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Do you really love him? Don't think about it, don't think about it. Everyone has their own habitual thinking, and when you are accustomed to a certain person or something, that kind of dependence on habit will be greater than the reason in your heart.
So, please think clearly and make sure that you are not just unbearable and lonely like your first love. Maybe you really have lost, so you know how to cherish it. Then confess to him and tell him everything.
Anyway, if you have your own problems in mind, ask others for advice on what to do...
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It is estimated that you are still very young and don't understand what love is, love is not a matter of separation, if you want to get back together, you can only slowly approach your ex-boyfriend in action, use your actions to influence him, and start a new relationship. Remember, if you identify him, don't change it again.
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After thinking about it and thinking about it, let's start the next relationship, I hope it's the last time.
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I agree with what the first floor says! Let's really figure out what love is first!
If you're going to get back together with him, you have to know that he doesn't love you like he did now!
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Apologize to your ex-boyfriend first, and then tell him the truth.
Just tell him what you're thinking.
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Say it to him directly, and say what is in your heart
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I think you should first figure out what love is, and then love someone!
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Are you sure you're not just looking for someone to accompany you right now, just go talk to him.
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But you're also interesting! If your ex-boyfriend doesn't come to you on his own initiative! You'd better not look back!
If you take the initiative to get back together! I don't think so, even if you get back together, it may cause an imprint on your ex-boyfriend's heart. In the future, if you want to deal with this tiring problem, you need to think twice!
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I hope you can think carefully before making a decision, and don't take it personally.
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Just tell him how you really feel.
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You've been breaking up for so long, has your ex-boyfriend ever come and ask to get back together? If not, it means that you are dispensable to him, and at this time you are still stupid to say that you are reunited, do you think such a humble relationship is still meaningful?
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There should be, you still have to talk to him, you had to dump him at that time, and if it doesn't work, go and beg his mother, his mother may definitely help you, you might as well try it.
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Love is mutual, and the same is true for discounted love, which also needs to be pleasing to each other. Wishful love doesn't come to fruition, whether your love is discounted or not.
Therefore, as a bystander, only the following suggestions are made:
First of all, it is necessary to find out if the ex-boyfriend has a girlfriend now (it is important to understand that this is the first condition to assess whether there is a possibility of getting back together).
Second, try to contact him after confirming that he doesn't have a girlfriend right now. But don't get straight to the point, just connect for a while (to activate your past emotional memories to influence each other).
Finally, after completing the above two conditions, take the opportunity to have a showdown (success or failure).
Conclusion: When it comes to love, no matter which party takes the initiative, men and women need to be patient to understand each other, so as to deepen their impression in the minds of the other party. Similarly, after a breakup, if either party wants to get back together, they also need to be patient to awaken the memory of the other party's love with themselves, in other words, getting back together is a second love.
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I don't have much hope I don't cherish it when I'm together, I don't know how good he is when I lose it, unless he loves you very much, or it's not a good time.
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It's unlikely, as the old saying goes: a good horse doesn't eat grass. Even if it is reconciled, it is unlikely that it will achieve positive results.
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Yes, opportunities are grasped by people.
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have all broken up, and I personally feel that if I keep it back, I won't be able to get back to the good relationship I had before.
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You can test it and see his attitude.
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For her own happiness ""brave love", maybe the pain in her heart can only be healed by you, and the bell needs to be tied to the bell.
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Secretly express your heart and see how he is.
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Mushroom Liang, you have to understand that since he broke up with you, it was probably because he didn't love you enough. Let's not talk about how high the probability of you going to redeem is, even if the power makes him willing to get back together with you, after a little longer, the contradictions between you or the factors that hinder you will still erupt again. And for many boys, when the ex comes to redeem it, they even find it annoying, and they may even look down on you because of this.
Being a person can afford to let go, this period of time is painful, believe me, just get through it, don't ask for reunion.
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Then let's start chasing backwards. Be proactive and don't be ashamed.
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If you really want to get back together, then go back together, and don't wronged yourself in life.
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Don't get back together. The result of the compound is still divided in the end!
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Tell us about the situation. Let's see if it's likely.
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If she doesn't have the object to have the courage to contact him, maybe it needs you, but you are willful and it is afraid of hitting the wall, so it will not contact you.
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Emotional matters depend on the feelings of two people, and also depend on your fate.
If you still care about each other, communicate well, encourage each other, comfort each other, and grow togetherIf you really don't care about him anymore, tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore, so that he can also find his other half.
You are lucky to have someone who loves you, your happiness, loving and being loved are very happy things.
But since you don't think it's appropriate, find a suitable opportunity to solve it.
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To sum up, the analysis is as follows:
1. He only has selfish possessiveness, not love.
2. If you don't feel for each other and are not together, breaking up is the best choice.
3, now he just wants to possess you, how can there be any love?
4. Now that they are not together, they have no emotional foundation, and there is no need to continue.
5. Cut through the mess quickly, cut off contacts, cut off contact, and leave future troubles when the interruption continues.
6. Feelings are in arrears, and love is down. That's how to put it this way.
7. Drag it down, and it's yourself who gets hurt.
For the sake of your future happiness, just be selfish, no matter what he says, don't be soft-hearted, don't hesitate, good luck.
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You ask him face to face, if he really loves you, don't ignore you like this, you should think more about your feelings. If you don't love it, you should decisively break up, he is not qualified to manage your life at all. Don't get tangled up all the time, the situation should be very decisive.
If you always procrastinate, it's yourself who suffers. Hopefully you can get out of this situation as soon as possible, and there is something you want to talk about to continue.
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Let's pick it out directly, so the two of them are very tired, and the current situation shows that you don't have the will to stick to it, I think it's good for both parties to divide it directly, and the emotional problem should be dealt with decisively, and the slowly soaring hurt will be two people, don't feel it, just go, find the person you feel is.
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Break it up, this man doesn't love you at all, and the man who really loves you will care about you every day. But some men feel that they have taken the initiative many times, and they want the girl to take the initiative once, but the girl has not taken the initiative, which makes the man very entangled.
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He is nervous about you, which means that he loves you, but you still make it clear to him, because if it goes on like this, it will hurt more and more, and now make it clear to him, if he really loves you, he will understand.
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I've experienced it, I don't think I need to say anything, in fact, the two of you know better than anyone else, divide it, since it's not suitable, why bother to remember, let go and find the right person
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Break up if you don't feel it, even if you marry him, it's unfair to him. It's better to let go early and let each other meet more suitable.
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You don't have to break up, as long as you get married, your temper will change, and the situation is that you chase him. Hehe. Each has his own opinion!
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If that's the case, I think you'd better be quick.
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Since you're not afraid of him being sad, just say it directly, what do you want to say.
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It is necessary to divide quickly, or it will be reluctant in the future.
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The girl is so cold and hard to chase.
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He has already made up his mind, no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain, so why should you embarrass yourself! Why throw away an entire forest for a tree! It is miserable to love someone who doesn't love you, but being loved by others is the happiest!
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How many deep and shallow turns are the depth of love that others can't understand. Too lazy to love someone again, then love again.
You can imagine how scarred the love between you is, as you say, "I want to leave him, I can't stand up," but have you ever thought that if you don't stand up, you're going to have to endure the pain that only you can understand. Little by little, you need to rise up and resist this love, and this is not the love you need!
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