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Your penchant for digging into the horns just means that when you look at any problem, you always like to analyze it from the same angle, and it is not a big problem at all. To put it simply, it's just a matter of angle. I can tell you that a lot of people are like this, don't worry.
If you want to solve this problem, you have to tell yourself that from now on, when you see anything or a problem, you have to analyze it comprehensively, don't always look at the same angle, look at other angles.
For example, if you see someone you know walking down a hill from afar, and you immediately wave to him, but he doesn't respond to you, he doesn't wave to you, and he walks away transparently in front of you, and you feel in your heart that this person looks down on you, this person is proud, this person is rude, and so on. Then, you will get into the horns, you will think that many people hate you, many people look down on you, many people don't like to be friends with you, and so on, it's normal for you to think like this, and many people will think like this when they encounter this situation, and they will look at the problem from their own perspective and analyze the situation.
Try to think about this problem from another angle, think from your friend's point of view, you will not drill the tip of the horns, you may find that when your friend walks down the hill, the sun is shining on his face, he feels very dazzling, he doesn't see you at all, you have your back to the sun, he only sees your shadow, you are like a black shadow standing in front of him, so he walks away in front of you transparently, the other may be that he is very annoyed, very distressed, there are some problems that he can't solve, His mind is full of problems, thinking about his troubles, as if he can't see anything, and he loses his soul. Another possibility is that the place where you are standing is full of people, so it's not surprising that he can't see you.
If you can analyze a problem or something from many different angles, you won't be able to get into the nitty-gritty.
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You took a knife and just kicked him off.
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1. Most of the people who love to drill the horns are introverts and do not have many friends, but they are positive and like to think independently.
Issue. 2. Such people have a lot of time to think about it, and their horizons are not broad enough, so they will feel that the little things are very important.
3. Love to drill the tip of the horns, there are pros and cons, and there must be a spirit of breaking the casserole to ask the end for the problem, of course, it must vary from person to person, from time to time, and from thing to thing.
4. First of all, we should be open-minded, it is rare to be confused, and everything is not clear, and then empathy, look at the problem from the other party's point of view, and finally think rationally and treat the problem with hospitality.
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Hello, honored with your question!
How to get rid of the habit of drilling the horns?
In fact, the formation of any habit is after a period of time, so it is necessary to do it slowly to get rid of the habit of branch pants, and there is a process.
First, we need to analyze things from multiple angles and stand on different standpoints in order to look at the problem in a comprehensive way. Sticking too much to one's own opinions, disagreeing with or accepting other people's suggestions. Therefore, it is necessary to slowly change this self-centered thinking.
Second, listen to other people's suggestions and ideas. You can not take other people's advice, but you must consider other people's suggestions. Only by using the strengths of others and synthesizing your own weaknesses can you get the best solution.
Third, if you want to avoid getting into the horns, you have to divert your attention from this simple force. When you are more aggressive, you can quiet yourself for a while, divert your attention, and go back to do your own things when you are more focused and in a better state. In this way, you can also get a good solution without getting into the horns.
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People who love to drill the horns of the bull are not only miserable themselves, but also those who come into contact with them will feel very uncomfortable, and even run away from them.
Most of the time, people who love to drill the horns of the bull are not aware of the seriousness of their own problems at the conscious level, so that even if they are pointed out by others, they also feel that others are deliberately targeting him, or making things difficult for him with bad intentions. If it's not on one channel, it's playing the piano to the cow!
In fact, they still have some self-knowledge, but because of their personality and habits, such a personality is like a mark on the body, which is difficult to dissipate, and it is difficult to correct the personality, unless their subconscious mind is adjusted, and the ways to adjust the subconscious are: hypnosis, or psychological adjustment, as well as their own consciousness and awareness, and learning to adjust the chain.
In my opinion, a person who drills the horns of the bull can be improved through learning, but whether the person is aware or not, the slow action varies from person to person. In other words, if you want to be really better, then in life, you not only need to learn, but also always examine your own problems, and constantly correct your own flaws in the process of learning, so as to meet a more perfect self.
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Summary. The meaning of love is to admit death, to be able to say that being a person is still a little paranoid, to think about everything, not to look at the problem, to divide it into two, not to think in black and white, if you think so, there will be fewer opportunities to quarrel with others. When you quarrel with others, if you calm down and analyze who is right and who is wrong, but you feel that things are quarreling with others, so it is not for people to quarrel with others, if you can analyze that you are wrong after you can settle down, you should automatically apologize to the other party, which will be more reasonable.
What to do with those who love to drill the horns.
Hello, try to enlighten him.
What kind of mental illness is love to drill the horns of the bull.
How do I communicate with him so that I can enlighten him?
The meaning of love is to admit death, to be able to say that being a person is still a little paranoid, to think about everything, not to look at the problem, to divide it into two, not to think in black and white, if you think so, there will be fewer opportunities to quarrel with others. When you quarrel with others, if you calm down and analyze who is right and who is wrong, but you feel that things are quarreling with others, so it is not for people to quarrel with others, if you can analyze that you are wrong after you can settle down, you should automatically apologize to the other party, which will be more reasonable.
Excessive bullishness does not directly reflect psychological problems, but excessive bullishness may be related to obsessive thoughts.
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