What do you think about raising children to prevent old age ?

The idea of raising children to prevent old age is very utilitarian, if it is purely for the sake of their old age, it is better to make money while they are young, and having children is not because of raising children to prevent old age or because others get married and have children, and it is time for them to get married and have children, and children should be the crystallization of the love of two people.

I think that parents who hold the concept of "raising children to prevent old age" are more or less selfish, their love is more or less selfish, and the things they provide for their children are under the premise that their children provide for him.

All those who report raising children to prevent old age are extremely selfish, and children are a chess piece for their retirement. If it is not as good as they want, it is easy to say that I raised you with hard work, and the property of the old man who does not support them will not be distributed to you, and the parents who ask for a return for this kind of parenting are not qualified to say that they are great, if they really do not ask for anything in return, selfless dedication, then they will be willing to repay their parents as children.

Raising children to prevent old age, unfilial piety is big or something, it is used to increase the fertility rate, how high is the cost of raising a son now, you have to buy him a house and marry a daughter-in-law, and it is not necessarily filial.

It is a wrong concept to raise children to prevent old age, and it is possible to raise a white-eyed wolf, even if the daughter-in-law who is good for the son to marry is not necessarily good, but also to be in good health to be able to take care of the grandchildren, tired.

Don't dream that raising a child must not prevent old age, when the child is older, you have to buy a house for your son to marry a daughter-in-law, and you have to raise a grandson, raising a child is sad, you should go to the crematorium after squeezing your heart blood pressure, it is better to raise a child than to raise a daughter, your daughter will take care of you, and your son will not take care of you.

As a child, it would be understandable but sad if my parents gave birth to me to prevent old age, after all, I thought their love for me was selfless, but it turned out to be conditional.

It is understandable that I am from the countryside, my parents are not highly educated, and the opportunities to make money are limited, and if I want to live well when I am old under such restrictions, I can only rely on my children.

It is because of the imperfect rural pension policy that this phenomenon will occur, if the pension policy is perfect, everyone has something to rely on, and it is okay to play on their own when they are old.

I feel that parents with such a concept were speculative when they conceived their children, just like buying lottery tickets. It is estimated that the psychological activity of parents is: in case the child is born, he can earn money to support me.

I think the idea of raising children to prevent old age is still necessary, after all, if you are old and your relatives have passed away or something, someone must sign it when you have surgery.

It's best to support the elderly on your own, if you instill the concept of raising children to prevent old age in your child from an early age, he should be sad, and there will be a gap between us.

China's 5,000-year-old civilization has disappeared from ...... of a small number of peopleRespect for teachers and honor parents....Father and son are filial....In the past, even bandits and bandits knew the ...... of honoring their parentsNow they all go to school more, and some of them have gone astray and become well-dressed beasts! In this season of white-eyed wolves, as parents, they all ask for more blessings......The right path in the world is the vicissitudes of ......The quality of the people will always return to the right path!

Although I think that children should provide for their parents, I will be sad if my parents clearly tell me that they are raising me to provide for them in the future.

You can't rely on anyone, save some money, take care of your body, and rely on yourself.

Raising children to prevent old age is the past tense, and raising children to be fun is modern. Raising children and doing birds in the future.

The premise is to educate men to be men, and only with responsibility and responsibility can there be hope, otherwise they will only gnaw at the old or not count on it at all.

What's the point of having a child if you don't care for the elderly?

It ......is true that raising children to prevent old age and accumulating grain to prevent hunger is true

In today's society, raising children cannot prevent old age.

Aren't children who hold the view of gnawing at the old selfish?

Whether raising children can prevent old age depends on the situation of each family, and cannot be generalized. Children are not a tool for providing for the elderly, nor should they be the only way to provide for the elderly. Raising children to prevent old age is a continuation of China's filial piety tradition, and China's laws also stipulate the obligation to support children.

There are always many people who want to rely on their children to support them for the rest of their lives, but they don't expect that when they reach old age, they will become a burden on their children. Many children are burdened with significant financial pressures and have to support two elderly families, while married children have four elderly people to take care of. It's not that they don't fulfill their filial piety, but that many times they have more than enough heart and not enough power.

The older generation often says that raising children to prevent old age, but in today's 21st century, this statement does not seem to be so correct.

A few decades ago, our country's economy was very backward, and I remember my own memory, when I was a child, my family was really poor, and I remember that I only bought clothes once for a long time. At that time, most of the country's economy was agricultural income.

In addition, the previous marriage custom was to marry men and women, so in general,The woman will get married, that is, she is far away from home and cannot take care of her parents.

But now, the economy is developing rapidly, transportation has also been greatly improved, and the country is slowly transforming to scientific and technological developmentWhat is needed is innovative talents, that is, mental workers, who are no longer the most manual labor in the past, so at this time, the advantage of boys is not so strong.

Modern society is more inclusive, who has the ability, who can gain more, that is, the so-called capable people work hard, survival of the fittest survival,Men and women are equal, and both men and women can do very well at work.

Therefore, these changes in the country mean that boys do not have so many advantages, and now pay more attention to innovation ability, innovation is the primary productive force, we have shifted from high speed to high-quality development, girls can also take on the responsibility of the family, and with the current pension system is becoming more and more perfect, the elderly themselves can also take good care of themselves, raising children to prevent old age is not entirely correct.

In this day and age, raising children may not be able to prevent old age.

When you are old, you cannot rely entirely on your childrenIn old age, especially when you are sick, you may not be able to rely entirely on your children.

If your children work and live in another city, you really won't have a lot of companionship and care.

Even in the same city, if you are bedside for a long time and your children are very busy with work, they may not have enough energy and time to take care of them.

As an old man, I can't bear to drag down the normal life of my children because of my illness.

The meaning of parentingWe choose to raise children not just for the sake of life extension.

We are able to accompany a life through a long and colorful journey.

Become a better version of yourself as you learn to become a parent.

It's best to rely on yourself to provide for the elderlyThe matter of pension is more important to plan for yourself.

After all, having enough money can ensure that the old age is supported.

One is to improve your skills and accumulate enough wealth.

The second is to buy a good endowment insurance and have protection.

The third is to invest so that the growth of wealth can outpace the speed of inflation.

"Raising children and preventing old age" is the traditional concept of Chinese, and it is still the mainstream idea in modern society.

Can raising a child prevent aging?

There are a number of influencing factors for this.

For example, the upbringing of parents, all kinds of things and people encountered in the process of children's growth, etc., may affect children's thinking concepts, and thus affect parents.

It can only be said that it is only an important part of the anti-aging process.

After all, there are always some wicked people who come out ......

Don't you see that there are incidents of abandoning the elderly in the social news every year?

Everyone has their own fate, and the road is also a journey!

Early this morning, when I opened the door to take out the garbage, I saw a few old sisters-in-law and aunts on the street getting together and didn't know what to discuss, so I also went up to listen to the news in the village.

It turned out that they were all talking about Wang You's family in the same village. The two sons of Wang You's family have already started a family, and they are also middle-aged. No, Wang Youquan and his wife are no longer self-reliant when they are old, and they have reached the point of being raised without permission.

But the two sons pushed each other and did not want to support each other. The eldest son said that his parents were biased towards his younger brother and that the younger brother should support the elderly, and the second son said that his parents were biased towards his elder brother and that his elder brother should provide for the elderly. In fact, this is the best idea of who is not biased and who is the bystander, in order to marry a daughter-in-law for their two sons, the couple treated themselves as cattle and worked day and night.

The two daughters-in-law got married, and their old couple was also comfortable. Then he took care of the children for the eldest son's family, took care of the old family and took care of the second family, and tried his best to always think about his son.

Now that they are being pushed around by their son and daughter-in-law, the old couple is not sad. He found a prestigious person in the village to take care of things, but the two sons did not want the old man to live with him. In the end, it was unanimously discussed that the old couple would still live in the old house, and the two families would provide food for the elderly for half a year, and if they were sick, half of the medical expenses would be paid.

Wang Youquan and his wife were also helpless, so they had to agree. Everyone said that it would be better for the old couple to have a daughter, because the girl is the intimate little padded jacket of the parents. It is said that raising children can prevent old age, why don't I think that's the case!

This problem really needs to be analyzed specifically, and there is a certain reason for raising children to prevent old age, but everything is not absolute, and the elderly will pin all their hopes on raising children to prevent old age, and there is also a certain risk, and the key is to rely on yourself.

With the progress and development of society, the social pension security system is becoming more and more perfect, and it is becoming more and more possible to prevent old age by yourself. In addition, at present, commercial insurance such as medical insurance and critical illness accidents are relatively developed, which also provides a strong guarantee for the health care of the elderly. Again, be fully prepared to rely on yourself to prevent aging, no matter what situation you encounter, you can calmly deal with it, so that you know what you know.

Not to mention whether the children are filial, just look at the increasingly fierce competition among people in society, the pressure of life has increased sharply, and the energy and time are stretched, you can see how difficult it is to raise children to prevent old age. The children of some elderly people live and work in other places or even abroad all the year round, and it is basically impossible for them to be hospitalized when they are sick. And the only children who have grown up so far may have four old people and two children, and the burden can be said to be surprisingly large, and it will be quite difficult to prevent them from getting old.

However, there is still some significance in raising children to prevent old age. Even if the elderly are more sufficient in anti-aging funds, they will still lack in personnel care, after all, family care and care can not be replaced by anyone, and the care and love of relatives is the most down-to-earth part of the hearts of the elderly.

Therefore, relying on the social security system to prevent self-aging is the mainstay, supplemented by raising children to prevent old age, which should be the trend in the future.

First of all, I don't think this question can be answered with the ability or can't, because in reality, what kind of children are there, there are filial and unfilial! Subdivide it again, and divide it into what you say and what you say in your own home! Although it is said that it is a matter of money to provide for the elderly for parents, it is undeniable that if your life is very tight, it will affect the choice of the above three conditions.

Secondly, I think every child has wireless love for their parents, after all, they are the people who give us life, and they are the people who accompany them the longest, and they are the people who must repay and protect. At this level, I agree with this point of view, raising children can prevent old age!

Third, the older you are, the more you understand the importance of your parents, as the saying goes, you know and understand the mood of your parents, maybe some people are not good to their parents when they are young, rebellious and disliked, but as they grow older and have experience in society, they will understand that their parents' love is higher than the mountains and deeper than the sea, and supporting their parents is not only out of responsibility, but also out of true feelings, and they are really willing to accompany their parents to old age and take care of their parents until they are old!

Therefore, raising children to prevent old age is not only an old saying, but also the experience and truth that our Chinese nation has summed up for thousands of years, I agree!

The Qing Dynasty has been dead for more than 100 years, this kind of thinking should be changed, children can support their parents very well, but more often to learn to support their own pension, on the one hand, to buy pension insurance for themselves, as well as medical insurance, pay attention to health, medical care and elderly care. When you are old and fully prepared, it is no longer a problem whether you can raise children to support your old age.

In real life, raising children may not really be able to prevent aging. The purpose of raising a child is to grow up and become a talent, and if you raise a child and have talent, you will not stay by your side, but go outside to make a career. If you are really getting old, they don't have time to stay with them for a long time.

If you are really a little stupid, although the material aspect is not rich enough, the child can be by your side for a long time, which can reflect the raising of children and the prevention of old age.

This is not necessarily, if you meet an unfilial son, you will have a miserable old age. There are many examples like this, try to rely on yourself when you are old, and your children have children's lives.

Nowadays, raising children in society may not be able to prevent old age, it depends on how to educate children, too doting is not good, don't expect anyone to do anything, or rely on yourself, make more money when you are young, and when you are old, even if your children are not filial, they will not be too depressed.