How can you tell if a boy is a routine or a real person?

Listen to what others have to say about him.

You should observe, if he is doing the same kind of lip service to other girls, then he is often not sincere.

Make some unreasonable demands with a guy to see if he will agree, and pay for your preferences and pay for you. I love you with all my heart.

Just give an example. Tell the boy that I have an infectious disease. As soon as the boy in the routine heard it, he immediately disappeared. has been with himself, and said don't give up**go**to accompany him. That's what really happens.

The boy's sincerity to you should be that when you encounter a particularly difficult matter, he will come out without saying a word, stop this matter for you, and help you solve it.

If there is a boy with less love experience who talks eloquently in front of other girls, only in front of you, he really likes you.

Feel it with your heart, if you feel his sincerity in his action, then you don't have to care whether he is a routine or a sincerity, because it is best for you.

Using the bride price of marriage to test him, I think a sincere boy will find a way to be sincere in order to pass the bride price of his parents. If there is sincerity, then there is no need for a bride price.

Ask yourself and feel with your heart. Your heart can tell you the right answer. Although we can't understand whether it's a routine or a sincerity, we can understand whether we are satisfied or not.

You can use rational thinking, his usual state, his attitude towards you, to observe and think with some small things, to see if he is sincere to you.

You can judge by some of his emotions when he talks to you, as well as the way he looks at you when he looks at you, and some small gestures in his usual life.

If he is sincere to you, then he will have a sense of responsibility, his future will have you, will pay for you, and will work hard for your future. Of course, a man who can't even guarantee his own life, you can't expect him to be sincere to you. The premise of love is that there must be material, otherwise such love will not last long.

1.A man who is sincere to you, he must be willing to pay.

A man who doesn't love you will definitely not pay for you. And the man who loves you has 100 yuan, and he is willing to spend 90 yuan for you. A man who doesn't love you, he won't spend a penny, and even wants to take money from you.

When you meet such a man, stay away early. Such a man is not a scumbag, only poor, and has no sense of responsibility, poor character, and is a typical scumbag.

In society, there are many such men, most of whom have no ability, always cry poor, and kidnap you with feelings. It makes you feel that it is appropriate to pay and dedicate to him, and it is impossible for him to pay for his feelings. He enjoys your giving, you are moved by your giving, in fact, he has never had any feelings for you at all.

So, I'd rather find a rich man than waste time with this kind of poor and scumbag man. In the end, you don't get anything, and you're covered in bruises. It makes sense that some people are poor, and they don't deserve the sincerity and kindness of others.

2.A man is willing to spend money for you, but he is not willing to take you to meet his friends and family.

There is also a type of man who is willing to spend money for you, but only takes what he needs and will not introduce you to his family and friends. They're just drawing colors and don't intend to walk with you. Such men should pay attention, it is possible that they have a family, or they are just playing with you and have not thought about marrying you.

To sum up, to judge whether a man is a routine or a sincere person to you, you need to look at it from many aspects. From a material point of view, a poor man, don't expect him to be sincere, because he can't eat enough by himself, and he is good at eating soft rice, this kind of affirmation is a routine and ill-intentioned. And a man has money, but his future does not have you, and it is a waste of your youth to bring it.

First of all, it depends on whether he will be willing to spend money on you, whether he will give you gifts, whether he will introduce you to his relatives and friends, and whether he can help you as soon as possible when you encounter difficulties.

You can judge from the way you chat, the way two people get along, and the situation you usually come into contact with, and you can also understand each other's thoughts.

It can be seen from the usual mannerisms that a person will feel it if he truly believes in himself.

Sometimes the routine of boys chasing girls is to only flirt with them, but they don't intend to pay sincerely. So, how do you know if a man is a routine or a true person to you? What's the difference, let's get to know each other together.

1. The difference between a man's routine and sincerity

1.In front of you, he will become very naïve.

In fact, every man is naïve in his heart, and this naivety will only be shown in front of the woman he loves deeply. Because a man is also a human being, he also needs the care and love of others, and because he is a man, he generally does not easily show his childish side, so when a man shows a very naïve appearance in front of you, it means that he has been sincere to you.

2.He's suddenly vulnerable, and you can easily hurt him.

In love, the more you love someone, the easier it is to be easily hurt by someone, because he loves you deeply, so he will care about your every move, so your inadvertent words will hurt the man who loves you deeply. Therefore, in a relationship, the more fragile and stingy a man becomes, it means that he has a sincere interest in you.

3.I always want to stay with you all the time.

When a man is sincere to you, as long as he is free, he will take the initiative to contact you and want to stay with you. In fact, once a man has such a performance, it means that the man is sincere to you, if a man does not love you, then he will naturally not use his free time to accompany you, he will feel that he is very lonely when he is alone, so as long as he is free, he will take the initiative to contact you and want to be with you. In fact, such a performance is the best proof of deep love, because as long as a man does not love you a little, he will not waste his spare time on you.

4.In the case of not violating the bottom line, tolerate you and be considerate of you.

A man is usually meticulous in appearance, but for the woman he loves deeply, men will tolerate it. Therefore, if this man is sincere to you, you will find that for others, the man's requirements are meticulous, and for you, he is always tolerant and considerate.

3. The routine of boys chasing girls

Many people will have such a problem in love.

Whether the other party really likes to search or state joy.

Or is it just a routine.

Especially. The other party is still in the relationship when they are still like a fish in water.

Many people will start to feel insecure.

Maybe it's not a group and it's not in people's hearts.

There is also an answer.

It's just ambiguous, and I don't know why.

I'm going to tell you about it today.

Those things about sincerity and routines.

What is a "routine"?

Routine is to discover a person's desires and satisfy them.

For example: Girl S is a lonely person, and it just so happens that you find out about her loneliness. So you try to accompany her, eat with her, chat, watch movies.

You satisfy S's desires, making her slowly develop a sense of dependence on you. When she gets used to this sudden feeling of dependence, at this time, you suddenly ignore her or even withdraw, and she may break down.

Therefore, the essence of the routine is nothing more than this: I know that you have this desire, and I also know that if you satisfy this desire, you will become happy. It just so happens that I want to get you again, so I'll slowly let you fall by boiling frogs in warm water.

What is "sincerity"?

Sincerely, it's like this: I know that you are empty, lonely and cold, and I also know that if I eat and chat with you every day, you will like me.

I have the ability to keep us together by satisfying your desires, but I don't.

All I really hope is hello. This "good" is not materially good. It's not that I cook you breakfast, take care of you when you're sick, buy you clothes, buy bags, even though I have the ability to do these things.

What I hope more is that you can become an independent and complete person with a strong heart.

So I'll have dinner with you and be friends with you. When you are experiencing pain, I will appear and tell you the root cause of these negative emotions and the solution. I hope that when you encounter similar things in the world, you will no longer be sad, and you can resolve your negative emotions and become a strong person in your heart.

I'll be happy if you take my advice; If you don't accept it, I don't care. It's your life, your body. It's you who makes the decisions, you're the ones who are happy, and you're the ones who are suffering, and it has nothing to do with me.

I respect you for being an independent and complete person, but I also want you to be a better person.

That's the truth.

This is love.

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I wish you to meet the person in your life as soon as possible, whether it is free love or blind date, the way you meet is not important, love for each other is king.