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No. I often hear many people say that love makes people humble, and love is to tolerate everything about the other person. But in the same way, a healthy love also has dignity and self-principle.
But how many people are afraid of leaving a relationship that has already abandoned themselves countless times and violated their principles countless times, for fear of not meeting the next person and compromised, but forgetting that they are the key to ending all this.
In life, we will all meet people who will make mistakes, especially in the face of feelings, most people are soft-hearted, and it is our nature to choose tolerance, forgiving a person can make our lives more open. But tolerance requires skill, and giving people who have made the same mistake a chance is tolerance, a second is tolerance, and a third is connivance.
Don't always complain to your friends that the other party has committed any taboo against you, saying that this is the last time, after your friends help you get angry, and soon see a sweet photo of you traveling with each other, it will also make people have a kind of Is it the other party has a problem or you have a problem? doubts.
The vast majority of people know that they can change their mistakes, so it is reasonable for us to choose tolerance, but for those who make mistakes again and again, your infinite tolerance has already silently become one of the reasons for conniving at the other party's repeated mistakes.
With regard to principles, tolerance can certainly relieve the pain in your heart, but remember that it must all be established within the proper limits of your principles. No one is perfect, we all make mistakes, and just because you don't have to be reasonable doesn't mean you can't be reasonable, because tolerance must involve the right attitude and forgiveness, otherwise it will become indulgence.
Everyone is looking forward to meeting a love that everyone envies, who wants to be so sad that they can't sleep because of the hurt and betrayal brought by their feelings all day long, they need to find friends to complain, and in the end they have to bear the pain in their hearts alone.
When two people are together, all the giving and getting are relative, and there may not be an absolute balance, but the relationship is not a game of who has more and who has less. Love is humbling rather than humbling, and love is inclusive rather than indulgent.
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Did you notice? The feeling of love must always be sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, and you are finally no longer lonely, because at least one person thinks of you and loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is the best. But slowly, as everyone deepens, you begin to discover each other's shortcomings, so problems appear one after another, and you start to get annoyed, tired, and even want to escape.
Some people say that love is like picking up a stone, always want to pick up one that suits you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her? In fact, love should be like a grinding stone, maybe when you first pick it up, you are not really so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have.
Have you started grinding? Many people think that it is because of the weakness of feelings that people will become lazy, but in fact, people are conquered by inertia first, and their feelings slowly fade! On a dinner occasion, someone suggested that eating more shrimp would be good for the body, and at this time a middle-aged man suddenly said:
Ten years ago, when my wife was still my girlfriend, she said that if she wanted to eat ten shrimps, I would peel twenty for him! Now, if she asks me to help her peel the shrimp shells, it's a joke! I'm not even interested in helping her pick up vegetables, and I'm peeling shrimp shells.
It is no wonder that more and more people just want to fall in love for a lifetime, but they are reluctant to enter into marriage. Because, marriage makes people lazy! If everyone is too lazy to speak, too lazy to listen, too lazy to make Peking opera, too lazy to ask thoughtful questions, then how can the protrusions or lovers not gradually drift away and become silent?
So remember: love with firepower needs humidity to irrigate, and you can't be lazy when you fall in love! There was a couple who met to go to dinner and shopping after work, but the girl was delayed because of the company meeting, and when she arrived in the rain, she was already late for many minutes, and her boyfriend said very unhappily
You've been like this every time, and now I'm in no mood at all, and I'll never wait for you again! In an instant, the girl's heart burst and she thought: perhaps, they will never have a future.
Similarly, in the same location, another couple was in the same situation, the girl was also half an hour late when she arrived, and her boyfriend said, "I think you must be busy, right?" Then he wiped the rain from the girl's face, and took off his coat and put it over the girl, and at this moment, the girl burst into tears.
But the tears that flowed down her cheeks were warm and happy.
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If you compromise yourself for that person, I don't think he will love you anymore, when you were just together when he liked you because of you as a person, if you completely lost your own thoughts and lost yourself for him, do you think he will still love you as before?
Love needs to tolerate each other, but it is not tolerance without self-esteem!
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No, at the same time that I change, he must also change. Change in the direction I wanted.
Otherwise, I won't tolerate him anymore.
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In fact, in real life, there is no so-called perfect love, only the process of unremitting pursuit with their own sense of responsibility for the sake of perfect love. Those imaginary romances and perfections will be reduced to a kind of indifference as the days go by. True love is based on mutual trust and mutual responsibility, which can entertain each other in happy times and support each other in painful days.
How long can two people's sense of common responsibility for love last, this relationship can last as long, and the longevity of love requires two people to be in the same step.
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I think it's good for both of us to learn to compromise in a given situation.
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Compromise in love is a sense of powerlessness to tolerate things that you don't want to tolerate, and not to change the status quo.
Sometimes people can compromise each other's temper for the sake of the person they love, and they can also compromise the other party's neglect of themselves for the happiness they expect. Repentance is a big betrayal and a serious injury, and if you still choose to compromise, it is just an irresponsible injury to yourself.
There must be a bottom line for emotional compromise.
Emotional compromise can be but you must see it clearly, don't go beyond your own bottom line to judge the right line, don't hurt yourself to fulfill others, don't do it at all, the person who hurts you won't hurt you, even if it's a look, the person who doesn't hurt you, even if you die, she still thinks you're asleep, in front of feelings, the difference between love and non-love can be best reflected, so the result of compromise is to hurt yourself, or even destroy yourself, love others and love yourself more.
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It means that true love is compromised without any threat or coercion, and it is unstoppable. But I thought it was also one-sided.
The best happiness in a relationship is that someone is willing to give in and admit defeat for you. Contacting you first is not necessarily not angry, but more concerned about you. Take the initiative to say sorry, not necessarily really sorry, but more reluctant to you.
The most beautiful love words in the world are not "I love you", but your temper is so bad, but I plan to endure it for the rest of my life. Get rid of all your temper and be the one who bows your head first! You must know that "forbearance" is to stick a knife in the heart, and the heart is painful.
It's just because of deep love, so I ignore the hurt, just because I feel distressed, so I'm willing to tolerate, just because I don't want to lose, so I'd rather be wronged.
Compromise refers to a situation in which the two sides of the conflict make concessions to each other, and the blind become an agreement. Compromise should be used at the right time, with particular care not to be used too early, if the problem arises too early: managers may not get to the heart of the problem, but compromise on the merits of the matter, and therefore lack a true understanding of the causes of the conflict.
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Compromise emotionally means blindly compromising and accommodating the other party, which will lead to the loss of self, no right to speak, and no ideas of one's own.
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Compromise in love refers to the acquiescence of certain behavioral views, but the heart does not necessarily agree, but only acts out of the emotionally weak party or forced by the situation. But emotional compromise is not worth advocating. People's hearts are very complicated, and blindly compromise, especially in terms of emotional stupidity, will make people tremble.
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That is, the compromising party should prefer the other party, he broke through his bottom line and agreed to your Heng clan key method, so you can see the other party's position in his heart, he likes the other party very much, and the other party should feel very happy.
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is willing to accommodate each other, no matter what problems arise between two people, they will be willing to give up their own ideas for each other in love, and try to conform to each other's practices.
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Compromise may mean that you are both angry, but you still compromise with him, you don't want him to be more angry, I think there must be someone who can compromise emotionally, because in this way the relationship can go further.
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It refers to the acquiescence of the behavioral point of view, but the heart does not agree, but it is only out of the emotionally weak party or the way of behavior forced by the situation, and it is not recommended to blindly compromise in the relationship.
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Compromise is the meaning of concession, and the emotional compromise should be a concession, not one person to order one person to execute, this is unfair, if it is only to obey one party, and let the other party be wronged, it is not okay.
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For some non-principled things, and the other party has some disagreements with us, we can make appropriate compromises, for example, on weekends, we like to stay at home, but after falling in love, our lover will always ask us to go out, in fact, it has no impact on our lives, so we can compromise.
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Compromise in love refers to the acquiescence of certain behavioral views but not necessarily the inner agreement, but only the way of acting out of the emotionally weak party or forced by the situation. But emotional compromise is not worth advocating. The human mind is very complicated, and we cannot blindly compromise.
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It means that when two people have different opinions, one party listens to the other party's suggestion, which is a compromise.
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Concession. Compromise means to give in, which refers to the act of giving in on something, and avoiding conflicts and disputes by making concessions.
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Ye's meaning can be understood as accommodation, if your other half says that he compromised you, it is accommodating you Bu Fan, but it is always said that compromise is not good, because compromise is not a disadvantage after all, if it is accommodation, he will not say it.
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Compromise emotionally, proving that she doesn't love you anymore, his love for you has been compromised, he wants to lose his love for you, his love for you, he doesn't want to work hard, he has lost confidence in your love, and he doesn't want to love you anymore.
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This means that when two people are together, because of a problem entangled, and they don't know how to go back to the predicament to decide, I feel that on the one hand, no matter what? The two of them can't talk together, knowing that there is a choice of the missing party at this time, and respecting the other party's choice, this is the emotional compromise of the other party.
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Emotionally, there are some grievances and grievances, and they don't do it according to their own wishes, and there are still some such feelings. Unwilling.
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Compromise is also a step forward and a method. This place is about compromise. In terms of feelings, there is also a need for compromise.
In terms of feelings, there is no arguing. There are mutual travel and humility, and the first year stool compromises with each other, so that the relationship can be further developed. A great way to maintain your feelings.
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Hello, emotional compromise refers to the acquiescence of certain behavioral views, but the heart is not necessarily agreed, just out of the emotionally weak party or the way of behavior forced by the situation, but emotional compromise is not worth slippery, and the heart of the advocate is very complicated, and blind compromise, especially in terms of emotional trust, will only make people gain inches.
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Someone on the Internet said this:
I think it will! Talk about why my concept will be compromised, this is a personal point of view, a life is too long, meet each other like each other's too little, too little, hail leak pure feel that if you really love each other, the goal is the same, what problems can be faced together to solve, but unfortunately because I talked about the bride price when it collapsed;
I don't know if I'm too attached to the material, anyway, it's very uncomfortable now, I'm about to be 40, I don't have a sense of belonging at all, now communicate more and say what I think in my heart, come on! Everything will slowly go well, many people say that I am torturing him, but one day he will understand that it is the right love, and now he feels a little bad about himself;
Don't force yourself to cultivate feelings just because it's suitable, if you don't like it from the beginning, it will only become more and more difficult to get along later.
Fu Seoul Yuanzhi said:
Be sure to marry the person you like, because marriage will suffer losses, and the longer you go, the more you will suffer. But if you marry someone you like very much, you can only think about it if you suffer a loss. "When it comes to liking and fitting, I'm sure everyone will have something.
Ponder. This question is like if you are a person who does not eat coriander, will you choose the person who "tells the boss not to put coriander" or the person who "helps you pick out the coriander"? And there is no fixed answer to this question itself.
Life is actually boring, but love is indeed a long-term thing. The best love is nothing more than when two people like each other, and you. Fit well, grow with each other, and be there for each other.
To be able to encounter this. Love is really lucky, but it is also difficult. However, we always have to have a kind of beauty in love, and you must always believe that there will always be such a person in your life, who will be good to you wholeheartedly, so that you can feel loved and loved.
In fact, you don't have to dwell on it, try to make yourself what you like, do what you want to do, enjoy the moment, love yourself well, become excellent, and then you will meet a more worthy love.
Haruki Murakami also said:
It's too important to have someone you like, and you're going to be confused. When you live this ordinary life, you will think again because of each other. Work hard, in so many days when you are tired and can't even raise your head to search for files, you will feel that there is still hope in life because of the other party.
Correct love is a benign mutual education, a powerful upward climb, and a cure. The more hot the sunshine of each other's lives. ”
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