I met a boy, he is divorced, with children, we are 6 years apart, I like him, do you want to be toge

First, there is a difference of 6 years, is you older or he is bigger? Men are 6 years older and can be considered, if you are six years older than him, it is not appropriate. Men age slowly, women age fast, and in a few years, there will be a big difference in appearance.

Second, he has a child, you have to consider this reality, you will always be a stepmother. None of the stepmothers will say good, including the public's concept. When a child grows up, he or she will not feel good about you.

Third, no matter how good you are to your child, he will not agree with him, he is wary of you. If you don't treat a child well, he will be dissatisfied. It's just a fact that can't be changed.

Fourth, marriage, once it is not just a matter of two people, can be very complicated.

Before you want to be together, you have to ask a few important questions:

1. Why did he get divorced?

The failure of a marriage will not be a person's problem, regardless of the reason, a person who does not manage a marriage well will definitely have the same problem in the next love marriage. Don't blindly believe that it is the woman's unilateral fault, you must calmly think about the problems he has in it, and think about whether you can handle it.

2. Can you accept his child completely?

Regardless of whether the child is brought by himself or the old man is helping to take it, if you want to be with him, this child is an unavoidable problem. Will you be able to accept your child? Can you do it, without thinking or questioning, to have compassion on this child, to care for him, to love him, to care for him, to endure him?

Raising a child, in addition to spending money, also spends physical strength and energy, which is really a thing that only has no return for paying, and it is something that needs to be 100% dedicated. Moreover, being a stepmother is really to feed other people's children, and no matter how good you are to him, there is a barrier, can you give it wholeheartedly without thinking so?

3. How much do you like him?

Realistically, how far can you sacrifice for him? Are you willing to put all your money into his children? In case he has no income, are you willing to accompany him to endure hardships?

Would you like to take care of him in case he gets seriously ill? In case he doesn't change all kinds of problems, are you willing to endure it? The answers to these questions show how much you like him.

If you don't like him who can give everything, you really have to be cautious! Because you're going to have a lot of trouble.

It's not impossible to accept a man whose marriage has failed and his children can't do it, the main thing is that you must judge your emotional level and psychological tolerance before this. He is a man with history, he once loved others deeply, had sweet love and marriage, had common children and days, this is an indelible trace. When you accept him, it means accepting his history as well, which requires you to be strong enough mentally and you to be prepared enough!

I hope you can judge rationally and wish you happiness!

It is advisable not to be together, I am like that, not happy at all, very tired and tired.

First of all, you have to think about the child: Can you accept the role of stepmother? And then there's the economic problem, and if neither of these two things are a problem, you can go for happiness.

If you think that two people are suitable and you will be happy in the future, then you should think about it.

You first think about whether you can treat his children well, and then decide whether to be together.

Don't just think about how good it is to be together, you think about all kinds of difficulties before making a decision. A lot of things are many, much harder than you think.

Remember! There is nothing in the world that can prevent lovers from being together.

You can handle the pressure of work, no.

Summary. Hello, dear well, you can appeal for divorce, if the other party poses a threat to your life, you can appeal for divorce Oh, uh, if you don't have evidence, a seven-year-old child is a witness.

I'm ready to get divorced, but I have a boy who has been with me all the time, seven years old, but if I get divorced, what should I do if the father of the child wants a child, and the father of the child does not exist when the child is a child.

Hello dear, in this case you can consult a lawyer, in this case you can appeal, and the child is longer than when you live, the court also guesses that the child will be awarded to you, or will not be awarded to his father. If his father threatens you, you can sue Oh, thank you for your consultation, and I wish you a happy life.

Can I appeal for divorce just after separation, just because of emotional incompatibility, there is no evidence for anything else, but what the seven-year-old child said is not evidence.

Hello, kiss Dong Shi Zai, you can appeal for divorce, if the other party poses a threat to your life, you can appeal for divorce Oh, uh, if you don't have evidence, the seven-core hungry child is a witness.

Okay thank you. The father of the main child does not earn money to support the family, and he still sprinkles his temper on me and the child, is this evidence or not.

Hitting people is considered domestic violence, there is no evidence, but the child has seen it, didn't you say that the child is a witness.

That's right, the child is the parent of the witness, I'm sorry, I made you wait for a long time, and the reply was too late.

Summary. After reading your problem description, do you mean that after you get divorced, the child will not follow you, with the man, and the man will come to you to play when he is free, so will he hate himself?

If the child is married to a man after the divorce, the son is 11 years old and I am single-handedly raised, and I am divorced, and I rent a house outside, and he will come to play with me when he is free, so will he hate himself.

After reading your problem description, do you mean that after you get divorced, the child will not follow you, with the man, and the man will come to you to play when he is free, so will he hate himself?

Since they are divorced, there is no relationship between the two people, which means that there is no possibility that the two people will still be together. That means you don't have anything to do with the man. But the kid can still come to you to play, after all, your relationship with him is not separated.

It's okay for your son to come to you to play when he is free, after all, you are her biological mother, although he lives with the man, he can also play with you at any time. He won't hate you either, because he has grown up, is sensible, and knows the affairs of adults, and adults will solve them.

Summary. Hello, very willing to help you.

Your situation is very difficult based on my many years of experience in hospitality.

I am divorced with a baby, the other party is unmarried and 6 years younger than me, his parents do not agree with us to be together, he is forced to die, he insists on being with me, what should I do, is there any result in this relationship?

Hello, very willing to help you with your situation According to my many years of experience in reception, it is very difficult.

Hello, very willing to help you with your situation According to my many years of experience in reception, it is very difficult.

Because the other party's parents do not approve, there is a great price to be together, and there will be a lot of pressure in the future.

Should I give up on this relationship right now?

If you can accept the outcome of losing this relationship in the end, then you can try to try to change the other parent's point of view, after all, we have accepted the worst outcome, so what is there to worry about, just fight for yourself, if you can't win it, then give up this is <>my advice

Summary. Hello, dear, glad to answer for you. You can participate in the wedding, after all, it is your own flesh and blood, there is no reason not to participate in your son's wedding, and your mother to attend your wedding is also the greatest blessing to yourself.

The couple divorced. There was a boy and the man, and when the little boy got married, the little boy's father married his wife again, and the child's mother also found a husband. Can the biological mother attend the wedding of a child when he gets married?

Hello, dear, glad to answer for you. You can participate in the wedding, after all, it is your own flesh and blood, there is no reason not to participate in your son's wedding, and your mother to attend your wedding is also the greatest blessing to yourself.

When the child gets married, all the money is paid by the man, and the woman does not contribute 1 dime. If the woman goes to her son's wedding, that's how it should be. What kind of identity is it to participate? Do you want to speak on stage?

Whether or not to speak on stage depends on whether the man is willing or not.

What reason does the man have for wishing? The marriage he handled single-handedly, did two fathers and two mothers be allowed to participate on stage when his son got married?

This, it depends on whether his son wants to or not.

Because I don't know if he is divorced or divorced, but it can be seen that he cares about children very much, but this doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you.

Because it may be because his child has not accepted you, and his child has told him that you are not allowed to touch his things.

He also does this to prevent these small things from affecting your relationship with his child and making him unable to make a choice.

Since you want to be with him, don't doubt his feelings or attitude towards you because of these things, I think you have to further make him feel that you can be good to his child, or let the child accept you. Maybe he has accepted you, but because the child hasn't accepted it yet, he is caught in the middle and doesn't know how to choose.

If I were you, I would choose to leave, I can't compare with his children, but it's not easy to be a stepmother.

What's there, if you're looking for this, you have to know that there are a lot of things that you have to understand.

It's disgusting for you! You can't even see that!

Everybody is uncomfortable, so you can't live together.

Your ideas can be realized through adoption.

I have passed the Adoption Act, which stipulates that children whose biological parents have special difficulties and are unable to raise them may be adopted, as follows:

Infants, toddlers and children under the age of 14 are vital to the physical development of the body, and in the process of growth and development, if they cannot meet their physical and psychological needs, it will lead to abnormal development of children, and biological parents who are unable to support them cannot meet their normal development needs due to their own economic and physical capabilities.

Of course, the party who wants to adopt your child, the Adoption Law also has provisions, which are as follows:

Article 6 of the Adoption Law stipulates that an adopter shall meet the following conditions at the same time:

1) childless;

2) Have the ability to raise and educate the adoptee;

3) Do not have a medical condition that medically deems unsuitable for adoption;

4) Be at least 30 years old.

Article 8 of the Adoption Act stipulates that an adopter may adopt only one child. Adoption of orphans, disabled children, or abandoned infants and children raised by social welfare institutions whose biological parents cannot be found, may be exempted from the restriction that the adopter has no children and adopts one.

If an adoption is to be made, it also needs to be registered according to the following regulations:

Article 15 of the Adoption Law: Adoption shall be registered with the people's ** civil affairs department at or above the county level. The adoptive relationship is established from the date of registration.

Where the birth parents of abandoned infants and children cannot be found, the civil affairs department handling the registration shall make a public announcement before registration. Where the parties to an adoption relationship are willing to enter into an adoption agreement, they may enter into an adoption agreement. Where all or one of the parties to the adoption relationship requests a notarization of adoption, the notarization of adoption shall be completed.

The child will resent you, will not forgive you, and will not give you a pension in the future, are you sure?

Are you willing to give your children to others? Will the child recognize you as a mother when he grows up?

1 AllNo matter how good a stepmother you are, the children of your ex-wife will go to find their mother--- common attribute of human beings--- blood is thicker than water!

If you are very good to the child, he also knows in his heart that you are a good stepmother, but the biological mother is the first, and you are the second.

It's normal, and if you were him, you'd do the same?! You should understand, and you should support, not block.

He would be very grateful if you helped him find his mother ...

In any case, he will know to repay you in the future (as long as you have abused him) and will treat you and honor you in the same way as his mother.

Your mood is also normal now, so many years of love and dedication seem to have been lost...

Actually, no, he also has a place for you in his heart, but he leaves you temporarily...

He will definitely come back to you in the future--- because your mother's love shows that you are a very competent and good mother--- he will definitely come back to honor you as a good mother!!

He was six years old when you met this kid.

It's impossible not to know that you're not his own mother.

So you can't stop it. Blocking will cause rebellion.

He's an adult, so he's just going to go.

What do you want? Do you want the child to give you money or the child wants to give you money?

Let him go, if he is a grateful person who will come back to support you, maybe he just wants to see his birth mother. There's no need to mess around right now.

If he doesn't support you in the future, he will have to go through the legal route again.

I think it's normal if he just goes to see his biological mother, or stays for a while, if you treat him as your own before, I believe your relationship will not be weak, he should understand, communicate with him appropriately, and ask him to go home more often, and he can also get the warmth of home.