance? As a long-term member of the Working Group, I cannot guarantee that I will not be "angry" at certain moments. But I can promise that I will correct my mistake as soon as possible and then apologize.

Anger and conflict can mean that we are neglecting something or not in control of what we think we can control. If we can try to reflect and let go, it may be more helpful to improve things.

Unforgivable things, when the letter is high, it is impossible to forgive, I can't get over that psychological slippery Li Qi, why should I force myself to accept it?!! Isn't that hard to get along with!