How to enrich life experience and improve personality charm

Many of life's realizations and wisdom are gained more through rich experiences. If there is a taste of rich life experience, it must be a combination of spicy and sour. If you don't have experience in life, it's as monotonous and pale as a blank sheet of paper, and it will make people fall into boredom.

Rich experience can increase the thickness of life, broaden the width of life, and broaden the field of life, so that your life can be read like a heavy book, which is interesting and interesting to read.

How to cultivate rich life experience, before reaching that peak, we need to learn to precipitate and learn to know and act.

1. Maintain a positive attitude.

Only with a positive attitude will we work hard and keep forging ahead; will cherish all their experiences and continue to gain experience and lessons from failures or successes; In order to improve the life experience and condense it into the wisdom of life. Therefore, the premise of accumulating life experience in life is to maintain a positive and good attitude.

2. Learn to observe and think.

Through observation, you can broaden your horizons, observe your own past, observe the experiences of others, observe ancient and modern Chinese and foreign people, and know everything in heaven and earth. In life, we should use the experience of others for our own use, and at the same time, we should also reflect on our own shortcomings, so as to improve our own minds and make ourselves mature and stable.

Three: Be diligent in summarizing.

Of course, we don't have to create like writers, but we also have to think hard, summarize, and constantly enrich our wisdom. People often envy those who can elevate their life experience to wisdom and philosophy, in fact, that is the essence of life summary.

Threesome, there must be my teacher. When we expand our social circle, we are also learning and being exposed to new things. We can learn more and learn more from communication.

Five: Entertaining ** wonderful movies.

Art comes from life and is higher than life. A wonderful movie actually contains a lot of profound content. We can learn about historical knowledge and national customs through movies, and excellent movies will reveal more philosophies of life.

Maybe we usually just use movies as entertainment and relaxation, but in fact, movies have had a big impact on me.

Six: Read classic books to gain experience.

Books are the ladder of human progress, and from books you can gain knowledge and get more content that you are interested in, such as photography, travel, sports, etc. Books are good friends of human beings, and they bring me more than just knowledge, but also enrich our mentality and increase our knowledge.

Seven: Cherish your experience.

Only by measuring every step under your feet can you know where the bumps are; Only by experiencing it in person will there be more gains and insights. Cherish your own experience, every experience is a precious treasure in your life.

The upstairs one is right.

Personality charm is reflected in how you behave and how you do things. Speaking is the most direct manifestation.

1.Look at books on how to be a person, know how to do things, how to cultivate yourself.

2.Choose someone you admire or admire, communicate with them more, and learn more.

3.Get a piece of paper and write down the personality qualities you wish to achieve, one by one, and a few specific criteria for each item.

After each day, do an assessment. If you can persist for about a week, you will understand that you are insufficient.

During this period, the focus is on adjusting oneself and changing one's inherent thinking (such as looking at others unpleasantly, liking to find reasons for people and things other than oneself, etc.).

That is to say, to be patient, to adapt to others, to adapt to society.

5.When you do a lot and change a lot, you will find that the most important thing is that you have to make a difference.

There are many good people like Tang Seng, but few are willing to fight for their ideals like Tang Seng.

The most important cultivation in life is to change oneself first, and then to change one's destiny – one's own, someone else's, and society's.

In this change, you will understand where those valuable qualities come from.

It's all DIY. They all conquer themselves by themselves and lead their own by themselves.

When you achieve something, the charm comes naturally.

4.Charm is ultimately reflected in internal self-confidence and external attraction.

When you find that you can really control and conquer your own words and actions, self-confidence really comes.

When you find that you like yourself and others, and many people like you too, the charm really comes.

1. Smile, be sure to smile No one will take the initiative to like people with stiff muscles! Whether you are interviewing or going on a blind date, even if you meet a handsome guy in the elevator who wants to talk to you, you must smile. A real smile is not as simple as an upturned mouth, but a relaxed and measured muscle movement.

Studies have found that the infection effect of a toothy smile is nearly 30% higher than that of a pursed mouth smile, don't worry about your crooked teeth, 70% of Asian men say: they like girls who smile often and have small tiger teeth!

2. Don't talk about heavy topics People prefer those who bring "positive psychological effects"! As long as you don't go to the in-depth talk show group for an interview, don't talk about heavy topics such as financial crises, wars in the Middle East, and company layoffs when you meet for the first time! Otherwise, the negative emotions generated by the other party will unconsciously "empathize" to you, and in his subconscious, you will become the source of bad feelings.

It is advisable to try to talk about light topics when you meet for the first time. If the other party is a woman, it is safer to talk about cosmetics, and if the other party is a man, ask him about the latest new mobile phone style3, and respond when listening Since you choose to be a listener, don't just listen! As the other party's words nod frequently, and the other party responds with a smile when he says the highlights, people can find resonance in you, and there is a feeling of "having a confidant".

Don't interject when the other person is talking, it's a big no-no in social situations. If the person you are facing is talking endlessly and doesn't give you a chance to speak, it doesn't matter, a series of positive reactions such as your nod, approval, and smile will make him feel good, but you can secretly make up your mind on the sidelines: you won't contact him next time you kill him!

4. Make a few impressive expressions Julia Roberts is known as the "Hollywood courtesan", and the reason why she always impresses people is because she has several unique laughing expressions that no one can imitate! Although the human eye receives dynamic visual signals, these visual signals are stored in the brain and can only leave a planar map. Therefore, a few classic expressions that belong only to you can add a lot of color to the memories of you in other people's minds.

This expression doesn't have to be a smile or a laugh, you can practice it in front of the mirror often to find one that you think looks the best and make it casually on important occasions. For example, the way a woman gently bites her lower lip and makes a thinking gesture is known as the classic expression that American interviewers love the most!

Personality charm is the result of internal cultivation, as long as you take care of others in your heart, experience the feelings of others, empathy, and empathy for others! If you interact with people with the warmth of love, you can improve your personality charm!

Possess the following six points: calmness, carefulness, courage, generosity, integrity, and the most important one: responsibility.

The first thing to do is to find the right style for you.