I ve had a crush on a girl for five years and I m getting more and more overwhelmed, what should I d

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You first try to see if she is interesting to you, invite her to watch a romantic movie together, go on an outing together, go to dinner together, etc. If she agrees, it means that she is a little interesting to you, and then find a suitable time to confess, and finally be romantic. If she doesn't agree, you insist on doing one small thing for her every day, such as buying breakfast, etc.

    If she doesn't have a boyfriend, I don't believe she can't catch up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hold on, I support you, move her, accompany her when she is sick and unhappy, take her to watch touching love movies, (Shanghai Sweetheart) This will definitely make you feel more experienced! The most important thing is the word touching, don't you need to pay? It's like having a crush on a celebrity, there is no return for love without giving, she knows that you like her, you don't say or do it, she has no reason to accept you!

    If she likes to live the life of a rich person, you can change her mind! Some women are very sensible and think that the basis of happiness is money and then cultivating feelings. You can change your own style, how handsome you are, no matter if you can adapt to it, chase her, if you can't do it, dress handsome and handsome to another woman who is more beautiful than him to arouse her jealousy, she may be sad, but it will not be revealed to you, you are attacking her heart step by step I am Yeyan.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Bingo is very simple, the more you procrastinate, the slimmer the hopes. The best thing to do is to confess to her right away, and if she really has feelings for you, she doesn't care what your family situation is... You also said that she is a lively, cheerful girl, and you are a bit homely, she will find you when she is fine, where to play, or go shopping, and when chatting, she will not be cold because you are dripping home!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That, I really have to advise you!! Be sure to hide it in your heart, some love doesn't have to be said, you have her in your heart, and you can be very happy to see her smile with you every day. Because a crush is a successful pantomime, it becomes a tragedy when you say it, and if you don't like it, it will turn into eternal regret...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The ancients once said: "There are more than 20,000 of them (she) who are suitable for you." "But maybe because of fate, it can't be all encountered.

    There is no grass at the end of the world.

    Why bother to love a flower.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should boldly confess to her, how to know the result without trying, you confess to her, only then do you know the true choice of her heart, even if she really rejects you, you have at least given yourself a chance, and there will be no regrets ...... in the future

    Then, according to the answer she gave you, start a new life, she chose you, then congratulations, congratulations on getting the love of your life; However, if she rejects you, don't be discouraged, work hard, and force yourself to forget about her, because if you keep thinking about it, then how can you be happy ...... future

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should be brave enough to tell her, no matter whether she accepts you or not, but after all, if you tell your heart, the burden on your soul will not be too heavy, and you will not regret it in the future. Besides, she might have a little bit of a heart for you. If you like her, be brave enough to say it and good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    u Crush originally requires skill, not everyone has the time and capital to have a crush, a hopeless relationship. I sincerely hope you can extricate yourself. It's not that all crushes are bad, just don't get overcommitted.

    Of course, crush is also a way of feeling and expression, and of course, people who are deeply involved will have a little sense of happiness. But a crush doesn't have to last long. Or for their own future, let their feelings turn around, and let their happiness rely on standing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As a man, I feel like you're always lacking something. From ancient times to the present, there is no distinction between high, low, rich and expensive in the history of love, why are there so many love songs? Isn't it to encourage people to dare to love and hate now???

    In my eyes, love is equal to everyone, and it will be beautiful when you confess? There is one very important thing that you have forgotten, and that is something that many girls look forward to, and that is courage. As a man, you don't even have the courage to confess to her?

    It's just a typical scrap boy, don't care what happens to her, don't care how good her family or anything else! These factors will be one of the reasons why you fail.

    There is a good saying: the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. You should be optimistic about your view of love!

    You can understand what I said earlier, and you should know what to do. Although the real world is cruel, you are still young and don't have to think about so many real problems, there will always be a way to solve them. But first you have to have the courage to tell her all about your ideals.

    Impressed, perhaps? Or will it fail? You should put your worries behind, these are all hurdles you have to go through on the road of relationships.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't always think about failure, maybe he also likes you, maybe he will succeed in confessing to her, even if it fails, it doesn't matter, at least you have tried, and when you think about it later, it will become a good memory.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    must have the courage to say it, no matter what the result is, you must make sure that you don't regret it, but you know that emotional things are barely coming, even if she will be someone else, what can she do? No one can be deprived of the right to love someone, so tell her out loud if you love her!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Crush is the process of self-destruction of feelings, and what you can't get is always the best.

    It's been five years, and what is going to happen is long overdue, so why bother exchanging a long-lasting friendship for an uncertain relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There will be no confession during the crush, and the crush is usually a kind of love that is not reciprocated, and you are willing to give for him or her. It is also equivalent to unrequited love. One-sided silent love in the heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If I were you, I'd rather try it, and I feel like if you like it then you should go for it, and if you just don't feel like you deserve it or something, then you don't deserve it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Big brother, I support you, go for it!

    Now that you've finished your studies, you can pursue true love without hesitation.

    I hope you can have a good harvest in love and career!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    But how do you know if you don't try! At least give yourself a chance and give her a chance!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Perhaps...

    How do you know if you haven't tried?

    Do you want to have a crush on her for the rest of your life?

    Or watching her get married?

    Let's get out of the way!!

    Sometimes it gives you unexpected success!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't let true love pass you by.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Standard Answer: More on that later.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Everyone longs to love and be loved, but falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, such as the other person doesn't like you at all, then this is a selective mistake. It is difficult for such love to have results1, give yourself space.

    As the saying goes, "Out of sight, out of mind". When you stop focusing on Him and focus on other people and things, he will gradually become a thing of the past2, give yourself time. Feelings don't dissipate overnight, but I believe that time will dilute everything3, block his Weibo or WeChat.

    If you're not such good friends, just delete his **, so that you don't always think about calling him ** to think about his shortcomings. Thinking that he is not such a perfect person, he is not worthy of your suffering, and naturally he will not like him.

    I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

    Every time a person desires to love and be loved, but falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, such as the other person doesn't like you at all, then this is a selective mistake. It is difficult for such love to have results1, give yourself space. As the saying goes, "Out of sight, out of mind".

    When you stop focusing on Him and focus on other people and things, he will gradually become a thing of the past2, give yourself time. Feelings don't dissipate overnight, but I believe that time will dilute everything3, block his Weibo or WeChat. If you're not such good friends, just delete his **, so that you don't always think about calling him ** to think about his shortcomings.

    Thinking about it, he is not such a perfect person who makes Hashimi, and he is not worth your suffering, so naturally he will not like him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You make it clear to her.,Otherwise, if you hide from her.,She'll be very disappointed.,It's just that you don't know.。。

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you like it, you want to be together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She shouldn't be joking, because there are no such boring people, writing love letters in her own name and joking. Therefore, you have to take the initiative to chase her, and it will be successful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Send QQ to her and tell her, I like your type of girl, what about you?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    。。。Go confess. Landlord, you can't do this way.

    All the girls are so proactive.。。 I'm forced by you to be helpless.。。 Landlord, your man is going to confess.

    Why don't I help you say goodbye, your indecisive personality is very disappointing. Girl.. All took the initiative.

    You at least say it.。。

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course, go and confess, because you both like each other, right, liking should not be disturbed by other people or other things, for yourself and for her, go to her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Crush it, continue to observe, see if she likes you, and then call a girl you know better (sister is the best) to talk to that girl and see if you can get the talk.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Stupid, if you don't say it, who knows, go to school.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You like each other, why don't you be together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Two suggestions for you: 1. Confess bravely (the practice of my bad boy) 2. I don't like her anymore (the general practice of good boys should be that if you don't adopt my first article, the two of you will have no result) If you insist on staying in this dream, I'm afraid you will never wake up, but I have no opinion, after all, dreams are the most beautiful, so think for yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Keep the crush as you like. I've never seen you so meaty, I'm afraid of wolves and tigers, but I want to have a crush. The girl took the initiative to confess, and you retracted it for two days--- and then ask for verification!

    Who will admit it, you can only find an excuse to deny it, who knows what kind of mentality you have? It's a shame that people do this for you. I think she's disappointed enough with your indecisive character, so let it go.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's better to be in this state, it's the second year of high school, and no matter what the result is, it will affect your studies. You can't do anything for him if you say it, you still have the ability to say it, your kind of character, even if he accepts you in high school now, it won't last long. To put it mildly, everyone is not mentally mature now, and when you get to college, you will know how naïve your decision was at that time!

    It's better to find a way to divert your attention, don't keep thinking about it, and refer to studying. I can't tell the difference between the priorities in the second year of high school, and I think you haven't figured out what you want yet. It's a bit ugly, forgive me!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Make an account CD, read and burn what you want to say, and add some animation**.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then don't confess, it's not the time, I feel like I can study and earn a lot of money What kind of woman has it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you like it, you have to say it out loud, no matter what the result is, at least you have worked hard and will not regret it, happiness is to be fought for by yourself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Finding your buddy to cheer him up is a very simple thing, and I've experienced it.

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