I feel like I ve become a terrible guy

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is normal for children to have a generation gap with their parents, because after all, they are two generations, and you should also be considerate of the feelings of parents and try not to be too rude. Because parents will be sad.

    Your parents didn't educate you in the right way, your father or teacher won't choose the right way to educate you, your parents are very failures, I think your family is very sad You are very pitiful, I personally think that educating a child, first of all, give him self-confidence, cultivate the child's assertiveness, when the child is unhappy and has something on his mind, parents should listen patiently, and then encourage and comfort. Instead of teaching and preaching, when the child has finished saying what is on his mind, it should not be spread, because in the child's psychology this is a very shameful secret, and the child will be very ashamed if it is spread, and he will not be willing to tell his parents about it in the future.

    In the future, when you encounter something, you can choose a friend of yours to talk about your thoughts, or ask your friend for advice on what to do.

    At the very least, find a loyal listener who can't take on all the pressure yourself, and you'll break down after a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Either way, first of all, you should think that your parents love you and do everything for your good. You are still very young, don't rush Take your time After seeing the complexity and scheming of society, you naturally know how to love your parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good to understand, and if you can tolerate it, you should be like this at home and in society. If you can endure it, you will learn to understand. If you can, you must do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you're a girl. I don't know your age, but I can probably read between the lines that you're in puberty. In terms of personal growth, I have just passed through my youth, but my experience is not better than yours.

    Don't worry, I'm not here to persuade you to be obedient, considerate of your parents, and so on. After all, I have experienced 22 years in the world, from my own experience of poverty, to contact with society, **, I can understand your growth environment, I understand you very well, your parents have enough ability to meet your basic needs in life, so that your life is carefree. But that's where the problem lies with your parents, because they have the self-confidence to be able to control and arrange everything about you, and they don't really appreciate that you're growing up and your sense of responsibility is maturing...

    I really envy you, because you still have the ability to take care of yourself in front of your parents, you don't have to worry about family chores, you can integrate into society more easily, pursue your life goals, realize your ideals, and grow faster. As long as you're really mature, everything is fine!

    The above is my personal opinion! As for the writing, I'm ashamed! Because I read few books and my expression skills are not good, I hope you can read it, thank you! Andy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're not in the right mindset, you should adjust it well, and you might as well try autosuggestion, which might be useful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone is in this situation, and the mind is independent.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Rebellion is possible. It is not right for your father to pour his anger on you. But I don't agree with the penultimate paragraph--- everyone has a meaning to exist, you can think about the days without you, the reaction of those people.

    Adolescence does have a lot of friction with your parents, but forgive them for the sake of giving birth to you and raising you!

    I also think your father is really wrong. He makes you feel as if you have an inferiority complex. My father also used to refer to "other people's children", which I didn't sound happy about, but it gave me motivation.

    But be assured, you're not bad! You have a sound body and a whole family! You are happy!

    My mother died 10 years ago, my father was working outside the home, and I lived in the school and could only see my father once every six months. You are so lucky that your misfortune compares to mine!

    So, cheer up. What my father said can be turned into motivation for study and work, and of course those understandable words can be thrown away, don't let it bother you! You're not bad, as long as you don't think you're bad.

    Beg, pure hand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Parents have their own way of understanding, maybe you can tell them what you think, just remember that they love you and care about you, this is more important than anything else, you can talk to a good friend, it's not always good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Treat everyone with a normal heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Teenagers, the normal psychology of adolescence, generally speaking, are a little, just learn to be calm.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How old are you?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Has the rebellious period arrived? Everyone has been at this time, calm !!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't know when I started, I feel more and more irritable, and my relationship with my family is getting worse and worse. When the conversation became more and more incompatible, and sometimes even turned into heated arguments, I lost the desire to communicate with my parents. This.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You need to communicate with your family, pay more attention to your parents' preferences when you have time, try to have common topics with them, talk more, and you will find that they are actually very good to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The upper degree of milli catties, the first division of catties, the first decimination of catties, the first decimination of catties, ten catties, Mirick ten.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because you look down on them, cut, and be ungrateful a little.

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