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That is very realistic, without money, the relatives or relatives at home may look down on you a little, and this kind of contempt is subtle.
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The situation you mentioned is indeed very common in real life, and sometimes it is like this, because I sometimes feel that when you have no money, your family looks down on you, including your dearest and most beloved parents and younger brother.
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The society is very realistic, you have no money, and your family looks down on you, I think well, if you don't have money, you can't do anything, because now it's all where you need money. Well, the old and the young, all need money, children need money to go to school, and the elderly mainly pay for school, so the society is very realistic, without money, they can't even afford to go to school, and they can't afford to see a doctor.
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Maybe you're thinking too much, everyone has their own way of life. Although poverty does not mean that you are of low moral character. Be self-confident.
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The root cause of the contempt is:
No money, lazy!
Relatives always think,Work hard to get richPovertyThat's whyLazy
It is this that is looked down upon.
Even if you are a food delivery person or other industry, the work is very hard, but you are not likely to be looked down upon.
These days, who knows which one doesn't need a favor. Don't we all want to do the most with the least amount of money?
Therefore, your poverty is because of you in their eyesLaziness
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The current society is indeed more realistic, if you have money, then well, others look at you more highly, but if you are too poor, others will definitely look down on you, because of the current economic society. It's very easy to make money, and it's impossible to keep yourself poor.
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Nowadays people are indeed very realistic, then if you have no money, the people in your family will definitely look down on you, even your relatives will look down on you.
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It shouldn't be, although the society is very realistic, but there are still people, although you don't have money, but your family will not look down on you, even if outsiders look down on you, your family should still get along with you, after all, home is warm.
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The society is very realistic, if you don't have money, your family will look down on you, so you have to work hard to make money so that you won't be short of money, and your family won't look down on you.
Everyone is working hard to live a better life in the future, so they will work hard to change their lives.
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Yes, this is human nature, if you have the ability and money, whether it is a close relative, family and relatives, friends, they will take you as the main thing, and tell you with a smile when they speak, and outsiders will even talk to you, if you are poor, no one will want to pay attention to you, look down on you, and some people don't talk about eyelids, so the poor don't run the rich, they don't look down on you at all.
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You are very poor and have a large amount of situation, no one will afford to see you, including your own family members, and so on.
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Yes, it's really good, society is so realistic, you don't have money, no one can look up to you, including your family.
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Society is like this, life is like this, if you don't have money, if you don't have the ability, no matter who you are, they look down on you, this is a very normal thing, and people are like this and very realistic now.
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The society is indeed very realistic, but there are also very warm things in the society, and the family will also know how to understand your feelings, not everyone is so powerful, only care about the economic and material conditions, many people can find more advantages in you, and not only pay attention to the amount of money you have.
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The society is very realistic, the family will not look down on you and give up on you, but they will also be angry, and they will have the ability to support themselves without money, and then save a little money in addition to supporting themselves.
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The society is very realistic, you have no money, and your family looks down on you? In fact, a person wants to open something to look up to and look down on. Everyone has their own way of living.
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Sometimes this is indeed the case, because you don't have money, your family will think you are useless and will look down on you, so you have to be self-reliant and self-reliant, so as not to look at other people's faces.
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I think this society is very realistic, but what kind of family is it, maybe the education and some ideas that each family receives are different, right?
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It's not that you don't have money and your family looks down on you, it's because your family thinks you don't work hard and hang out at home all day, and they think you shouldn't be like this.
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The family will definitely look down on you, but other people will look down on you, because I used to measure the mark in this society.
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Human nature, life is very difficult, everyone has no time to talk about love, people are indifferent, just get used to it. Because you may not be able to be enthusiastic about these people, and if you do, you will only be sympathetic.
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That's how society is, because if you don't have money, you can't help others, others may not look down on you, and you are also very natural, work harder.
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Society is really realistic, but if a family has no money, they don't think they will look down on it, they must be a family.
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The reality is that if you don't have power, then many people may look at you in a different light, and if you have everything, then others may become more inflamed.
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Human affection is like thin paper, there is no way, the reality is so cruel, so people must fight for themselves to live.
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Therefore, people should be self-reliant. You have to rely on your own efforts to create a better life, so that you are happy, and your family is happy to see you. People look up to you.
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I think this kind of family may be a more snobbish family. That's why there is such a thing, and there is no such thing in normal families.
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It's true that except for your parents and your siblings, you can't see anything else.
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I'm not afraid of no money, I'm afraid of being lazy if I don't have money, this is irrelevant, that one can't be seen, and then I'm idle and have nothing to do, lazy.
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It is this situation, and it is precisely in this way that I want to make money with my ability.
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If you don't have money and no income, your parents will also look down on you, and unfortunately, this is true.
When I understood this, I felt cruel for a while.
Because the understanding of this truth itself is painful, and it is painful to understand when there is no money, because a calm conversation with your parents can also become a cold-blooded blade, and a few words of calm may also be mixed with the pain of self-esteem. When you have money, it is not necessarily painful to understand, and the proud self-satisfaction of those parents in front of outsiders will often make you more aware of the sorrow of human nature.
I grew up in the suburbs, the environment is mixed, most of the people there are lazy, my father often said that this is full of snobbery, the people here are not as simple and down-to-earth as the rural people, and there is no vitality of the people who have been living in the city, I don't completely agree, but I agree with him that snobbery, everyone is snobbish, but this snobbery is particularly prominent in the complex living environment.
There are a lot of boys in their early twenties around my house, who don't work or earn money, and of course there are a small percentage of girls. Most of their parents were hysterical about them, and the verbal abuse was frequent, and the atmosphere in the home was decadent and gloomy.
These children are often caught in a vicious cycle of even greater depravity.
When a person is born, he cannot decide his birth and family environment, and this "unable to decide" is often a shackle that requires all efforts to break free, some people are lucky to find themselves by reading or walking, and some people are helpless in the face of themselves, we can not blame this helplessness, so the so-called "unproductive", objectively and intuitively, will most of them also be unreproachable heredity?
And being born as parents is often not easy, their love is great and blind, although they do not know whether their children have sound wings, but they still want them to fly higher than themselves, it is self-interest and self-interest, and self-interest is human nature. Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It's hard to do that.
The essence of the so-called parent-child relationship is always a relationship, and if the rest of the relationship looks down on you, I think no matter how cruel it is, you must allow your parents to have this right.
The collapse of adults, painful and silent.
Adult affection, snobbish and noisy.
Only when you feel that you can't be harsh and can't be harsh, you may learn to be comfortable with human nature. Anyway, you always have to love yourself more, so only if you are still on the road and still working hard, life will be saved.
But this truth is still cruel, and I hope you understand it later.
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This is for sure, your parents are your closest people, if they look down on you, then how will you gain a foothold in this society in the future, so you have to work hard, only hard work can you get what you want, in order to be able to live a good life.
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This sentence is not all right, many people are still more upright and kind people will not bully others, even if you have no money, people will not bully you, and people will help you, if you meet a bad person, whether you are rich or not, people will bully you, because his character is bad.
You don't have money, you work poorly, you walk down the street in rags, and when others see you, they will habitually stay away from you, don't want to get close to you, don't want to talk to you, don't want to have anything to do with you. That is, no matter where you go, someone will dislike you, but people will not necessarily bully you.
But if you have money, you have a career, you are dressed brightly and walk on the street, then others will think you are so handsome, want to be close to you, want to talk to you, and it is best to have a relationship with you. That is, no matter where you go, you are welcomed by others.
That's the difference between having money and not having money. Therefore, if a person has no money, he will be bullied. If a person is poor, he will be inferior. This is a reality, a fact, a social phenomenon, a very common thing. You have to admit it, and if you don't recognize it, you still have to recognize it.
You see, if you go to the store to buy clothes, the first thing the employees look at you is to look you up and down, to see how you are dressing, to see if you are rich. If you think so, then you will be treated with all kinds of respect and good voices. If you don't, your attitude is cut in half.
People don't want to receive you, you can see for yourself, whether you like to buy it or not. You can't afford it anyway, it's almost there, just take a look and go. This is the reality of this society, the more capable and capable you are, the more respected you are. But if you don't have anything—
No one else will respect you, and may even despise you and look down on you. You see, aren't there many people who look down on migrant workers, seeing migrant workers in tatters, a poor and sour look, disgusted when they see it, and upset when they see it, this is the reality.
Of course, there is no meaning to look down on anyone here, it is just a matter of facts. If a person has no money, he will be bullied, and you see how many places do not allow migrant workers to enter. If a person is poor, he is inferior, and you see how many people will respect the poor.
Not at all, most people do. They all like to be rich and want to make friends with rich people. And not with a poor man. Especially in the relationship between men and women, if a man has no money, it will be over, and it is difficult for a woman to like it in this life.
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Today's society is realistic, whether you are bullied or not, has a lot to do with whether you have money, if you don't have money and nothing, you will be easily bullied, but if you have money and status, others will not only not bully you, but also will curry favor with you, this is the cruel social reality.
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Yes, there will definitely be people bullying you in today's society, because now there is money and no money, it is definitely different, and when you have no money, there will definitely be people who are willing to bully you.
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Today's society. Being bullied is, of course, related to being rich. Today's society is very realistic. If you have money, you generally don't dare to bully. If you don't have money, you're generally bullied.
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It doesn't matter, it still has a lot to do with people's conduct, do your best, and always strive to improve yourself The person is the richest person, always worried about whether he will be bullied and hinder his mental progress, think more about who you will admire, learn from their qualities and abilities. FYI.
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I think that in today's society being not bullied and is there no money that is, huh? It doesn't matter much, but it's a little bit uh-huh, as long as you're self-reliant and self-respecting. Then no one will bully you.
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What you said is just the opposite, it still has a little relationship, when you have money, you must have a certain amount of power, so no one dares to bully you.
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I think it has something to do with whether you have money or not? If you are very rich, then when others bully you, you can use the money to settle all these things.
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Whether you will be bullied or not has something to do with whether you have money or not, we think this must still have a certain relationship, but we can't completely say that we will have a township with him.
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Looking at character, money is indeed important, and character is even more important.
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Society is a stage, everyone is playing their own role, some people are playing the rich, some people are playing the poor, the roles are different, it's as simple as that. It's not the key to the problem that others can afford to look down on you, the key is whether you can afford yourself in your heart.
Wish. So to speak.
Yes. I believe it, because I don't have any money.
This society is indeed like this, especially acquaintances.
If you don't have money, you won't be looked down upon, and if you don't have money and no ambition, you'll be looked down upon.
It is understandable that rich people have a wide social circle, but the circle of friends is not about the size, and people are lucky to have a few friends who really get along with each other in their lives. Rich people have many "friends", which is their luck and misfortune. Fortunately, there is a relatively wider way to do things; Unfortunately, most of them are not heart-to-face, and it is inevitable that there will be annoying times.
Whether you have money or not, be honest with the people around you, and distinguish those who can share the suffering, and each of those people will have a great fortune in their own life.
Finally, I wish LZ a lot of friends to make friends with
Yes, only money is king in the world, money can control everything, can control a country.
Is Bill Gates the richest? Wrong, those big and small families hidden in unknown places abroad, they are the manipulators, they have trillions, tens of trillions of dollars in assets, and they will even assassinate ** and the whole family at a critical moment.
In this society, I personally believe that by the mind, by the hands, as long as you use your brains, use your hands. Enough to imagine, enough to create, then give yourself a limit, the rules of life. Then it's perfect, don't care if others look down on you or not, just care about your goals and the people you care about.
Sometimes kindness can be sent.
Money is generated in social production.
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