What will a man want to get back together with an ex girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-02-10
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think I haven't found a better one yet, or maybe my current girlfriend broke up, just in time for the lack of success, I couldn't bear the loneliness, so I tried to find my ex again. I think that a breakup is a breakup, and no one can go back to the way it was. Even if the two are really back together, they can't get back the feeling they had at the beginning.

    Eventually, we will be separated again!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't tell. I never thought I'd get back together with my ex. But that's just that I haven't met someone I really love.

    He and I started arguing about it when we were in a relationship for almost a year. Because I can't stand it, he doesn't care about me. He couldn't stand my temper.

    All sorts of contradictions came out. Divide and merge. I struggled for a long time with the first breakup.

    Then he hated me. I'm exhausted myself. Lost contact.

    I'm having a very bad time. And he must be playing games with other women. Maybe he didn't get used to it for a while.

    Remembered my goodness. He's looking for me. Soon reconciled.

    After reconciliation, the previous problems were not solved and quarreled. Too many nasty things have been said. I said if you don't love me, don't bother me.

    Sometimes I think he's scumbag. I didn't want to find a boyfriend after a while. Later, they quarreled all the way for two months.

    The last time was around the year. I said you're tired, and I'm really tired. can't solve the problem, the two don't get along with each other.

    Don't contact again, don't torture anymore. This time there was no contact for twenty days. I miss him so much.

    But I endured it, and I felt that I could let go of it after a long time. Twenty days old he messaged me out of the blue. Then hit ** and talked to me for more than an hour.

    I said you don't love me, you treat me like this is harassment. We also met the next day. Talked about a lot.

    Be willing to change it. So both of them changed. If something unpleasant happens, we will directly bring it up and say whose fault it is.

    Whoever apologizes. Now I feel that the hearts of the two are much tighter. So.

    I can't say anything about feelings. Because none of you are parties. Everyone's thinking is different.

    A man getting back together with an ex-girlfriend is not entirely psychological.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Within a month after the breakupWoman: Grief-stricken, how can I live without himMan: It's clean, and I can finally play the game quietly A year after the breakupWoman: Happily continue to live a daily life with a new personMan: It turns out that the best thing is that she is by my side. ‍‍

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    True story, no adaptation ......I don't know how to say, I have a legendary high school classmate, a freshman classmate, she came after a few weeks of school, she should be looking for a relationship to spend money to borrow, and soon talked to a boy in our class, and then high school will not give early love, the two of them are very arrogant, the underground garage is basically divided by class, every time I go down, I often see them kissing next to the pillar on the other side of our class, all kinds of kissing ......And then anyway, the teacher knew.,Looking for parents.,They will definitely be rebellious.,The more you don't let you do anything.,Two people disappeared for a few days.,Later, I heard that I went to the hotel for a few days.,After coming back, the two almost dropped out.,And then the ending is that the girl went to the art class.,Our class is a key class.,And then the boy still stays in the class.,The relationship between the two is recognized by the parents.,The school doesn't care.,At that time, I felt that the two people couldn't go together.。 Sure enough, they split up after the end of their third year of high school, and I just graduated from college this year, and I heard that this girl has been married ......That boy was her junior high school boyfriend, and then bizarrely, I now have a friend who goes to the gym together, who is my sophomore and junior high school classmate, and this friend has an impression ......of that man when he heard that she was marriedIt turned out that the three of them were ...... classmates in the sixth grade of primary schoolBut the girl didn't talk to the boy in elementary school, it was my friend's cousin, who was in the same class ......as them at the timeThen the girl who got married also talked about several ...... in junior high schoolI think it's amazing that they're still together at ...... endThen her boyfriend in the first year of high school was also very bizarre, he was with a girl who was more popular in our high school and had talked to a lot of boyfriends, and that girl is still a small Internet celebrity ...... with hundreds of thousands of Weibo fansThen I heard that they were also about to get married after graduation......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because the current way of getting along with each other really makes me feel tired. Doesn't care about people. And just now, when I ruthlessly broke up with my current (and now I should be considered an ex), I called my ex-girlfriend **, and she cried as soon as she picked me up, and she kept listening to me crying.

    Comforting me to be strong no matter what happens, as always. I didn't tell her I had just broken up. Suddenly, I remembered the bits and pieces I had with my ex before, and I didn't cherish it well.

    Maybe I'm really scum.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because I miss the self who became excellent with her. Even more because she didn't have the confidence to leave, she would be better off herself. ‍‍

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't have a good life, you will think of your ex-girlfriend, and if you have a good life, you won't think of it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    got back together and only broke up, but fortunately he was ruthless enough to make me regret less and less, and it was too late for me to be happy when I lost him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I used to think that he was the man I loved the most in my life, and he also gave me unforgettable injuries. But I have always had him in my heart, and I have been looking for reasons for my previous breakups. Then 4 years later, we got back together, and I put my heart and soul into it, but after getting to know me, I realized that he didn't love me at all, and everything was just my wishful thinking.

    I just, gave him another chance to hurt me! Well, wake up from the dream! Good bye!

    Never again!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Most of them are dumped by the current to remember the good of their predecessors, and they are looking for it within half a year because they can't let it go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I have a younger sister who broke up with her boyfriend for a year and got back together, in fact, I envy this, but I'm different, I won't let this happen, we are the first love, he broke up with me for a year and didn't find a girlfriend, and then found me to get back together, I didn't agree, and then separated from the two places, and I didn't find a girlfriend for four years, and then I got back together, and I didn't agree, it's not that I'm ruthless or anything, it's just that we've chosen two different paths, and I don't have feelings for him anymore, But he is really beautiful in my heart, it's not my heart, I broke up with him for five years to find a second boyfriend, I just want to wish him happiness, and this happiness is not something I can give. I think the reason why he asked me to get back together was that his first love was too beautiful and he was reluctant to let go, but I actually had a lot of problems, so let's leave him the best memories.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The years have taught me that it is not easy for the right person to walk together, and now that we are lost, I should go and find her. ‍‍

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The most direct reason is that his current girlfriend is not as good as his ex-girlfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now there is no one to accompany you, or tired of the current companion, you have to break up when you go back, it turns out that you are cheap, and you can't get it I always think it's the best, I broke up before, and now I forget the pain, can I cherish it when I go back, no, there will only be more problems, but often people are reckless, and they don't hit the south wall.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no new love, loneliness, loneliness, and cold. If you can sleep, you will definitely continue. Either that or just didn't come across a better one. Or maybe it's a rare case where there is really a bit of love that can't be put down.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't know why everyone thinks that men break up with their girlfriends because they have a new girlfriend. I'm a bit far behind my girlfriend. She graduated from college and I was just a high school graduate.

    For some reason, in order not to delay her, I proposed to break up. I've been separated from her for almost two months. Since the day they broke up, they have been holding back a lot of energy to use their best state to catch her back.

    The other day. My own career has gotten better. The mentality is adjusted.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't want to lose her, if I lose, I will have regrets and be unhappy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because of love, my husband is my ex-boyfriend, when I fell out of love and looked for him, he turned back, we soon got married and had children, and now ten years have passed, he is still very fond of me!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because if you can't meet a better one, you will find your ex to get back together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because I'm not as good as my ex-girlfriend with my current girlfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you can't catch up with the girl you've always wanted to be with, you'll go to your ex to find warmth.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Compound? I won't get back together in this life, and I haven't saved enough for disappointment? The first breakup was not painful enough?

    Want to experience it again? The broken mirror can't be reunited, be yourself, you deserve a better woman, don't artificially give her a layer of gold, see clearly, she is a simple woman, very ordinary, looking at herself who has been in love for seven or eight years, will it be a little ridiculous, the past is over, the pain of falling out of love, endure it is reborn, and it will never be reunited in this life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can't find a better one, and I can't stand the loneliness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think at this time you should resolutely fight back against him, and inform his girlfriend of the fact that he came to you, let the two of them deal with it, be sure to strengthen your heart, and don't give the scumbag any chance.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Decisively refused, such a boy is a scumbag, he actually has a girlfriend but is still looking for you to get back together, maybe he just wants to step on two boats.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should resolutely refuse him, and tell him that you are too scumbag, good horses don't eat grass, not to mention that you have nothing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    should clearly reject him, he already has a girlfriend, and he still comes to you, which shows that this person is irresponsible for feelings.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Summary. My boyfriend went to find his ex-girlfriend to get back together after breaking up with me, which means that he compared the two of you, I don't know why, it may be the ex-girlfriend's, and in many ways I may be more accustomed to it, maybe I don't care about the possibility of you.

    What does it mean that my boyfriend and I broke up and went to get back together with my ex-girlfriend?

    My boyfriend went to find his ex-girlfriend to get back together after breaking up with me, which means that he compared the two of you, I don't know why, it may be the ex-girlfriend's, and in many ways I may be more accustomed to it, maybe I don't care about the possibility of you.

    Or is there something about you and him that isn't in harmony with him, or what's going on? There must be a reason for this, otherwise how could he find the original person to get back together? Right? Generally speaking, newcomers must be better than the original.

    Take what I have to do to make him love me.

    So what do you have to do to make him love you? First of all, know yourself and know your opponent, you must first understand what he likes about his ex, or why he goes with his ex, and then you are on your side of him who is not satisfied with your side, or unhappy, or feels that it is not to his liking, these find out, and naturally know how to make up for it.

    We've been together for four months, and because of an argument, he and I went separately to find his ex.

    That's right, because it was a quarrel, so I found an ex when we separated, so you should also know why he quarreled with you? What content he was looking for, you should remember what he was arguing for.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. In this case, maybe his ex-girlfriend was looking for him, and it happened that he broke up, and he felt that he could give his ex-girlfriend a chance.

    In this case, maybe his ex-girlfriend was looking for him, and it happened that he broke up, and he felt that he could give his ex-girlfriend a chance.

    It is also possible that she still likes her ex-girlfriend more, and after the breakup, he and his ex-girlfriend continued to fall in love, and they may have been disconnected before.

    But it depends.

    Did they still contact before they broke up? <>

    It's been three or four times I've been separated from him before, before her ex-girlfriend added him to chat behind my back, I didn't contact after I found out The most recent time was when I broke up with him because of a quarrel over drinking, and a day later he added his ex-girlfriend to chat Let me find out that after he laughed, he said he was angry.

    Anger will only add.

    Both his ex-girlfriend and your partner are responsible for this matter.

    In fact, after the breakup, you should not contact again.

    But they are not men, those who are looking for women are women, and those who are looking for men are not respectful and stupid to take you seriously, after all, you are still in love with this man here, and the ex-who is clear should actually keep his distance before he opens his eyes.

    But they are not men looking for women, or women looking for men, and they are very hungry to respect you, after all, you are still in love with this man, and the ex should actually keep his distance.

    Actually, it's not fair to you.

    Such a boy is not worth continuing to pay for him, when others live up to their own chains, Yuyu Sun himself will also meet more love himself in the next relationship of emptiness.

    So don't doubt yourself.

    You must be worthy of love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are probably three reasons why men go back to find their old love.

    1. She is the one who made him mature

    At the boy's immature age, he met his stupid ex-girlfriend, and although they didn't end up together, the ex-girlfriend was the one who made him more mature and knew what a sense of responsibility was.

    In the process of getting along with his ex-girlfriend, the boy faded little by little from the boy and became a man with a sense of responsibility on his shoulders. If it weren't for the nature of life, maybe they would have joined hands for a lifetime. Therefore, sometimes boys can't help but think of their past love stories when they see something related to their ex-girlfriends.

    2. She brought her many pleasant memories

    When they were in love, they had a very happy memory. No matter how many years have passed, it should be difficult for the boys to forget the happiness of that time, so being with his ex-girlfriend is also an unforgettable person in his life memory.

    There are many things in life that are unforgettable, especially those who bring you happy memories, and she will not leave her mind casually when she talks about how the world changes. Even if she has no love anymore, there may be a feeling of missing her wife.

    3. He once said that he would protect her for the rest of his life, but he didn't do it

    Finally, what is the reason for laughing and accompanying men to go back to find old love? In fact, at the age of youth and ignorance, a boy once told the girl to love her for the rest of his life, but for various reasons, they had no choice but to break up. Maybe one day the girl will gradually forget the boy's promises, but as a committed person, he will always remember to be serious when he swore not to know what the world was like.

    Although she can't fully protect her for the rest of her life, at least she will leave a place in her mind to think of her once in a while, worrying about whether she is doing well, in fact, it has nothing to do with romance.

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