Why are some girls very open and casual?

As we all know, China has always been a relatively traditional country with relatively conservative thinking. But with the high development of society, people's thinking is different from before. Many people's concept of emotional life has also changed, which is really different from the thinking of Chinese people in the past.

In the past, women stayed at home and learned piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and memorization at home, but now some people lament: pure girls are hard to find, and girls are becoming more and more open.

The reason why some girls are open is because they are more material and have higher requirements for life. Although in modern society, girls can rely on themselves to survive. But there are still some girls who choose to find another way, they are always not satisfied with the status quo and want to get better material conditions, so they are also willing to give everything they have to satisfy their vanity.

That's why they're so casual.

There are also girls who have been hurt in their relationships, and this hurt is so deep in their bones that they no longer want to believe in their feelings. Such girls, they have no hope for affection, so they will move between different men, but they will not be sincere to anyone. In fact, they are just like hedgehogs.

All of a sudden, I surrounded myself, afraid that I would be hurt again. For this type of girl, if you can't adjust it in time, the result will hurt others and yourself.

Then there is the influence of family factors, parents are not in harmony or have lived since childhoodSingle-parent familiesThe impact of this kind of family on the next generation is great. Because they did not grow up in a complete family, did not receive enough attention, and did not receive the right education, they often have a different perspective on feelings than others, so they will become open. But no matter what the reason, girls should not be too open, otherwise in the end they will hurt not only others, but also themselves.

This cannot be said too absolutely. Some of the girls are very open-minded though. Some are very casual, and some are principled.

If you don't have family love and care, if you have enough love, you won't be so open.

Maybe it's influenced by Western culture, or maybe it's just influenced by some TV series.

Because for them, they have long seen it and feel that it doesn't matter.

The main thing is that he has a more cheerful personality, and he looks down on everything.

First of all, I want to know whether the subject is a boy or a girl, and what exactly do you mind.

I don't know why there is this prejudice, thinking that college girls are very casual, so what exactly does this casualness mean? Is it casual who doesn't want to roll up and want to lie flat, or casual who is not active and unmotivated, or casual ...... in private life

Although I am in a private secondary university, at least the girls around me are idealistic, ambitious, positive, enterprising, self-reliant, and self-loving. I can't even believe it, such a bias. Of course, I'm not talking about the landlord.,I know that the search keyword "female college student" in it is basically college girls?,It's all casual?......Questions like that.

So let's go back to the question itself, how to define "casual". There are some girls who wear black silk, but I am well-dressed, and the overall look is very comfortable, good-looking, fashionable, is this casual? No, now the girl in our class is in a good figure, usually wears sweatshirts and pants in the classroom, and only goes out to play will dress fancy, as long as the right occasion wears the right clothes, it is not casual, as long as we do the right thing at the right time, it is not casual.

In terms of love, most of the girls, the girls around me either don't fall in love, those who fall in love are very single-minded, go out to eat, and the expenses for dating are basically AA, such as the money you spend on dinner today, and I spend money on the next meal, or I give you some gifts......

I want to say that learning in school, of course, learning is not only knowledge, the country provides us with nine years of compulsory education, education is not only learning, education is more than people, even if in the end everyone has different academic performance, but I believe that after layers of screening, students who can enter the university must not be bad in quality, they have culture, ambition and ideals, they may not study well, but when they meet the elderly, they will be humble, and when they meet poor classmates, they will think about each other, and they usually haven't said a few words about their roommates. When a roommate is sick, they will take the initiative to bring him food, they will say thank you when they buy something, and they will take the initiative to pay the money when the owner forgets to collect the money.

Although they have high expenses and low incomes, they are not greedy for small gains, they would rather suffer losses themselves than let others suffer, very empathetic, they are a typical representative of this group of "obviously they are also very bitter, but they just can't see the slightest bit of misery at this time", this is a contemporary female college student, this is a contemporary college student!

Usually we talk about daily life and share life together, which is not very casual at all! It is very sunny, very positive, and very motivated!

<> these words are a bit intense, and my blood is boiling when I write this, for fear that my words are not powerful enough!

Mouse tail juice, encourage you together!

Openness is a matter of environment and sexual concepts, and it has little to do with academic qualifications!

At present, the study room has been open for almost a year, and the reason for opening the study room for girls is that it is more simple and convenient to only have a girl's environment. There are more than 20 seats in total. Since the study hall only admits female students, it has also been attacked by some netizens, saying that the owner is sexist.

The owner said he thought the sounds were boring and boring.

In fact, this is not the first time that such "women-only spaces" have appeared, such as the "women-only carriages" and "all-female apartments" that have been discussed a few years ago. Until now, however, "women-only spaces" have not been common, and they have faced both difficulties in implementation and conceptual challenges.

I don't think there's anything wrong with opening a girls' study room, and I don't feel the sexism that netizens accuse. Rather, it feels like giving women a more simple and convenient environment. Moreover, the store is not large and has more than 20 people, so the owner has the right to choose so.

Those who questioned that the netizens who pointed out that it opened this kind of gender-specific netizens were purely idle and boring. Just ignore it. ”

The opening of a girls' study room is not sexist because the owner has the right to decide who to host. In the same way, whether a business boss recruits a man or a woman cannot be considered gender discrimination, because the boss has the right to decide who to hire. ”

There is no need to care what others say, people live according to their own wishes. Opening a self-study room for girls is her interest and a life she wants, and she wants to create a simple and elegant learning environment for girls.

It had nothing to do with sexism, she just did what she wanted. If doing what we want is also sexist, then what is the meaning of our life? To live is to live according to your heart, not to live in the words of others. ”

Because she is open, people go to her. As the saying goes: flies don't bite seamless eggs.