My ex boyfriend wants me to be his confidante

First of all, your first question: Personally, I think this situation is almost impossible to get to the end!

It can be seen that you like him very much, and loving someone is actually like this, even if he has another girlfriend, you will still not be able to let go of him, in fact, you already know what you should do in your heart, don't you, since you have decided to get back together with him, you can't say anything as an outsider If you want him to realize your importance, I personally think that you should communicate with him more at first, if he has something sad, you have to be sad with him, of course, if you have something upset, try to share it with him, and see what his response is, I think it's almost time You should talk face-to-face and see what he means, why you can talk to him and not his current girlfriend, talk about all the concerns in your heart, see what he thinks in his heart, do it (without violating the rules), at least there will be no regrets in the future! Seriously, I've encountered similar things before, and in the end we got right, but the time was not very long, and it was separated, after all, everyone will have traces in their hearts, isn't it, even if they love each other very much, remember that there is a first time, there will be a second time, try to open your heart, to accept others, you will also find that there will be someone better than him, and he knows how to cherish you! Maybe I'm talking a little....Hope you understand!

Tell me if you have any questions, and I'm not a good talker, but at least I'll be a good listener! Wish: You can do well!!

I said are you really stupid or fake stupid, he has a girlfriend, do you think you are possible? Unless he breaks up with his current girlfriend, maybe you still have a possibility! He said that he was lonely and chatted with you, he just wanted to have a backup, in case his current girlfriend left him, he still had you, so he dominated you first and then watched the progress afterwards.

He is clearly ambiguous with you, that is, eating in the bowl, but also dominating the pot, what confidantes, are all men's nonsense, they will always make excuses for themselves, looking for you is just to let you act as his underground lover when he is lonely, will he still look for you when his girlfriend is around, you don't use your brain to think about it, it's so easy to believe in a person, no one is right or wrong in the relationship, the responsibility for breaking up is the two of you, since you are separated, why are you still so entangled, then where does he put his current girlfriend, Has he ever thought about the feelings of his current girlfriend, you are so ambiguous, what is this, underground lover? Maybe I don't speak well, but I can't rule out the fact that I can't rule it out. There is no way to make up for what you have lost, why do you have to know how to cherish it after you lose it, and you are the only one who regrets it.

I still say the same thing, if you want to get back together with him, the key depends on whether he is willing to give you this opportunity, you can make it clear, see if he still has this idea, if so, let him and his current girlfriend quickly cut through the mess. If he doesn't have this idea, and is just a confidant when he is lonely, I think you should just do it, otherwise you will suffer in the future, and you will grasp it yourself.

God, pity the infatuated lover of the world!! Now that you know and become boyfriends, it is normal for both parties to be very involved! As a result, you are in full swing, and you still kneel and beg for support, one wants to step on the nine boats, think about it normally, there will be no results, continuing to communicate will only increase infinite troubles, if the relationship continues, you can only admit that it is fate, find one you understand, you really understand him, character is very important!

First and foremost! Even if you are not the favorite, it must be that he likes you the most! @！As long as he is in good health, he will meet everything for you!!

Find a person who is healthy, really loves you, and you know a person with excellent moral character, this is what you entrust in your life, and it is your lifelong reliance, self-cherishing, self-love, self-reliance, bravery, strong, self-determination, and bold 888888888888, you must not add to your own troubles, fruitless efforts, hurt yourself, not others!! Not even the other party!! A person who doesn't love you won't feel anything!

Let's face it up and make a decision!!

Ha ha! You're so naïve, what a confidant, I think he just wants to treat you as his 'lover'. You should never have any contact with him and pursue your own life!

Keep your eyes peeled and see what kind of heart this man has! Two people who have broken up have hurt each other....How can you be sure to continue to be friends as if nothing happened....And I don't think it's likely that the two of you will ever get back together....This man is selfish! Why should you be nostalgic...It's painful to be with a selfish person....Even if you get back together!

It's you who gets hurt....Long pain is better than short pain, you should be glad you left him....He wants to take the youth of two women....Such a man is not to be hated?

Many love triangles, third parties, and extramarital affairs start with the so-called "confidante"! At first, it may be relatively simple and clean in nature, but it will definitely deteriorate later!

You are stupid, decisively cut off contact. Otherwise, it will be yourself who will be hurt in the future. I didn't mean anything in particular, I just didn't want another hurt woman. There are so many men, it's not worth it for a man who doesn't love you anymore, keep your eyes open and see this man clearly.

You should give up on her, it's not fair to you, since he chose her, he feels bored with you, I'm just saying my opinion, I don't mean anything else, if it hurts you. I'm sorry.

This kind of man is cheap.

Eating in the bowl and looking at the pot.

You better sober up early, is your youth so worthless? To waste it on him?

It's so unfair to you.

Silly woman, there is no man in the world, why do you have to find such a person with no conscience.

There's no need, it's normal for you to be so sensitive as a girl. Who doesn't have a friend when you're away from home, it's normal to have a reputation for grinding some friends of the opposite sex, so it's obvious that you're very unwise.

It's impossible to say that you don't have friends when you go out alone, and when I first entered the society, my father often told me that I wasn't afraid of too many friends. As a girlfriend, what if a guy has some friends and confidants of the opposite sex? Being too sensitive can be counterproductive, so it's better to go with the flow.

Everyone will have their own circle of friends, and your boyfriend is no exception. As a girl, you can't say that you don't have any friends of the opposite sex, right? Should he also be suspicious of you because of this?

Therefore, I think that as long as he does not touch the bottom line of principles, he should be as tolerant as possible.

In fact, isn't it a kind of luck to have a confidant? What would be your mindset if your boyfriend pressed you to do something you didn't want to do? It's definitely not happy, so if you force your boyfriend to cut off the relationship with Hongyan, maybe he will listen to you, but he will never be happy.

If it's serious, it might end up tearing the two of you apart.

Your boyfriend may not love you as pure as you think, and his confidante may be his spare tire, and you may be replaced by a spare tire at any time.

I will choose to communicate with my boyfriend and ask him not to contact this girl again, and I will also take the initiative to tell this girl to keep my distance from my boyfriend.

I will make this clear to him, let him maintain a certain relationship with his confidant, and if he will not change, I will choose to break up with him.

I will choose to break up, because men's confidantes will have ambiguous relationships, and I can't accept such behavior.

If it was before I was with you, I think it's acceptable, don't mind too much, if they have fun with each other, they would have been together a long time ago. If you're too jealous, maybe your boyfriend will be a little bit of a bad person. But if your boyfriend is a celebrity who has only been with you, it's not good.

You can tell your boyfriend not to have too intimate actions with Hongyan, some actions can only be exclusive to you, otherwise you will be jealous, and it's not bad to be coquettish.

Don't care too much about men, at least people have friends, too deliberate. It's often not good, but if you go beyond the boundaries of friends, you should take care of it, and if it's just a confidant, you manage, then you're a little cautious - maybe jealous.

It's normal to have one or two confidantes in your life circle, so you don't have to be nervous. The key is to see how the two of you usually feel and whether you care about each other very much. As long as your boyfriend is sincere to you and really likes you, it doesn't hurt if he has a few more confidants.

If you are too cautious and too honest with him, it means that you are too narrow-minded.

My goal is to be kind to his popularity, to become his friend, and to integrate into his circle of friends, instead of being suspicious, worried, and restrictive. Shouldn't I thank her for being there for him, when I didn't meet him or wasn't there for him. Now that I am by his side, let me take on the responsibility of accompanying him and strive to surpass his popularity.

When we have a beautiful imagination of the future, we all say that the future is far away, if we are fighting alone, and we don't even have the ability to take root in this society, how can we imagine that the future is suitable for the distance? There is a person who accompanies himself to learn and progress, a best friend of the opposite sex, the feelings between them exceed friendship, but also more than love, more like a silent family affection, there is such a person who often accompanies himself, even if he encounters a big storm in life, he will have infinite hope for the future, and feel that his future life will be doubly exciting.

When every man is facing all kinds of invisible pressures in society, the incomprehension of parents, friends or lovers makes him feel that life is very depressing, so if there is a confidant who has been coming to accompany him to accompany him, he will feel that people are not so unworthy, and there are many places for him to learn and struggle.

Summary. Don't say it, maybe he can't forget the past between you and him, but now he is relieved, because he is married after all.

Hello, may I ask you guys who are separated now, right, does he have a girlfriend now.

He's married.

So how are you going to contact before? Is it a constant contact, or is it just? Get in touch out of the blue.

We are each other's first love, and we will meet and walk together after a few years, if it is the first love, it must be a good and special existence for every boy.

Don't say it, maybe he can't forget the past between you and him, but now he is relieved, because he is married after all.

Why is it to treat you as a friend who knows each other very well, a friend of the opposite sex.

Every time we meet, it's never like seeing a friend of the opposite sex, so do you mean that he still likes to be there for you? You think.

He said that he was afraid of hurting me, as long as he didn't hurt Kuanji, what can I do, we are not friends and friends, when the state is sent I really can't let go of him, I really love him, so do you have your own family.

I don't know if his love for Qin Jiao is true love, he said can't he be a red leak and a confidant? It feels very affectionate with me! Can you help me explain if he has true love for me? Or just play around.

I didn't.