Dear, what should I do if my lover and family can t get along?

You mediate it. This problem is a must-have problem for every family in China, and it is also the most difficult to solve.

Rely on your own coordination, and both sides say good things for many parties!

The best way is not to live together, just go home and see it often.

Strive to mediate, persevere, that is, and win.

It is difficult for the Qing officials to mediate the affairs of the family, so you should mediate by yourself.

There is a certain reason for parents to disagree, as long as parents feel that it is for your own good, and the experience of people who have come over.

This is a difficult problem for the ages! A lot of people have to face it, and I have a headache right now! Let's go left and right, and feel uncomfortable by ourselves.

This is the hardest thing to solve.

It depends on why your lover can't get along with your family!

It's normal not to get along, now many young couples and husbands and families can't get along, you can live separately from the husband and wife, it's best not to live with the elderly, it's easy to quarrel with different concepts, and it's difficult to live together without understanding each other. Let's live separately.

Cold salad or improve yourself to become a real mother in the world, then there will be no such saying.

In real life, there are usually these options.

1. Discuss with your husband and move out alone.

2Go back to your mother's house and wait for the man's family to beg you to go back.

3 trouble, 4 endure, 5 leave.

My cousin and I have had a very good relationship since we were children, but then the gap between us grew, and she began to be jealous of me. She doesn't have any skills, she relies on me, she deserves to take away the benefits I give her, and if I don't give it to her, she will speak ill of me behind my back. Once she lost a lot of money and said that I must have taken it, I was not bad at all, so I "returned" her in desperation, and then we broke off our relationship, she saw that I didn't give her a good face and stopped harassing me, and after breaking off the relationship, it was a lot lighter.

It's not that we're ruthless and break up with our relatives, it's that they're too ruthless. Some people are not worth dating, and we don't have to care about the eyes of others, after all, everyone knows their character. Don't owe them just because they're relatives, how can we take care of them if their parents don't take care of them.

Some people bully you and take advantage of you just because you are a relative. We are righteous people, and we cannot do evil things or allow wicked people to do evil things, because that will not solve the problem, but will only make the wicked more indulgent. Break off friendship, it's not your fault, what are you worried about, most of the relatives are incapable people can't do anything with you.

Then stay away from them and keep a certain distance.

Instead of struggling to maintain a relationship and not pleasing each other, it is better to keep your distance and make a good impression on each other.

Your problem is a bit similar to me, my girlfriend is also a family member who does not agree with me and her relationship, and I am about to be depressed to death, and I can't think of any good way to do it, the only thing is to fight, work hard, and do it to them, we are all very emotional people, on the one hand, we have to take care of the whole family, on the other hand, we are reluctant to let my girlfriend be sad Since ancient times, people who have been emotionally important will become puppets of love, the so-called "loyalty and filial piety cannot be both".

In a situation like yours, you can take your time, on the one hand, enlighten your girlfriend and tell her that your parents should be filial and not let the family be hurt because of the individual, and on the other hand, enlighten your parents and tell them that it is extremely difficult for people to meet each other who truly loves each other in their lives, and ask them to try to accept your girlfriend, is it like this?

Lovers express themselves with kisses, and China hardly greets each other with kisses.

Excuse me, are you a tease sent by Mars! Such a retarded question, are you pretending to be ridiculous, thank you.

Parents are related by blood, and if you don't treat her well with your daughter-in-law, she won't play with you, please accept it.

It's all important, don't break your daughter-in-law's heart just for your parents, it's your daughter-in-law who lives with you.

If your girlfriend is like this, you can't help it, after all, it can't be because your girlfriend doesn't like it to ask your uncle to change it, if you change, then it's not your previous uncle, if your girlfriend really can't communicate, you can only let go, after all, it's impossible to give up the uncle who grew up with you all your life because of your girlfriend, everyone has their own temper, this kind of girlfriend doesn't care how much lack of understanding, even if you really get married and have children in the future, you won't be happy, I hope mine will help you!

Do you think she really loves you enough? If you love someone deeply, you will not dislike each other's relatives and friends, and you should be able to love the house and Wu.

I feel that if your girlfriend can understand something, she won't talk much, no matter how much a girl doesn't like her boyfriend's family, she can have less contact with herself, but she can't force you, after all, the best thing for you since you was a child is your uncle, and he is not your fox friend and dog friend.

It was your relatives who gave you this home, of course, if you are a relative, how can you be yourself without relatives?

Girlfriends can be changed, relatives cannot, decisively relatives.

Ask you what you would do if your parents and your partner always quarreled, there is a person around me who said such a sentence I don't know if you can understand, the wife can be found with money, my mother is only one in this life, I won't say the rest, you should be able to understand.

Didn't you ask your girlfriend what she didn't like about her uncle?

His own uncle had misbehaved towards this girl, which caused this girl to resist like this.

It depends on how you and your boyfriend deal with it. If you both insist on being good at the piano, you may face more pressure from your family. If you think that the possibility of the two complementing each other is very small, it is better to break up early, so as not to waste energy and feelings in vain. Please adopt it!

Choose the one you love. Loved ones are angry for a while. After a long time, it will be better for your parents and it will slowly dissolve. Choose your family. Then your lover misses it and misses it forever.

You think you can get along with your boyfriend, your family can communicate well, you can persuade your boyfriend, don't fight each other in everything, even if you don't like to look at your face, you can get by on the surface, just respect your family.

It's simple, you can tell your boyfriend directly, tolerate a little bit of inconsequential things, and if you don't have this measure, it's better to break up as soon as possible.

Discuss it with your boyfriend.

The two of you live alone with your parents.

He may change his words of love for you, but you can't ask your family to change them.