The man I have loved each other for 5 years has decided to let go of me, how can I get it back?

I have lived with her for five years, I love her very much, I broke up with me a month ago because I couldn't buy a house, she took the initiative to be together, I am much older than her, and I promised her the original intention of taking care of her and loving her. I gave up everything to be with her. I texted and begged so far, and she was still very determined.

What can be done?

In love between the two places, one party can only compromise with the other party to develop in his city Can you give up everything now Just to be with him Change your bad temper for him For him to "endure humiliation and burden" in front of his family Although he has nothing now, but if you love you as much as you say He will do everything for you Just to make you happier He is a good man worthy of TOEFL There are many people around me who got married and even had children without buying a house They are also living very well Because they are very happy The house is still discussed with him and decided whether to buy it or not Because a man has a strong sense of self-esteem, if he wants the woman to buy a house when he gets married, he will feel that he is useless and can't hold his head up, discuss everything with him, if it doesn't work, rent a house to live and work hard for a few more years, let him feel how much you are calling him If you want to redeem it now, you must make your decision as soon as possible Don't always be very passive You have to wait for him to decide Everything will be too late for him to decide After all, the situation like today is accumulated bit by bit Don't think that you can reconcile in three or two days Be mentally prepared for success or failure The attitude towards him and his family must be pious No matter what kind of excessive behavior his family makes to you, let him feel your sincerity, your love, you can fly over when you decide, don't listen to him, he doesn't know how to face you, you give up everything just for him, and rush to him all the way to him, and you are in a strange city, can he look at you and ignore you, don't cry, don't make a fool, leave tears to the critical moment, and try to change the attitude of his family, be good to you and him, may a lover eventually become a family, I wish you success.

You'd be stupid to marry. If you don't have a house, do you have to rent a house for the rest of your life? If you live with his family, there will be a lot of contradictions, and you won't be able to live this life.

Of course, men want to get married without a house; To put it simply. And.

It's impossible for the family to listen to whatever they say. A man really loves you. I can't hear anything my family says.

Won't leave you alone. When you encounter a problem, you run away like this. Can it work?

Every time you encounter a problem like this, do you endure it? Be realistic.

Human nature is manifested in the ubiquitous details. Whether you care about the house or not about the money is not something you can get from a conversation or two. Do you want to think about what you're a good fit for?

Personally, I think you rarely observe each other's feelings and rarely care, if you really want to redeem yourself, you can express yourself from every detail of life, just talking is not enough to make people believe, do you understand? Your real problem is that you don't value communication. I advise you to care and give more, because he is worth it.

Good luck.

If you miss it, you can't have a second time, and there is a rift in each other's feelings, what do you do to mend it? Is the mended relationship still the true love that was at the beginning? You've been thinking about yourself, and you've thought about how you fought together after he got married.

Break up The man's personal opinion that there is no room for redemption if he breaks up.

It's not that I don't love you, it's that I don't have the courage to love.

The house can be fought for together after marriage.

Nowadays, girls are generally very realistic, you know, we are married to his person, not his house, how many girls are married to the house and lose love.

Introspection and introspection.

Men still love you, but men love freedom and dignity more, and once you let go of the 5-year entanglement, you will be very resolute. The only way is to change yourself, give him a new image of you, when he sees you, there is no pressure and only motivation, and when he succeeds, come on, even if he does not succeed in exchange for a new self, it is worth it.

Be sincere. Go to him without him knowing. Stopped at the door when he was off duty.

Then we went somewhere and somewhere together. It's quieter. Then confess your mistake to him.

The 5-year relationship is not just broken like that. Cherish it. Housing is valuable.

Love is more expensive. But the matter of buying a house cannot be hidden from him. Nor can I tell him directly:

My family is ready to give me money to buy a house. "That would be more embarrassing for a man. Every man wants to do a little more for himself.

Instead of letting your own women pay for it. You can go for a loan first. Then hide from her and repay the money directly after the loan.

Because I haven't taken out a loan. So don't know**. The main meaning is to unconsciously solve the problem of money for the house.

I guess that's the reason why he broke up with you. Because I don't have any money. I don't want you to pay for it.

For the dignity of men. He doesn't want your people to point fingers at him. Pointing fingers at you.

Five years of affection. It's been a long time. Bow your head and admit your mistake.

Let go of your attachments. I've seen a lot of this kind of proposed breakup. I've experienced it myself.

The main thing is that it is stressful. The second is that they don't communicate with each other for a long time. Chilled each other.

Make each other feel that the other person is indifferent to you. Try to send him a message every day. Sent for a few weeks in a row.

Then there is a pause for a day or a few days in between. Let him think there's something wrong with you. Hey.

Woman. I don't understand a man's heart.

Brush the trumpet. I'll do it. I don't want to lower my rate.

Can you tell us about the birth years of you and your friends?

There is only one chance, and if you miss it, you can't have a second time, and there is a rift in each other's feelings What do you do to mend it? Is the mended relationship still the true love that was at the beginning? You've always thought about yourself, have you considered him?

You will have what you should have, maybe your life will get better after you get married, you will have a house, a car, and a ticket, but you have forced him to the end of the world.

I hope you can understand that feelings are not just what you want to do? Feelings are a matter of 2 people, not you have the final say.

If you just pursue a car, a house, and a ticket, then you find a rich person to be raised, is that still a relationship?

After reading lz's words, your feelings are quite complicated, your boyfriend is not good at expressing you, you have lived with him for five years, how can you not know his inner thoughts at all, and you will only show up later. Try to understand him from all aspects You say you are willful He still loves you like that With your current situation I think it's better to calm him down for a while If you still love him, take some action But don't go overboard Otherwise he will be more and more stressed I wish you happiness

Talk to him well, and then go to him, don't go to his house, you go to his place and ask him out for a good talk, if this man is still hesitant, then you also let go, leave, a man who has no responsibility is not worthy of a woman's life.

I think the breakup that a guy says is generally deliberate, maybe he has someone he likes or has no hope for your relationship, or time has diluted the love between you, and there is no need to keep it. Because you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

I don't think it's necessary, since we've been together for 5 years and haven't achieved positive results, it means that there are still a lot of differences between you, and even if you continue to be together, it is impossible to have a good result.

I think at this time, I still have to communicate and communicate with my boyfriend in a timely manner, I hope he can understand. The beginning of a relationship is not easy, and it is still necessary to cherish it.

There is no love between you anymore, and there is no novelty left, and there will be no results if you continue to entangle, so I think you should let go in style.

The most important thing is to look at the reason for his breakup, many boys are due to personality incompatibility, in fact, it is not personality incompatibility, people have a better object than you,

Because you can tell him about the good things you have been through, and let him remember these things to save your feelings.

I should communicate effectively with him. Ask him why.