Character aside, girls and boys are more interested in the economy or the opposite in appearance?

During the teenage years, both boys and girls focus on their appearance, but as they get older, girls' minds change.

Men mostly choose their faces. A small number of electoral economies. There are also those who choose character.

Women generally choose the economy and face for the most part. There are also a lot of people who choose character.

The question is how do you understand the other person, do you understand him well enough?

A woman wants to find a good man all her life, whether he is a strong woman or not, but this man does not need to be rich, as long as he is good enough. A man looks at a woman as a woman who wants to be knowledgeable and courteous, and who can tolerate everything about him.

Boys mostly focus on appearance, while girls only focus on appearance before the age of 20, and after the age of 20, they focus on the economy.

This depends on the family background, if the girl has a good family background, she will definitely have face, and the boy must have the economy, and it is best to have a good look, but the appearance must not be bad!

If the boy's family is good, of course, he hopes that the girl's appearance is good, the personality is good, and it is best to have an economy If not, it is enough to meet the first 2!

If a woman's family background is not good, then it goes without saying that it is better for men to have economy and then appearance (but there are also those who value appearance and do not look at the economy Now there are very few in this society It depends on whether the man has the ability to make women not care about the economy).

Boys with poor family backgrounds naturally have low requirements for girls, (there are some who don't do their best!) ）

It's hard to say, let's put it this way: If you want to get married, you should look at the economy, you have to love until you die, you look at your appearance, you look at your appearance when you go to school, you look at the economy when you enter society, girls look more at the economy, and boys look more at their appearance.

Well, what the first floor said makes a lot of sense.

For example, when girls get married, they like to find mature and stable people, but it's not absolute.

This may sound a bit cruel, but this is indeed the reality of today's society: "It is true that there are all kinds of good-looking skins, and there are no funny souls, but if you don't have a good-looking skin, few people want to know if your soul is interesting." ”

Everyone says that inner beauty is true beauty, but how many people can really only pay attention to each other's interior, or are willing to completely ignore their appearance because of each other's interior? In fact, this is like the so-called online dating, when you can't see each other's faces through the Internet, you say "I love you" one by one, and you are indeed attracted by the other party's character and character, otherwise why would they be dating online? But once you meet, you find that the other party is different from ** or it is not the type you fantasize about in your heart, so you break up and become the so-called "death of seeing the light", there are not a few such cases, right?

People do like interesting souls, this is not a lie, if you have two beautiful women or handsome guys in front of you who look exactly the same, and one of them has a gentle personality, rich experience, can have different views on things, also knows life, and is very good at taking care of people, while the other has a mediocre personality, is more careless in doing things, goes with the flow, believes what others say, will not improvise, it is difficult to take care of yourself, let alone take care of you, give you the joy of life. If you are asked to choose one of these two, I believe you will not hesitate to choose the former. That's right, that's the charm of interesting souls.

But this is on the premise that "the two of them are equally beautiful", if the two parties are not equal in appearance, the former is ugly and the latter is very beautiful, then you will probably hesitate a little, right? Realistically, there will be many people who are willing to put up with her empty inner body for the sake of her good looks, but few people will put up with whether she doesn't have a good looking skin for the sake of her interesting inner appearance.

Although it's a bit cruel, this is the reality, but in the past, most people in the world are still ordinary people, and ordinary people generally don't ask too much in terms of appearance. Maintain a confident attitude, elegant temperament, go out and dress up well, if you can enrich your inside, I believe you will have your own good fate, don't be discouraged, encourage each other!

The reasons are as follows:1Looking for a girlfriend is the same as buying something, the first thing is to look at the appearance, so the man first looks at the woman's appearance.

2.The appearance can be seen at a glance, the character has to be seen over time, and the first thing to understand a person is to look at the appearance.

3.Character can sometimes be false, the appearance is there, it is a fixed asset.

4.Character must have time and things to be understood, the appearance is clear at a glance, if the character is not good, at least there is the appearance of responsibility, if the character is not good, the appearance is not good, it is nothing.

Because the first impression depends on the appearance first, if the appearance is high, many people are willing to associate with you, but only the appearance and no character will still break up. If you have a low appearance, you won't be so popular, and you don't want to associate with you, and you don't want to know what your character is. A lot of people are just that.

Men are inherently visual creatures, so when looking for a partner, the first thing to look at is their appearance. After having appearance, he will understand character, and if he doesn't have appearance, he won't understand character. No matter how important character is, it is useless. Because after all, appearance comes first.

Therefore, there is a certain reason for women to please themselves. Come over first, follow this level, and then he'll be happy to know your character. Girls are still willing to spend money on themselves.

In fact, now girls have to look at their appearance at the beginning of looking for a partner, even if she looks ugly, no matter how good her character is, can you want it? Indeed, boys value it more, but you look good-looking, you look at him and are happy and pleasing to the eye, let you find a partner, you have to find a good-looking one, you can't just look at the character, this thing has to look at the right eye first, good-looking people everyone wants, anyway, I think most girls in this society now look for objects and look at their appearance, they are all good-looking dogs, so let's say, now in fact, don't target boys, now there are more girls and female hooligans, and now boys are careful when they go out, you don't know that girls are actually quite scary, Sometimes it's more terrible than boys, and they can do everything.

Because people's appearance can be seen at a glance, character is a thing that requires long-term observation to get the result, so it will appear, and the first thing people consider when looking for an object is to look at the appearance first, and then slowly understand the character.

A girl's character depends on her own feelings, and she can be discovered slowly in the process of getting along. Whether what she said is consistent with what she did can tell whether she is true or not. The speed at which she speaks to people can tell her character.

Her perception of things can see the depth of thought. Her views on relationships can tell if she can be a good girlfriend.

This is because character is a person's inner quality and character, which is introverted and not exposed, and it is difficult to see clearly without some interaction and investigation. However, the appearance is presented in the appearance of the person, and the woman with high appearance is more likely to attract people's attention.

Now we say that a person should unify the beauty of the appearance with the beauty of the soul, that is the real beauty, and cannot be inferior in quality because of the appearance alone.

It is true that character is very important, but most men still look at their appearance first when looking for a partner, because the first impression is also very important. Why do some men and women contact for a period of time, through a period of understanding, the character is not good, and eventually leads to the breakup of the two people, the reason is very simple, character and appearance are very important.

It is very important to find the eye edge of the object, at least the other party makes himself feel pleasing to the eye, so that he can continue to dating, otherwise even if the character is good, it is useless if he doesn't like his appearance.

Character is the road to know the horsepower, see the hearts of the people for a long time, sometimes get along for decades may not be able to really understand a person's character, and the appearance is clear at a glance.

Because people are visual animals, only when they look more comfortable, will they have the desire to understand deeply. And character is generally known after an in-depth understanding, if you don't like it when you look at it, there is no desire to understand it deeply.

This has something to do with people's personalities, and some people know their character in advance. Some people look at their appearance and appearance first. So.

Everyone's personality is different. But in general, it is the character of the person who matters. has a beautiful appearance, a bad character, and the final outcome is still contradictory.

Or a failure or a breakup. Therefore, even if the appearance is not particularly beautiful, the character is very good. Also.

It can be white-headed to old.

After all, people are sensory animals, so they appreciate beauty loan is a beautiful girl, she is more likely to like it The more people are now the first, look at the appearance first, so the appearance is really important, after all, everyone is the first to see, and then can contact, so it will naturally give people a good impression.

Human beings are first and foremost sensory animals, so men appreciate beautiful and beautiful girls. A woman who can go to the hall and enter the kitchen will be more perfect, so that the man has no worries and is very face-saving. She is the first to let people see the more they like it, which also determines that many people are the first to look at the looks, only when the first impression is good, there will be the next contact and love, in the process of understanding the character, and finally deciding whether to get married or not.

The order in which a man finds a girlfriend is appearance, personality, work, and family situation, no matter how good the girl's personality is, as long as the appearance does not meet the requirements of the man, the others are not considered, so the problem of character is only understood after passing the first hurdle, so many men have made the wrong choice.

The first thing we see when we know a person is her appearance, so this is a very normal thing, no one can see other people's character as soon as they come, and character needs to be communicated. Most people love beauty and are visual animals, so they are willing to communicate in-depth only if they look good at first sight.

Because the appearance is also a manifestation of the spiritual outlook of the person, it can also reflect a certain character, and the appearance can be seen at a glance, which is more intuitive, and the appearance is in line with the requirements and then to observe the girl's character

This is actually very normal, just like girls, it's actually the same, not only in boys, if you first of all, you can't stand the person's appearance and image, and even if you look at it, you will have no appetite and nausea, please ask if you still have to seriously understand him Know his inner Even if it is beautiful, no matter how handsome it is, are you sure you can taste it? It's just that everyone's definition of beauty is different, not that it must have a good-looking appearance, but it just makes people look comfortable and clean So that you will be interested in understanding his inner life What he said is actually very realistic So don't just think that men are based on their appearance In fact, this is the real motivation that prompts a person to understand your inner Otherwise, what else to talk about inside Or this person really has no way to marry a random person to live He has no ability to choose If he has the opportunity, he will definitely choose what he likes Interested in the common feelings of people People are ordinary people There are no saints So you have to look at the mentality of ordinary people and ask others.

Because to know a person first, you must first see what the person looks like, and then there is an urge to understand him, so whether it is a man or a woman, many people have certain requirements for their appearance or they subconsciously have a requirement for beautiful things. So generally speaking, good-looking girls are more likely to make boys feel good at first sight. But if you need to get married, men generally don't choose particularly ugly girls to marry, unless you say that this man's conditions are very bad.

Either he will choose a girl who is pleasing to the eye, or a little beautiful to get married. But if you are in love, the boy must want the girl to be as beautiful as possible.

That's because most men are sensual people who love beautiful women and are willing to pursue beautiful things, which is the so-called "fair lady, gentleman is good", so when men deal with objects, they first look at whether the girl is very good-looking, and then they will consider the girl's character.

Because many people are visual animals, most people like to look at the appearance first, and then decide whether to carry out further understanding, and then understand the character, but some people do not pay attention to appearance, but pay more attention to character, so this still depends on everyone's ideas and choices, because everyone is different.

The status quo of blind dates in recent years: men are weighing the pros and cons more and more, and women are becoming more and more appearance associations.

I know several employees who are employed in matchmaking companies, and in addition to helping men and women with similar conditions match, they will also arrange blind date matters.

Through their experience in recent years, they have found that the current generation of men and women have completely different concerns in the matter of choosing a mate.

Men are increasingly concerned about women's conditions, which roughly include jobs, income, and family backgrounds.

So in the blind date market with a bachelor's degree or above, the only daughter of the city who works in the system is the most popular Honghong.

And what women pay most attention to when choosing a mate is not the economic conditions of the other party, but the appearance of the other party.

As a result, there is a phenomenon that some uncles who have houses and cars are still uncared for, but the young and handsome little brothers with ordinary conditions are quite popular.

Such a result is both unexpected and reasonable.

Why do women care more and more about their appearance?

1. Changes in social status.

In the past, most women relied on men to live, especially in rural areas, and there was no way to live without men, because men were the main force of labor in the family.

Yu Tangshu was in that era, the status of women was relatively low, while the status of men was relatively high, and the inferiority of men and women was also regarded as the norm by everyone.

In that kind of living atmosphere, women's choice is relatively low, and even if they have expectations in their hearts, they are suppressed.

In contemporary society, men and women are equal, women have the same education as men, and are employed in the same positions, and they no longer need to depend on men.

After having the ability to support themselves, many women slowly show their nature and have the capital to choose the other half they like.

2. There are more and more only daughters.

Most of the young people in contemporary society are only children, and for only children, money is naturally nothing, because they have lived in a good family environment since childhood.

There is no shortage of money itself, so naturally it will not suppress its nature for the sake of money, and choose the type you don't like. On the contrary, when they choose their other half, they often do not pay much attention to money, but pay more attention to the appearance, personality, education, and character of the man.

It is very normal for a woman who is detached from the pursuit of material conditions to naturally pursue the spiritual world.