I barely have half a friend, why don t I have any friends

People who can't eat.

Then you go to socialize and ask your former classmates and friends to come out for a drink, to sing, and to chat.

You can't go on like this, you're out of society, I don't know how to say hello, I don't know what you want to do.

It's not easy for shy people to make friends, in fact, this is not difficult for you You usually watch movies and TV, which can be regarded as hobbies. When talking to someone, the tone is important, but concentration is also very important A person wants to know if you care about listening to him, he will look at you from time to time Don't think that you are boring In fact, boring people are often regarded as cold humor You will find that you are better than others in a certain aspect It is important for you to cheer up and give yourself confidence.

Since you can ask this kind of question, it means that you really want to make friends, and you have time to add me, so I will enlighten you and let you make more friends and become more outgoing

These are not the problems, the question is whether you have the heart to make friends, take action, read some dating books, and look for experience in practice.

Stop someone and say, "Make a friend."

If you don't take the initiative, no one is idle and has nothing to do with you.

Maybe you don't know when someone else is your friend, don't shy away from other people's kindness to you

The formation of maternal and fetal solo often has a lot to do with the social environment in which they live, and traditional concepts, family factors, and personal personality may be the inducements of maternal and fetal singleness. (1) The dilemma encountered by many modern people is that they are not allowed to fall in love when they go to school, and their parents begin to urge marriage as soon as they graduate. When they were still on campus, both the school and parents regarded early love as fierce as a tiger, and many small buds of love were wiped out when they were students, and the data showed that most couples who fell in love and married freely were most likely classmates, that is to say, every time these parents killed a young love, they were very stupid and could kill their future daughter-in-law or son-in-law.

There is no accumulation of experience in the most easily germinating stage of love, and the stamina of falling in love in the later stage is bound to be insufficient.

2) If you don't find a suitable partner when you are a student, then if you don't have a suitable opportunity after leaving campus, the probability of finding a suitable partner will be greatly reduced. Every day at two o'clock in the line home to the Gongmin potato division, Saturday and Sunday because the week is too tired just want to rest at home, some young people who work hard in the big city may even encounter, even Saturday and Sunday holidays, **Have time to go out to meet more people? The circle of contact is narrow, and the probability of finding the object plummets.

In addition, young people who are busy and stressed at work can't even be busy with work matters, so how can they have time to fall in love and find a partner.

3) Once the personal personality is worked, as the age increases, the surrounding elders and married peers will begin to knock on the side of Zhang Luo's blind date bureau, urging to get married earlier, the more such voices are more likely to cause disgust, although the age is not young, but in this case, the adolescent rebellious psychology is stimulated, the more forced to find, the more I don't want to find, the pressure of work and life is already big enough, and the social animals hope to at least be able to control their own marriage affairs, so the love trip will be delayed again and again.

People who don't have any friends are mostly these three types of people.

In my opinion, people who have few friends do not mean that they are bad, but they do.

their reasons.

01 The trust in the people of Zhou is not enough.

Andy in Ode to Joy had few friends before moving to the 22nd floor. When I was working in the United States, I lived in a mansion in the suburbs at first, and I stared at the squirrels with big eyes, which frightened Lao Tan.

Later, after listening to Lao Tan's persuasion, he moved to a luxury apartment in the city center, but he still didn't make any friends.

In fact, Andy's style is closely related to her life growth experience.

Because her childhood was full of fear, she has always been full of distrust of people.

In fact, this is very worthy of sympathy.

In reality, each of us will have some unknown life experiences.

But some people will feel that human nature is disgusting.

Isn't there a saying that says it well? In this world, ghosts are not scary, let me show you the hearts of people.

Therefore, for this reason, keep your distance from the people around you.

The law is completely worth understanding.

o2 is picky about friends.

A few days ago, I chatted with a netizen. He recently planned to set off from Shanghai, choose a small town in Yunnan, and buy a small house for retirement.

Why didn't he go back to his hometown?

He replied: "People from my hometown, those topics are really annoying. Follow.

They can't blend together, and the chickens talk to the ducks, which is very annoying.

He plans to buy a house for retirement, and he will not have excessive contact with Zhou Guoren, but keep his distance.

The netizen I'm talking about is someone who has quite high requirements for friends.

In his opinion, it is better to have less than to overuse.

He has experience, insight, reads a lot, has great career achievements, and is naturally kind to people.

For things, they are a little picky.

03 I like to entertain myself.

Some time ago, I was lucky enough to meet a fellow writer. She is a standard otaku, and her greatest pleasure is to read and write, and then cook for herself in her free time.

According to her, it is she who is happy with life. She doesn't need anyone else at all to delight her life.

This can't help but make me think of Xie Er, the protagonist in "Life Da**", he said:

I wish his pair of friends, when the two of them are together, get fast.

Happiness is as much as he gets by entertaining himself alone.

This is the typical example of self-entertainment. He didn't feel lonely, but felt comfortable and happy.

In fact, each of us is spending our lives for the first time.

It's enough to try to live at your own pace.

There's no need to make a fuss and point fingers.

Abnormal. In fact, whether in life or work, people still need to have so many friends. After all, loneliness is the norm of life, so companionship is particularly precious.

Moreover, even if this kind of friend is not a confidant, at least there are people who listen when they want to talk, and someone who is willing to listen to their friends when they want to complain. Of course, if a friend can lend a helping hand when he needs help, and he doesn't care about conditions, then such a friend is naturally more rare. However, if a person does not even have a friend, the biggest possibility is that this person is not sincere enough to treat others.

As the ancients said, sincerity for sincerity, the world is up to me. That is to say, if anyone wants to make real friends, there are not many shortcuts, only to be honest and sincere, so that they can exchange for the sincerity of others, and it is possible to become friends.

I have all heard the saying, "If you have more friends, the road is easier to walk", so obviously, without friends, the road may not be easy to walk, so those who have no friends should reflect on it. However, if you pay sincerely, you will inevitably get sincere, so you don't have to be afraid if you don't have friends, after all, there is such a saying: Don't worry about the road ahead without knowing yourself, and no one in the world knows you.

This problem is very normal, there are many people who have no friends, you are not the only one, making friends is to see your communication skills, resulting in no friends There are many results, one is withdrawn, not good at communication, always like to stay in their own world and are unwilling to contact with the outside world, over time it leads to the loneliness of the personality, taciturn.

In the future, go out and walk around more, find a few people who are interested in going out and have a good time, get together often, talk to them more about your soulmates, talk about your troubles, etc., these are all ways to interact with friends. Over time, you will find that your personality has changed, and you will have many more friends. Remember that friends talk about everything, that's what friends are.

Hope it helps,

It's normal to have no friends, it's normal to have no friends, it's not a big deal.

Generally speaking, it is relatively rare to say that you have no friends, but it does not mean that you are abnormal. It is also a normal situation.

This friend, it's not normal for you to have no friends, it proves that you are a withdrawn person, people have to be cheerful, open, want to open, let go, and be a happy person.

Everyone has their own life, it's normal to have no friends, you don't have to force it.

People in the world say that friends are an important part of life, and no matter where you are, it is a very beautiful thing to have a few friends to remember. But for me, it's a luxury to have a friend I see regularly, let alone a true friend to keep in touch with all year round.

I couldn't sleep for the past two days, and I kept thinking about whether no one would come to the wedding in the future? Could former classmates and friends have already married and had children, but they didn't invite themselves?

However, I was shocked to find that I don't have a girlfriend yet, I haven't bought a house or a car, and marriage is a long time later, maybe I won't be able to get married for the rest of my life. I simply rolled over and fell asleep.

However, by the next night, the brain began to repeat the previous day's activities, thinking about what was and was not.

After a few long nights of tossing, I finally came to terms with the fact that I didn't have a real friend, and I understood the reason why I didn't have a friend.

Everyone has their own unique way of life. When we were young, in order to make more friends, we would cut off our personality, pretend to like everyone very much, share snacks with everyone, share our toys, we are young, we are afraid of being excluded and forgotten, always think that if we have friends, we will not be lonely, and if we have a large number of friends, there will be a good way out.

Of course, for businessmen, having a large number of friends does have more outlets. But from another point of view, friends who are too easy to get are also too easy to lose, their friendship is based on interests, such friendship, no matter how glamorous it is on the surface, once it encounters wind and rain, it will be vulnerable.