Reality is not interesting, and it is boring to be alive 50

1……I always tell people that I am a human being living in the dimension. I just like the two-dimensional very much, sometimes I hate reality to the extreme, and I spend my days every day, and I feel that there is nothing to love in life. And you are not understood and recognized by most people, and even your relatives will alienate you.

Every day like the walking dead, there are many words of comfort and encouragement, but as you can imagine, it must be useless. I'm trying to find another faith now! I like a writer, I love it deeply, and I try to deceive myself, that's my belief, but I know the truth or something.

They all say that there will be a lover waiting for you. I confessed that I couldn't wait, that no one in the life around me understood me, and everyone advised me to be sober and forced me to do what they thought was right. I'm annoyed, I've thought about leaving this world, but I'm too timid to do it.

Especially that time, I was scared by the sharp pain. You might laugh at me for being afraid of death, but that's what I am. So, I'm looking for another faith.

My current idea is to try to learn how to draw, and I want to be a cartoonist and create a world of my own. So what = =. Let's continue to sprout the second dimension!

Life itself is a kind of fun, since you were born in this world, then, you must have your value, the reality is not cruel, it just depends on your own thoughts, as long as you savor it, you will find that there are many surprises waiting for you in life, even if it is hatred, sadness and complaint, sorrow, pity and pity, gradually to discover, you will eventually understand, that is worthy of your yearning and pursuit.

Don't think of yourself too seriously, you are an ordinary person, you also have to live an ordinary life, you can't save the world like a two-dimensional character, and it is impossible to escape the real world, it's better to let yourself find out what you have in common with the two-dimensional in this one-dimensional world. You may be able to find a friend who is as lewd and cute as Gintoki, and you can also role-play Luffy by yourself while studying and working, fighting monsters along the way. Seriously, the world is boring, and you're going to have fun on your own.

Feel the same way, it's grinding! But there is a good saying that "it is better to die than to live", and I will see when this dead God grinds me to death.

In fact, I'm the same as you, and even once I got up too late, and my first thought after waking up was to go back in time in a Doraemon time machine, but, after all, that's a fantasy, whether you, me or him, have your own family and happiness, so don't give up your happiness for a fantasy.

Can you give me your QQ, I think I have something in common with you, from the bottom of my heart, I've thought about these too, and no one around me thinks the same.

Truth be told, you're probably just too idle.

Reality is money, and the economic base determines the superstructure, all of which you have to understand with your heart.

When I was young, I looked forward to growing up quickly, and I often imagined myself "wearing a suit, wearing a tie, and writing a hairstyle like an adult"; When I grew up, I longed for time to be reversed, and often recalled the childhood anecdote "peeing and mud". The process of learning to speak from a young child to the age of standing is to live.

To live for the sake of living is to live for the ideal, to live for the realization of the value of life, and not simply to understand "living for yourself". Living for something other than living may satisfy oneself or make one's life tiring.

There will be a thousand definitions of "living" in the hearts of a thousand people, so what are we living for?

During the summer vacation of my sophomore year, while chatting with my mother, I suddenly said, "Mom, it's so boring to live", and in an instant, my mother's face began to become solemn and turned into worry.

Seeing the change in my mother's face, I suddenly realized if I had said something wrong. immediately explained to his mother, "Life is so colorful, I am so nostalgic for the mortal world, how can I have suicidal thoughts." ”

Even so, it couldn't dispel my mother's worries, and after that, she asked from time to time, "Baby, are you having fun?" Recently, there is nothing to worry about. ”

To this day, I am still living a good life, and I have no thoughts of suicide. For a person who is afraid of death and nostalgic for the prosperity of the world, suicide should be something that he can't think of.

For my parents' generation, the level of knowledge and culture limits their thinking about life, and when I think of their journey of starting a family, raising children, and taking care of their children and grandchildren, I often think, "Do people live to pass on their ancestors?"

Different people have different ways of living, different trajectories of living, and different weights of living. You can choose to live for yourself, you can choose to live for others, or you can choose to live for humanity. The weight of the final life is different depending on the choice.

So, how am I going to live?

Seeing the poor life of children in mountainous areas, seeing the current situation of the elderly and having no one to rely on, and seeing the eyes of the disabled people who are ignored ......Inexplicable sadness in my heart. As human beings, everyone has the right to enjoy a better life.

In today's era when the material life is becoming more and more abundant, they are always hidden in the snow, looking at others from afar, and never getting out of the corner shrouded in darkness.

Everyone is equal, and doing our part for them is also living for the sake of living.

Man is alive for:

In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's hard to live.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

It's because life is the way it is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

I also feel like I'm bored alive. Waste air alive. Dead occupy the land.

I've been struggling with this question for a long time. I think. It should be because none of us know what we are pursuing in life.

There is no goal. There is no ideal. There is no motivation.

I don't want to do anything. Just staring at the sky in a daze all day long. If you don't want to be bored.

Then set yourself a goal and set an ideal. Big or small. That's at least what you've tried to do.

When you give everything to make it happen. You'll have a great sense of accomplishment. When you look back, you will not be ashamed of your inaction, and you will not regret that you wasted your time.

There are no more than three reasons:

One is thinking too much. It is because people think too much, have too much free time, and do not find what they like to do, so they will think crankily and feel that life is boring.

The second is that there is too little experience. Life experience is shallow, so I haven't discovered or found a career or hobby that I am interested in for the time being. In this case, just go out and walk more, make more friends and experience more, don't think quietly alone, the more you think about it, the more Hail Pei thinks about it, the more chaotic it becomes.

The third is that I read too few books and talk about it. If you really have free time, then read a lot of books, because books can give you more perspectives on the world, you can communicate with other thinkers, and they can help you find what interests you. So reading consistently is something that is meaningful for life.

Do something happy Life is like a relay race There is no smooth sailing The road is not smooth The road ahead of you is very rough and bumpy You have to have confidence in yourself Everything will pass Come on Let's work together In fact, I just want to tell you that life is our most basic thing And the ** of life is our own If you don't pay attention to this problem, maybe your life will be very bad So life, love, career, friendship If you want to get it You have to keep a good attitude To live a sound and colorful life is very wonderful To live your perfect life Do you understand The ** of life is yourself Take advantage of the current life I think you will be very happy May a good person have a safe life You can do something you like to enrich your own life and ah Maintain a good attitude every day Be happy and happy The mood is better than anything I think ah The model is matched It is difficult for you to be unhappy For example, listen to ** Watch TV series Eat your favorite food Read comics Watch movies Play games Run and run games Playing mahjong Read** Go out shopping, chat with friends, sleep, travel, do housework, I think it's all good, in short, do whatever you want, just be happy, ah, hehe, I wish you a happy life, a happy life, forever carefree, happy and safe.

If you have nothing to do, you won't be bored if you have something to do, and if you have nothing to do, find something to do. Or maybe there is something I don't want to do, and I don't want to do it.

Being alive --- is the process from birth to death. The living subject is ourselves, and in the process we can enjoy different states: depressed, numb, warm, active, dazed, false, bland, real.

Enjoying these states is our life, and we can use different emotional experiences to complete the process of being alive.

As long as we have feelings, there is meaning in living, and the meaning of it is that we have experienced the process. No matter what kind of life goal you have, you are completing a life experience. If you don't have a clear goal in life, you are fulfilling another life experience.

No matter what kind of life experience it is, its uninterrupted nature is our life.

Our lives can change from one state to another, and this is what gives us a taste of different lives. Then, any state actually has its process and continuity. Its procedural nature lies in the fact that it will have a period of time in which we will enjoy pain, happiness, blandness, and fulfillment.

Its continuity can be compared to the inertia in physics, although the state has changed, but it still has a certain effect, just like the waves in the sea, although the surface is calm after it disappears, but the power is still there, and it will still make waves when it hits the reef

If we understand the concept of living, we will find that no matter what kind of way of life, it will become the past, and all that remains is the memory of our life experience in our hearts If we trap ourselves in this process, we become servants of the process, passive joy, passive worry, helplessness, excitement, excitement, and confusion.

Perhaps, we should look at this process with a transcendent eye, because only transcendence can turn the illusory into the real and the numbness into the full. Only in this way will we become the masters of the process and enjoy every state of life with an active mindset.

If we can understand the above content and take the initiative to adjust our mentality and concepts, we will find that life is full of sunshine. When we discover the sunshine, our hearts are no longer empty, but full and happy.