I liked him, I could even say that I loved him, and he loved me, but suddenly he said that he regard

Updated on psychology 2024-02-28
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, don't make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

    Come to think of it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), and goodwill needs to be achieved with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity you want to develop further.

    Think about it from the perspective of a girl: If you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure. If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you?

    So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you're basically going to be stuffed back right away.

    2. Start with a low profile.

    First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend", and you want to be a "good friend" and have taste.

    You can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you".

    Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - how can you refuse you if you don't chase her?!

    This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air.

    3. Create opportunities appropriately.

    As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you're chasing someone else", and you need to get a chance to get close to girls, and that's when it's up to you to be creative.

    You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait for the rabbit into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

    In short, this is the most technical place, and if you really can't do it, you can ask your seniors for advice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Listening to you say this, you should be a good guy, I suggest you brake, calm down, observe and see if he is what you say, and at the same time give each other time, space and opportunities. It's a long time coming, and you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, either scare people away, or you fall into it yourself.

    Read more and have a long EQ.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think you have to do anything, just go with the flow, don't listen to other opinions and opinions, the more you listen, the more chaotic it is, the chaos is annoying to yourself, useless, if he really loves you, he will come back to you, sometimes, a lot of statements are just an excuse, maybe you dare to believe the fact that he doesn't love you anymore, you expect him to be with you just for your good, don't think about anything, face reality, only put your mentality right, and be afraid of what wind and waves.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are really so sure that He loves you and you love Him ... Isn't it clear that his purpose is just to ask you to study hard now, and you can give him a promise - provided that you are really sure that he loves you.

    After you graduate from high school, when it's time to see if the two of you can really let go of each other, or if you still like each other, if you still have each other in your heart - Wouldn't it be okay to change the relationship back to love?

    Of course, you also have to make it clear to him first, it's not that the relationship has changed, you will definitely get better in learning, and ask him if he has ever thought about the fact that because of the change in the relationship, you will lose interest in learning or something like that - if it is really for the sake of learning as a sister, then let him not just disappear this kind of problem).

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feelings are important", "Go with the feelings", "Don't leave regrets".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I like a person, but because of my reasons I can't say it, until one day she told me that she likes me, I also glide through the silver and express my heart to her, we both give to me like a letter banquet person, but because of my reasons I can't say it, until one day she told me that she likes me, I also expressed my heart to her, we both give each other time to get to know each other, but the rotten disturbance just finished with me, I found out to find someone else.

    Well, dear, I'm sorry to hear that you're in such a situation. To deal with this situation, start by calming down and consider the following: Communication:

    Communication with the other person is very important. Try to talk openly and honestly with her about your feelings and ask about her relationships with other people. Try to be calm and rational and fully express your thoughts and concerns.

    Quest for the Truth: Understanding her relationship with that person is crucial. There may be various reasons why she went to find someone else, such as a misunderstanding, a friendship, or something else.

    Only through frank communication with her nuclear stupid potato can we understand her true motives. Be respectful: Respect her choices, no matter what the outcome.

    Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, including you and her. If she chooses to be with someone else, you need to accept and respect her decision. <>

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Good evening, dear. You said that you and the girl you liked had a heart-to-heart relationship with each other, and it didn't take long for her to go to someone else.

    The teacher thinks you should ask her what she means. Communicate well. Maybe she had a boyfriend before she confessed to you.

    I like someone, but because of my reasons, I can't say it, until one day she told me that she likes me, and I also expressed my heart to her, and we both gave each other time to get to know each other, but just after talking to me, I found out that I went to find someone else.

    Good evening, dear. You said that you and the girl you liked had a heart-to-heart relationship with each other, and it didn't take long for her to go to someone else. The teacher thinks you should ask her what she means.

    Communicate well. Maybe she had a boyfriend before she confessed to you.

    The teacher hopes that the two of you who like each other can come together and live happily ever after. Don't give up when you meet a girl you like, at least the other party likes you, how rare it is! You have to win her over.

    If you don't act now, I'm afraid that you will regret thinking of her in the future, regretting that you withdrew and lost the person you liked.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Did you know you have a girlfriend?

    Hey, why is 3L anonymous, how chic is 5L.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Author, go home and tell your mother, just hit her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, what does your girlfriend look like? If it's not as good as this little sister.

    So, can you just get rid of it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is still a long time, no one knows what to do tomorrow, and there are some things that everyone should not say, because the time has not yet come.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Brothers! How can you make such a joke! Suffer....She's your sister!

    Dizzy....Wouldn't it be nice to say that it's the kind of love of family affection! You also know that the law of our country does not allow close relatives to marry! Besides, what do you family think!

    It's no wonder your parents don't cripple you! Find a good one and I'll make it clear to my sister!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You tell her. Love someone. It doesn't have to be together. As long as you see that the people you love are happy. It's okay to have a good time. Such. She should understand.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You said that liking and loving are two different things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You shouldn't have an affair with your sister.

    If it's impossible, try to make it clear to her.

    And help her find a boyfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Despise the 3rd floor

    I firmly believe that time can change everything.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Xiaomei is the kind of cheerful girl who is easy to do, first of all, family affection is not equal to love, but love is ultimately to transform into family affection....It's man-made.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, Xiao Nizi is really emotional about you!

    Dangerous, don't play with fire!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You shouldn't be very old!

    Be sure to stick to your own principles and go on, maybe after many years, you will smile when you think about it!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Continue to be a sister who hurts like a sister, and have time to find a good boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You're joking, so is she also joking? Is it that you're thinking too much? There's still a long way to go, let it be.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you can grasp how deep your love is, how much love you give. If it's just a joke, don't be ambiguous if it's a joke, as soon as suspicion arises, it means a disaster in the future, and this disaster may have been said a little. Yes and no, you know better than we do, don't you?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Personally, I think he likes you. Here's why:

    1.He once confessed to you, and although you refused, he probably didn't give up.

    2.He will do his best to meet your needs, and there is no need to be so heartfelt and heartfelt for someone who is not his own sister, unless it is for a purpose. What's more, Valentine's Day is such a sensitive holiday, and he is not asking someone else, but you

    3.He fights with you, and it's for a long time, and he asks you about the conditions for choosing a mate, which is also a kind of liking, not just a simple brother to a sister

    4.Although he hasn't said he likes you or touched you now, it doesn't mean that he treats you as a sister in his heart. Some boys use actions to show love, rather than words. He will take care of you in your daily life, satisfy you, be considerate of you, and call you affectionately.

    To sum up, I think he likes you because what he has done has gone beyond what his brother defines as his sister. The reason why he didn't say he liked you verbally was because he confessed to you before, and you refused, but he didn't give up, but chose to be by your side to take care of you, help you, slowly make you dependent on him, and then wait for the right time to confess to you again, lest you feel that you suddenly reject him again. Actually, if you like him too, then accept him; If you still can't like him and treat him as a brother, then talk to him well, let him understand his thoughts, and don't waste time with you anymore

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe it's because of the relationship between colleagues, so it's hard to speak, I'm afraid that you will be embarrassed if you don't agree

    His meaning seems to be more obvious, depending on what you think. Do you have feelings for him? Want to give him this chance? You can give him a little hint when the two of you are alone

    Hehe, it's okay to wink your eyes

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Actually, it's obvious、You still feel it in your heart。 If he doesn't like you, he won't save you? He's paying silently for you, a good man. Don't let him slip away. Fertilizer and water don't flow into outsiders' fields....

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can test him, for example, when you go out, you can touch his hand inadvertently with your hand to see if he will pull your hand, or if you pull his hand and he will reject you

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You are her spare tire, a person who knows that you love her but refuses to let go. Actually, she was quite selfish and left her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Find yourself a girlfriend, there are few willows blowing on the branches, and there is no grass at the end of the world.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This one. Put away your heart that you don't know what to put in **! Besides, how can you say to your sister that I love you! And the love word is very load-bearing! Now that you know you can't, learn to let go! Oh Mitofo.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is a sentence that I like very much: "Friends are not welcome, and friends' wives are not to be bullied".

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Dear "I love him so much", there are many little girls like you, who fall in love with one of them, but he loves another her, not himself. But this is life, this is the wonder of the world of love. The question is, why is the world of love so wonderful? The answer is – dopamine.

    Love, first of all, produces dopamine against each other, and then attaches to each other. But dopamine is a very strange thing, and the strange thing is that dopamine is not produced symmetrically, it is not you who produce dopamine to him, he also produces dopamine to you, which may be a joke played by God and humans. So, love is one-way a lot of the time.

    However, attachment to each other requires mutual production of dopamine against each other.

    Therefore, you love you by yourself, enjoy your unrequited love, unrequited love is not sinful, and there is no need to suffer for it. Although it is not necessary, but before your dopamine to him disappears, more or less, there will be some unironing in your heart, which is the price of growth.

    But this price is not without returns, ten or twenty years later, on a sunny afternoon, when you look back at your youth again, you will be in your heart, in that apple green season, you once fell in love with a teenager, which lets you know that you have the ability to love, and any girl with the ability to love is lovely.

    Because of unrequited love, so cute, because of cuteness, so in the future there will be a cute boy who will produce dopamine to you, and his dopamine is exclusive to you, because you are the only one who "will be him in the future".

    Bless you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If there is a kind of love, let it go, and loving him does not necessarily have to have him, but to make him happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Then hurry up and flash it, there is no grass at the end of the world. Find something else to distract yourself, the world can't get by, maybe stay away, and he will still pay attention to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Love him should bless him, not necessarily to get, to learn to give up... It's also love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Love is based on the feelings of both parties, and since he doesn't love you, don't let yourself suffer.

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