What kind of person can t let go? Why can t people let go?

I think people who are "persistent" and "demand perfection" are easy to let go. "Persistence" and "demand for perfection" are not disadvantages.

1."Persistence" - to see why things and persistent; Before you do something, think about whether it requires you to "persistently" pursue (work) to achieve the goal.

2."Demand perfection" - see if you have the ability; It is also to think before doing things, your experience, your ability, whether you can bear what you want to start; If you think about it and have more than 80% certainty, you will not achieve the goal and will not stop working to the end; On the contrary, if you are only 50% sure, don't "blame yourself" for your results - give yourself a step.

Hello! The ups and downs of life will tell you that the past will never go back, and if you think too much, the more stress will be, and there is no big deal in accepting it honestly. In this society, everyone lives hard, everyone has their own feelings and helplessness, understand them, care for them, tolerate them, forgive others, give yourself a generous embrace, and accept all this.

Use the power of love to infect the people around you, and use a loving and benevolent heart to encompass everything! As long as you live a comfortable life and live happily, what else can't you let go?

People who think too much are easy to do things and can't let go, in fact, no matter how much others say, you have to overcome it yourself, and others can't help you from the root.

Those who are obsessed with it can't let go.

What is lost and you don't want to lose, or what you don't get can never let go.

Are you male or female? If it's a man, don't like a mother-in-law, be decisive, and keep a brave heart.

Adjust the pain of things to a minimum, and slowly forget about it.

It shows that you are kind-hearted and not cruel to yourself and others, but there are some things that should be decisive, so don't be indecisive.

Either endure or be cruel. Take your pick.

I can't let go of things, but I give myself a hint and remind myself of the past, hoping it will help you.

Tell yourself that people who don't know how to let go will never get it.

Now the situation is too stormy, and it's hard not to let go.

I can't let go because I'm amorous, because I'm too kind and soft-hearted.

After thinking and coming to a conclusion, if you should put it down, if you can't put it down, take measures to do it, have your own opinions, dare to take responsibility, pay attention to learning, summarize, sometimes it is better to have a conclusion than no conclusion, don't just think about it and have the next step to draw a conclusion.

"You trapped yourself in that house".

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In fact, each of us will have our own very tangled places, those can't figure it out slowly seems to become an obsession, I once heard such a story, a boy likes a girl for five years, when someone asks him what he likes about this girl, he said that he was in the class, she smiled at me, I think there is nothing better than that moment......But that girl, five years later, may not be what she was at the beginning, but he still likes it when he knows the result. I guess that's an obsessionIn fact, obsession is not terrible, what is terrible is one after another tossing and turning, painful and sad self, so how to overcome your obsession? Here's my own opinion:

1. Understand what you really want.

I used to be a very nostalgic and persistent person, and this state caused my world to be gray for a long time, and I wanted to go but couldn't get out. Later, I thought about it seriously, what do I really want? I want me to be happy, I want to be happy, I want to make myself good, and that obsession is not so much a way to let go, but a way to alleviate my painful state.

For example, if you like the doll very much, you want it very much, but you can't figure out why your mother didn't buy it for you, which becomes your tangle. But perhaps what you will never forget is the happy state of the doll, not the doll itself, so the doll is not important, you can play with the children and be happy. When I figured out this question, I seemed to be relieved all of a sudden, so when you asked this question, it was not the obsession that bothered you, but that you picked it up for too long and didn't know how to let go of it.

2. Enrich your life and don't let yourself be idle.

In fact, when you are idle, you will always be troubled by many things, and when you are busy, you don't have time to think about them. Some people say that I don't know what I want to do, so force myself, the easiest and most effective way is to exercise, adrenaline secretion, dopamine formation will bring you satisfaction and a sense of achievement. Looking at the changes in your body, this positive motivation, slowly you feel that some things are not so important.

Instead of sitting there all the time thinking about how to let go of the obsession, it is better to do something, and slowly the obsession will become weaker and weaker, because I feel that it is not important, so it can not be called an obsession. Do something you like, don't have to dwell on the present, let go of yourself, maybe you will find a different life.

Conclusion: I know that letting go of those long-term obsessions is not something that happens overnight, but it is better to let go of yourself than to have no way to change them.

Hello dear. 1. If you can't let go of a person, your heart will be affected by his affairs, and your heart will beat faster when you come into contact with things about him, and your emotions will fluctuate greatly. When you can't let go of someone, you will always pay attention to his circle of friends.

He often changes his personality signature, and clicks on his circle of friends over and over again to refresh it to see how he is doing. will also pay attention to his WeChat exercise steps, guess how many steps he has taken today, it should be **. "Take a look" will also go to see which articles he likes, which *** he follows, and then also follow these ***.

Always try every way to pay attention to him, and recall his memories over and over again, even if he is sad and sad alone. 2. After letting go of a person, the heart will no longer be affected by his affairs. After letting go of him, my heart will no longer be fluctuating when I come into contact with things about him.

I no longer pay attention to his circle of friends, no longer care about who his recently updated personality signature is for, no longer care about how many steps he has taken in WeChat exercise, and no longer care about what articles he likes ...... againThe memories of him no longer hurt when I think about him. When a friend mentioned him, he was already light.

The world is beautiful because it is reflected in too many regrets in the human world.

Being angry is like drinking poison yourself and expecting others to suffer. Stool Bu Zheng.

Because there is nothing. That's the reason to keep fighting.

You shouldn't be dissatisfied with others all the time, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you are suffering yourself.

Behind the cowardice is the strength of forbearance.

Feelings are like a game, and sometimes you have to hang up.

Is there such a person who is hidden in the deepest part of your heart, so deep that you even forget yourself?

If one day I become no one in my eyes, please remember that no one has taken me to heart.

Be the protagonist of your own life, not a spectator in someone else's life.

It is because you are not good that I want to stay by your side and give you happiness.

Don't complain when you encounter difficulties, since you can't change the past, then try to change the future.

The feeling of being an intimate person, suddenly strange, and completely disappointed hope is like drinking cold water and actually getting burned.

The power of love is so great that it can make people forget everything, but it is so small that it cannot contain even a grain of jealous sand.

No matter what you become, I love you the same.

Time is still the same, I can't miss it, I will only miss it more.

My requirements for love are very simple, find someone I love and love me, hold hands, and go from day to night, from black hair to white hair.

Except for the people I love, there is no one who can hold back all my emotions.

The person who once poured cold water on me, it doesn't matter. I'll give it back to you when I'm boiled.

A lot of people are watching my jokes, so I can't lose.

The most heart-pounding romance is that you want to rip off my clothes, and it just so happens that I want to rip off your pants too.

Above men, treat people as human beings; Under men, consider yourselves as human beings.

There is a reward for paying, such as double the extravagance for twice the disappointment.

The pain you are looking for, why do you have to shout that it hurts, if you want to blame Zao Song, you will blame yourself, you have the ability to like others, and you don't have the ability to make people like you.