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In reality, I see that many women are having a very bad time in their married life. But I don't really sympathize with such a person, because you tell him some reasons or methods. He always tells you that he has a lot of difficulties, and that's what marriage is all about.

Either it's forbearance, or it's ruthless.

Then when you are in a relationship and you don't get what you want, then you have to find a way to fight for it yourself, or get it yourself, but you feel that you have a hard time when you get it, and you want to get it for nothing, or you look for a lot of reasons. I think this is something I really don't understand, if you are in this relationship and you feel very uncomfortable, then you have to adjust it yourself.

I feel that regardless of men and women, the real final difficulty. You can't rely on anyone. You still have to rely on yourself and rely on your own strength to carry it.

There's a good saying in Successology. He said that people who fail are always looking for excuses, and successful people are always looking for a way. In fact, in reality, I have seen a lot of women, she really has no resources, but in the face of the pain in marriage, she resolutely came out, with two or three children alone, without a job, without the ability to survive, she is herself.

Gritted his teeth and broke through a bloody path. Try not to stay alone, and then, find something that you are more interested in and put into it, live in the present, instead of always thinking about what hurt you have been hurt in the past, or what kind of danger you will have in the future, and the child is also well trained, it is nothing more than to suffer a little by yourself, and you have to do it yourself in the first few years when you lay the foundation. It's really one person who has to top several people.

Then if you don't even have this ruthlessness, then you deserve to suffer in a relationship. In fact, is there anything in this world that is not earned for nothing, if you don't want to work hard, then you will suffer. Don't complain anymore. What do you think about this?

For example, some people hate lazy people, and when a lazy person suddenly becomes a person worthy of pity, then this sentence becomes true.

There is a lot of truth to this, because the reason why many people are in a bad situation is often due to their own reasons, such as fraud, moral turpitude, and so on.

Because he is pitiful because of what happened to her, and what happened to him was also caused by his character and behavior.

"The hateful must have pity" literally means: the hateful must have pity.

This sentence can be understood as: there must be a sympathetic reason or a tragic experience behind the seemingly hateful person. A seemingly poor person may be caused by unsatisfactory reality, due to previous mistakes or self-inflicted blame.

The original words reveal the philosophical problems of life and the criticism of a small number of people. It means that the usual moral standards are used to weigh the amount of Lasun, and the unsatisfactory reality of a seemingly poor person must be caused by previous mistakes or self-inflicted blame, and knowing that he is wrong and repeatedly refusing to change and taking the blame for himself is the hateful point of such people. Wheel chain.

The poor man must have something to hate" is a common saying, which actually reveals a philosophical problem in life, if a person makes outsiders feel sympathy for him, perhaps it is because he has done something wrong that leads to his end. Of course, this conclusion is certainly not absolutely correct, but it is sometimes used to criticize a small number of poor people.

If you end up in a miserable situation because of your own fault, the compassion in your heart will change or decrease for those who know the truth. Of course, "fake pity" does exist, but we should not lose normal sympathy.

Pitiful is divided into really pitiful and fake pitiful. The former is that they have tried as hard as possible but the situation is still not good or disaster befalls them, this kind of pity is equivalent to unhappiness and respectability, and the two sides of asking for help and ministering are psychologically equal, such as the Sichuan compatriots who are still optimistic after **.

The latter is that some people consciously or unconsciously lower their posture or disguise, and use it as a means to obtain some kind of advantage or win the sympathy of others to achieve their own goals, such as: fake beggars on the streets.

The wretched man must have a place to hate (a man who is lonely and begs in the streets. It's a pitiful thing. In fact, it is because Sakura Yuan has thousands of families before, but it is rampant in the township, which is hateful.

When there is a difficulty, no one is willing to help, so it ends up like this. Or a person from a poor family, pointing to Hong, this is a pitiful place. In fact, he doesn't struggle, doesn't fight, and gets by.

That's what makes this man hateful. So the poor people must have been caused by those hateful reasons. For example, it is pitiful to see a woman being deceived.

But the reason is that she is deceived by rhetoric or money, and she does not listen to advice. caused her to be deceived. That's the hate.

Whether it's to satisfy spiritual vanity or material vanity. It's all hateful. And those men who deceive people are often because they have been hit hard by feelings, which is the so-called hateful people must have sad suffering.

To put it simply: it is precisely because of his hatred that the poor man causes his pity. The hateful man is precisely because of his pathetic suffering that causes him to be so hateful.

The wretched will have something to hate, and the hateful will have pitiful suffering. Pathetic and pathetic are synonyms that can be used interchangeably, two upside-down nonsense.

Do poor people have something to hate, there have been a lot of proverbs in China, among which the poor people must have something to be sad is very familiar to everyone, This sentence is full of a lot of truth when you read it carefully, so do poor people have something to hate?

1. It means that measured by the usual moral standards, the unsatisfactory reality of a seemingly poor person must be caused by previous mistakes or self-inflicted blame.

2. The second half of this sentence is "hateful people must have pathetic suffering", if the first half of the sentence is too mean, but the second half of the sentence shows the warmth of human nature. This means that although a person has done something that hurts nature and reason or violates the law and discipline, although it is hateful, it may also be caused by certain objective conditions.

The poor will have something to hate, and the hateful will have miserable suffering. To put it bluntly, a hateful person has also become a hateful person after a sad thing.

Each of us will not be very smooth in our daily life, and we will inevitably encounter some difficultiesSometimes we feel that God is unfair to us, but as long as we think openly, deal with it calmly, and face everything with a positive attitude towards life, we will eventually get out of the predicament. But some people, when they encounter major changes, will give up on themselves, slump, and have no courage to overcome setbacks. Chinese always like to enshrine the words of the ancients as a golden rule, and many of our ancient sayings have been passed down from generation to generation, and some people still believe in them.

Many famous sayings in ancient times have been handed down to modern times, and they have been taken out of context and distorted their original meaningsFor example, Confucius once said that repaying grievances with virtue, many people think that this means that others treat you badly, and you have to treat others better, so as to influence others. In fact, Confucius's original words are to repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue, which means that you are better for people who are not good for you, so what can you do to repay people who are good to you.

In fact, these two sentences actually warn people that when they care about helping a person, they should distinguish what causes the person, whether they deliberately pretend to be pitiful to win sympathy, or whether they really have practical difficulties, and don't be kind indiscriminatelyBecause most of the poor people are not worthy of sympathy, they have come to this point mostly by themselves, and don't be too sympathetic to hateful people, because life can dominate you, and you can also dominate life, just see if you can think about it, let go of the past, and embrace a new life, and many hateful people like to complain about the sky, and the sadness is mostly self-inflicted.