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You don't want the other party to fall in love with you at first sight, right, if he falls in love with you so quickly, he will fall in love with someone else so quickly, in love, no one is active or passive, and when you see happiness, you should take the initiative, so as not to regret it after being picked up by others, of course, I didn't say that I want you to confess to him or anything, but you will always watch movies together, go shopping together or something.
Of course, love requires wisdom, you can't buy two movie tickets for him to accompany you to see it, after all, you are not a real couple yet, so you must let him pursue you, you can say, what movie came out recently, I really want to watch it, or recently I want to buy a pair of shoes, I want to go shopping, and then force him to say that I go to buy tickets or I will accompany you shopping on Sunday or something like that. Spoiled, pretending to be cute, you will always be these, if he says he is busy and has no time, you can be angry and willful. As long as you control it, don't let him think you're easy or too willful.
Every time you are with him, you must dress up beautifully, this is essential. Falling in love must have good memories to last, the so-called good memories are two people doing things together, such things don't have to be complicated, watching movies, going to parks, shopping, traveling together, etc., can become your good memories, and when you have common memories, it will become more and more difficult to part with each other, and then slowly brew your love, and manage it well.
I'm just giving you a little bit of advice, and it depends on you to understand and act accordingly, and I wish you happiness.
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How many times do you have to ask this question?
Just ask him directly, won't you?
You ask him: Do you think I'm your ideal person?
If he says yes, then you say, then you have to take the initiative to ......Do not say.
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You don't have a common language with him, how do you know you really like him? Is it because of his appearance, or is it the material condition? If you want to know, ask directly Since you met on a blind date, then the purpose of both parties should be very clear, ask about nothing I wish you happiness! ~~
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Be decisive and ask him how he feels about you.
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Does frequent chatting give you the illusion of being in love?
First of all, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of love. It's like you're in love, but you're actually indulging in a feeling, a fantasy, or a spiritual sustenance.
Second, you're in love with someone you imagine.
He may be soft-spoken, and it just so happens that you don't like people who are too hot-tempered, so you automatically substitute him as the perfect partner.
You keep refining his image in your mind, constantly convincing yourself. Besides, through the screen, you don't know who's on the other side. Words can express the essence of people's hearts, but they are also easy to disguise.
Maybe a punctuation mark, a word, can make you misunderstand, such a low-cost love experience will be easy to indulge.
And words are actually an illusion, because words can be packaged, and language can be modified. Da Nai.
Some people wait for you to look through the text and over the screen to meet face-to-face, only to find that it's not like that at all. And true love should be based on the sincerity of mutual appreciation and mutual giving.
It's always said that the subtext of the desire to share is to like. 」
I don't deny this sentence, but there are many kinds of likes, and not all of them have the idea of falling in love.
For example, people who imitate paulownia are very good at chatting and like to share their lives; Some people will share with many people at the same time, and you are not the only one; There are also people who share with you just as a friend, and they just maintain friendship with you, and they don't have other meanings.
If you have the illusion of being in love in a chat, but you feel that the other person doesn't seem to want to be in love that much, you should be aware of one thing:
He shares a lot every day just because he is a person who wants to share, and you are a person who responds to everything he says. 」
Maybe he likes you and will share his life with you every day, but that doesn't mean the other way around.
If he really likes you, he should give you a clear answer and tell you generously, instead of just relying on a few shares and a few ** for you to guess.
Zarongz once did an experiment. Let a group of people ** the graduation commemorative book of a certain school, some people appear more than 20 times, some appear more than a dozen, and some only appear once or twice. It was found that the more people appeared in the graduation album, the more they were liked.
In other words, the number of times you watch it increases the degree of liking.
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People who really like you will talk to you about everything, talk about everything, have a feeling of not seeing you for a day, and will understand you and tolerate you, especially when you really need him, he will immediately appear in the other party and give everything for you, which is the performance of liking a person.
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Willing to spend money for you.
When many people are in love, they don't like to discuss the topic of money with their partner, and they always feel that talking about money is too tacky and hurts their feelings, but they don't know that most of the conflicts after marriage are related to money. A person's income belongs to a person's privacy, and the reluctance to talk about money before marriage may become a weak point in your relationship and lay hidden dangers for subsequent marriages. A man who doesn't want to talk to you about his income, his wealth, and doesn't let you know about him.
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The person who replied to the message in seconds, does he really love you? You think he cares about you, but it's just a coincidence. The message will be back in seconds, then he must love you very much!
There is nothing so absolute about this matter, it is possible to receive your message as soon as you pick up your phone, it is just a coincidence. A girl once asked me that boys would reply to messages in seconds whenever they met, but they felt a little cold when they met. What do such boys think?
In fact, she already has the answer herself, we don't know the specific situation, but we still have hope if we don't fight for girls. He replied to your messages in seconds, but he kept chatting, not only with you, but also with several girls. You send him a message, and he replies to your message with just two clicks of a finger.
I really like a person, I really don't know what to say when chatting, and I'm afraid that everything is wrong, so I will think about it more. In such a situation, how can it be possible to reply to the rock liquid in seconds? Many people always take the second reply of the chat as the test standard of whether he likes me, and think that he replies to me in the second must be because he likes me.
But in fact, this is not the case, the second back can only show that he is playing with the mobile phone, sometimes the second back is just a habit, a kind of polite performance. Although the second back does not necessarily mean that you like it, I have to admit that the people who return to the second are simply the light of the world, and at the same time, they can also give people a sense of security! A person cares about you, and when he sees your message, he will definitely reply to you as soon as he sees it.
If you return in seconds and he is reincarnated, or there is no follow-up after chatting, and he doesn't reply to you for a long time, he just doesn't want to reply to you, and he is not interested in you! If the other person talks to you normally, just like a regular friend, and rarely jokes, then it is unlikely that he will like you. Once he likes you, he will often speak more childishly, make you happy, and reveal a tone of concern for you, reluctant to make you sad.
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Love is a mutual emotion, and feeling the other person's love for you can enhance the stability and happiness of the relationship. Here are some suggestions to hopefully help you cope with this situation:
Direct communication: Talk openly with your partner about your feelings, express your expectations and needs, and ask about the other person's thoughts and feelings. Sometimes, the other person may not know what you think, or they may also have their own confusion and problems, through communication, you can get to know each other better, communicate and solve problems better.
Focus on action: Love is not just expressed verbally, but more often through action. You can pay attention to the other person's actions, such as whether they are willing to devote time and energy to you, whether they are attentive and responsive to your needs and expectations, etc., which are all important indicators to understand the other person's relationship status.
Stay independent: Don't pin your happiness on others. Love is beautiful, but it shouldn't be the whole of our life.
You can try to maintain your independence and self-confidence by expanding your interests and focusing on your own growth and development, which can also help you cope better with situations.
Seek support: If you feel like you can't cope with the situation on your own, consider seeking professional help, such as advice and support from a psychologist or emotional counsellor, who can help you better understand your feelings and those of the other person and provide tips and tricks to address them.
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1. Don't look at people with your eyes, because it's easy to wander, and don't listen with your ears, because it may be a lie. Feel it with your heart, it is really never fake, and it is absolutely impossible to be fake.
2. The person who is most likely to betray you is often the person who blows the clap on you;The person who hurts you the most must be the person you love the most. The person who really wants you to make progress will not pat you on the back, and he will kindly point out your problems, even if he knows that you will feel uncomfortable because of it. A person can hurt you to the bone, the premise must be with your permission, you love him, you have a special affection for him, so he will make a mess of your life, if you don't nod, no one can get in.
3. In this life, there are three bowls of unpalatable noodles: human noodles, scenes, and feelings. Can't be too much, and can't lose the demeanor, it's really difficult to get it just right, we are all slowly groping in life.
4. In the end, all emotions are just value exchanges. Once it is not possible to provide value to each other. Two people will break up and divorce. When the value of one party is higher than that of the other party, the high value will look down on the low value, and the other party has not betrayed you, but you are not worthy.
5. If you are one point higher than others, others will be jealous of you. If you are five points higher than others, others will envy you. You are ten points taller than others, and others will respect you.
6. Other people's attitude towards you depends on your wealth or status, not what you do. In a relationship of unequal status, don't expect the other person to respect you.
7. All people will hand over complex tasks to those who are capable, but leave the benefits and benefits to those who have a good relationship with them.
8. Relatives don't necessarily care about you, they may just want to know whether you are good or not, if you don't mix well, stay away from you, mix well, please you.
9, sheng mien, fight mi. Be kind to others, don't be kind to others, he will slowly take your favor for granted.
10. If someone verbally attacks you and offends you, you have to fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will repeat his old tricks next time, and there is no psychological pressure.
11. There are good and evil in human nature, people who are filled with evil in human nature exist, don't think that you have a conscience as a person, and some people's conscience has long been thrown out of the clouds.
12. Anything that feels like you really can't control is best to stay away from it in the first place, no matter how charming it is or how attractive it is to you.
13. Your kindness must be a little sharp! Tolerance should be moderate, stay away as soon as possible for those who don't know how to be grateful, and dare to fight back against those who are an inch.
14. Many people don't hate privileges, they just hate that the people who have privileges are not themselves.
15. When some people do not get a certain benefit, they will have the emotion of judgment, and when they are an interest group, they will maintain such a relationship all the time.
16. Don't tell others about your sadness easily, most people are just listening to jokes.
17. The basic thing that concessions bring is to gain inches, don't think about what respect and distress you can get in exchange.
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Actually, if you look at the person's attitude towards you, you can see some of it.
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If you make a gesture of favor to the other person, and he does not respond to you, or does not take the initiative, it means that the other person has rejected you, even if you ask a thousand more questions, the result will be the same.
Bacon has this saying, "Because there is a basic law in this world, that is, love will always be rewarded, either by the love of the beloved, or by a kind of contempt hidden deep in the heart."
If the other party is interested in you, he will not react a little, he also longs for your love, and the love in his heart will not be able to hide it, he will not wait to respond to you, and even show more affection and love than you.
If the other party has never taken the initiative, even when you show love, he is indifferent, which means that he has a choice. No matter how active you are, no matter how gentle and considerate you are, it will not help, because he has no intention of you at all.
In Jin Yong's **, many plots show daring to love and hate, when you see these, you will feel that these people are very chic, and you also think that love or not love should be said, so that love will not be full of speculation.
However, love in real life is not entirely like this, some people will express it directly, while some people are unwilling to say it directly for some reason to hurt each other, but choose to refuse quietly.
When your loved one behaves like this, there is no response to you, and there is no initiative to show love to you, what you have to do is not to continue to ask, but to turn to leave directly, although he did not clearly point out that he does not love you, but you have to understand the rejection behind it.
True love can't be hidden, that joy and happiness will hang on your face at any time, and even your eyes reveal love. "If you come a little longer, I will rejoice a little longer" says it all.
Hope it helps you and good luck.
When you happen to see him talking with other girls very hot, you feel extremely uncomfortable, even disgusted, you already like him.
Try him a little bit, cross the street together, and see which side he is on.
The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally no longer lonely, at least one person thinks about you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good, but slowly, as you get to know each other more deeply, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems occur one after another, you begin to be annoyed, tired, and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, But how do you know when you'll be able to pick it up?
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