When children always give things to other children to eat, how to teach them or give them to others,

Hello, it's not a bad thing for children to share, but we should teach children more who they should be assigned to, for example, people who are usually generous to your children should also learn to be generous, and those who are usually stingy we should also be stingy with him.

Don't tell anything to your child, no matter how much you talk about it, the child can't listen, let him really understand, (can't give anything to others This word can't come out of your mouth, you have to hold it in your heart,) cut off the snacks at home for a while, don't buy toys anymore, don't be soft-hearted, usually consciously talk to the child, how hard it is for parents to make money, like my husband goes to work, goes out early and returns late, I tell my son, Mom takes care of you at home and goes to school, how hard it is for Dad to earn money alone, Usually when my husband comes back, I bring tea and water in front of my son, and occasionally there is something to buy or not, I will also consciously say that I still don't buy it, it is not easy for my father to make money, usually my son will stop me when I buy things, saying that I can't spend money all the time.

Hello, in fact, this behavior of the child is also a kind of friendship behavior, it is not a bad performance, the child's various methods of making friends are obtained in practice, if he often suffers he will learn a lesson.

The child is generous, it's not another problem, just eat, put the valuables away, don't let him give them away.

Willing to be benevolent, this son has a fate with the Buddha, and over time, it is very likely to achieve positive results.

There will still be this period, and it would be nice to be a little older.

It's good that the kids will share.

Yesterday, I took my ten-month-old son downstairs with my mother to bask in the sun, and I happened to meet a few neighbor aunts who were also basking in the sun.

I don't want to give the child to eat, first of all, my child's complementary food is late, and the digestion is not particularly good recently, and secondly, the fresh hawthorn that I just tried yesterday has not been digested, I think that the fruit dan peel is not as good as fresh hawthorn after all, and there are other additives, forget not to eat.

But the aunts began to educate themselves: "It's okay, let's eat, let's eat it." "This one really doesn't help with digestion.

The mother began to tear open the fruit dan peel and feed it in small bites for the sake of face, and the whole person was excited after the son tasted the sweetness. There was an appreciative and satisfied smile on the faces of the aunts.

Watching my son eat more and more, I decided to put down my lizi and face, took the fruit dan peel from my mother's hand, and said to my son: "Okay, okay, I can't eat it." The sons and aunts obviously didn't do it, and the crying was accompanied by nothing to make the children and grandmothers present a little embarrassed.

I had no choice but to eat the rest of the fruit peel, and my son cried even more happily. My mother looked at me embarrassed and then at the aunts and said, "This girl is really good, she even eats children's things." ”

Maybe it's really nothing to eat a fruit dan peel, but what in case? The most important thing is that when someone feeds a child something to eat, I have to judge responsibly whether the child can eat it or not, this is the principle.

I'm glad that at that moment I was able to put down my son and choose to defend my children's interests and give myself a good name.

Usually friends or neighbors who give children snacks are kind, their starting point is the love of children, at this time parents need to judge whether this thing can be eaten, must be selective to children to eat, in the face of inappropriate or even dangerous food must be decisively refused.

A few days ago, I saw a news that a neighbor fed a two-year-old girl almonds out of kindness, and later the almonds were surgically removed, and the girl died of a lung infection shortly after the removal. Who is to blame for such a tragedy? Blame the neighbor's kindness?

Here, I appeal to all parents when others feed their children something to eat, in the face of inappropriate or even dangerous food, you must put aside your face and resolutely refuse, when others say that it is okay to kill spring, it is okay, eat, eat, you must understand that they will not be responsible for your child, your child needs your protection.

In addition, try not to feed other people's children, and if you want to feed, you must ask for the consent of your guardian.

1. Tell your children in advance that you can't eat other people's things outside in vain, and you can't ask strangers for something to eat, which is very impolite; If you want to eat, you can tell your mother, and she will buy it for you.

2. The baby is easily attracted by new things, the last second is still attracted by the food in the hands of others, and the next second is to see the flowers and butterflies or sell, and forget all about eating. Therefore, parents can use the trick of diverting the baby's attention, when they find that the child is staring at other people's food, they should let him pay attention to other things in time, such as saying to the baby, "Let's go see the car", "Who flies the kite is so beautiful", so that the child will not worry about eating.

3. If conditions permit, when giving children something to eat in the neighborhood, parents should stop it in time and let them not give their children food casually. Because the child is simple-minded, he thinks that if the neighbor can give him a snack, the stranger can too. When he asks someone else to eat, parents can tell him "baby, mom is here, come and ask mom for it".

It's not acceptable for someone to give me something to eat?

Hello dear, happy to answer for you, and thank you for your patience! I think it's acceptable for people who are more familiar with each other to pretend to be silver if they give something to their children. However, if you're unsure about the food and how it's made, it's best not to let your child eat it.

Especially in some public settings, such as gatherings, amusement parks, etc., there may be people who will share snacks or food they bring, but these foods may not be hygienic or in line with children's eating habits. Therefore, in this case, it is better to let the child eat the food that he brings or choose some reliable catering place to buy the food. If you feel that the food given by others is more reliable or the child is interested in trying it, you can ask about the food and the preparation process first, and make sure that the child has no allergies or other physical discomforts.

The fact that a child takes something that does not belong to him has nothing to do with right or wrong, but has something to do with curiosity, self-control, and the establishment of concepts of financial ownership. As children grow older, their knowledge and experience become richer and more socialized, and their concepts of right and wrong will become clearer and clearer. If a child is over five or six years old and often behaves like this, or deliberately uses this behavior to achieve some undesirable purpose, parents should consider it as their child's problem behavior.

Before the age of 3, children have more property rights, coupled with self-centeredness, and want to bring back whatever they like as their own, which is normal, and every child has to go through this stage. As we grow older, we will slowly pass on social culture and moral concepts to our children, but this is a long process, and it is not that we tell our children that it is shameful to take other people's things, and children will never take other people's things. Children are children after all, and curiosity is very strong:

I haven't seen this thing before, it's fun, and I want to take it back to play. Children also have poor self-control, and they may have conflicts when they take things that don't belong to them.

Parents should not scold their children, let alone hit their children, they just need to explain clearly to their children, let them return their things, and apologize. If the same situation happens in the future, parents can also take their children back together and apologize solemnly. Don't beat up your child just because you can't hang up on your face, and don't treat this incident as a joke and talk about it everywhere in front of your child, damaging your child's self-esteem.

Because children's possessiveness is relatively strong, the other party's things also want to have, and their own things still belong to themselves.

There is a saying that other people's things are always the best, because people are children who pay attention to freshness, and it is the same.

That's because children love to share, and they think that eating other children's food is a better way to promote relationships.