Do boys and girls have a pure friendship?

Is there an innocent friendship between men and women? The answer I give is: yes.

Don't be happy too early, this "have" is very rare, rare, not often, its probability is very small, like buying a lottery ticket, the chance of winning 5 million yuan is very small, but you can't deny that someone will win. Good luck often doesn't come your way, and you can't help but be a little disappointed.

True friendship between men and women is rare, so it is extremely precious.

The less something is, the more valuable it is, the more people want to get it, so some people try to find it, but in fact, this kind of thing is hard to find, and it is useless to be in a hurry.

Some people say, don't talk so mysteriously, I have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex. It's not hard to have a friend of the opposite sex, the question is whether there is an innocent friendship between you? The word innocence is very important, what is the friendship of innocence?

That is, there is no love, no love, no sex between the opposite sex, like buddies, friendly exchanges, friendly interactions, no color and no profit. Can you do it?

True friendship between the opposite sex is a special relationship between men and women, this relationship is a neutral relationship, which requires both men and women to deviate from their original gender and find a balance point, which is the core of pure friendship.

The reason why true friendship between men and women is scarce is because the survival rate of pure friendship is very low, not that you don't want it to live, but that it has a very small living space and is not suitable for its growth, and its life cycle is also very short, this flower is beautiful, but it does not bloom for long.

We can't live in a vacuum, when we have love, have a home, at this time we still want to maintain a relationship with the opposite sex, even if it is an innocent friendship, it is very difficult, in the members of love and family, as long as one party raises doubts, any friendship can not go on, you can not give up love and home for the sake of friendship, familiar and familiar, you will measure.

People have a selfish side, so not everyone is open-minded, especially within the territory of love and home, everyone is alert, afraid of harassment by others, exclusivity between the same sex, is objective, is a kind of human nature, you can't change, people can't survive if they don't protect themselves, and people's excessive defense sometimes loses good things.

The true friendship between men and women is to have an accurate grasp of each other's relationship, that is, both parties appreciate each other and like each other, but there is no distraction. As long as one party has a different understanding and has other purposes, then the true friendship between men and women will be questioned.

Do men and women need true friendship? Of course it is, this kind of friendship is beautiful, why should we refuse it, this kind of friendship should be generous, above board, there is no need to dodge, it should be carried out in the sun.

The true friendship between men and women should be a noble relationship between men and women, we may not meet in our lifetime, once encountered, even if it is very short, we should cherish it, remember, we should not bring love and love into it, let the innocence become fake, let the friendship not pure, and there is no existence.

Adolescent boys and girls begin to be interested in the opposite sex and want the opposite sex to pay more attention to themselves. Love to be in the spotlight. This situation I feel (note:

It's just that I think oh) a little bit more than friendship, but it's still far from love. Even liking someone of the opposite sex is not love (liking is not the same as love), because you just pay more attention and start to discover the good points of the opposite sex, and you will appreciate others or want to be noticed by excellent people, so it is better to be friends.

I don't know

If not, then everyone will inevitably have a lot of people of the opposite sex (classmates, colleagues, friends) around them, and will there be love with everyone of the opposite sex???

Turns out I don't believe there is.

But now I know there is

It's up to you to explore

No, because everyone has feelings, especially men and women who have been together for a long time, there will also be sparks of love.

Yes, but that kind of friendship is an emotion between love and friendship, it surpasses friendship but does not develop into love, it is a kind of emotional sublimation, and only those who have obtained this emotional sublimation can experience it.

In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends.

Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings. When friends get along with each other, they must know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, a family must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties, if only one party pays, then the relationship will slowly have a lot of estrangement, resulting in the distance between the two sides is getting farther and farther apart.

Most boys and girls don't have pure friendships, only a few have, such as girls and boys are buddies, or girls have a boyfriend.

Man is an emotional animal, and pure friendship is a spiritual pursuit. Sometimes, if a boy and a girl can't control their feelings, the pure friendship will turn sour.