A friend who has been in a relationship came in to help me analyze what happened to my girlfriend

I'm a girl, but if I say something cruel, I think she wants to break up with you, but I don't know what to do? She doesn't want to send messages to you often after work, if she says something once or twice, and she is busy, she still talks about the past, but it is impossible for her to be busy as soon as you ask her out? That's too much to say......Seeing your narrative, I wonder if she regrets giving it to you the first time.

A girl, she may have really liked you before, but women are very fickle, she likes it one second, maybe she is a little bored the next second, she may think it is not worth it, and there is a problem with the woman's own temperament.

After she works, she excludes you from her life, and the place of work doesn't tell you, doesn't let you send or pick you up, makes people feel that her life doesn't have you, separated, and then she will be indifferent. What woman doesn't want her boyfriend to be nice to her? She didn't.

But after all, she liked you before, maybe she couldn't bear to hurt you, and she couldn't talk about it, and she would be like this; It may also be that when you like someone else, but you don't know what to do with you, making you feel disgusted and indifferent for a long time, you will choose to break up, then she may not feel guilty......

It's just my one-sided words, it's okay to listen to it, it's up to your own heart to decide, spread out and talk to her, don't drag, so that you will also be hurt, she will be sad, it's useless, what you want is the truth.

You can be sentenced to death.

It doesn't have to be someone else, but it's a possibility.

So Ra you just ask her why.

If she doesn't want to be together, you just give up.

It's useless to talk too much, she's already annoyed, so you just don't want to have a long pain than a short one. Let's find another one. Forget about her.

She doesn't want to continue with you... The performance is already so obvious. If a girl doesn't like it, she doesn't like it, and if she doesn't want it, she will refuse, so be mentally prepared, sooner or later she will break up.

I gave you the first time after a month of dating, think about such a woman is definitely not a good wife and mother, if you want to find a good wife, I suggest you still don't look for this kind of woman, if you just want to have fun, since she has this attitude, you don't have to entangle every day, if you have to play, you have to play, if you don't have to play, bye, I think if she really loves you, she must miss you very much if she can't see you for 3 days, or she has another man, or her work is not very legitimate.

If you're telling the truth, I'm sure she's not a good woman.

Don't be afraid, she'll give it all to you.

Girls sometimes have tempers.

Everyone has privacy, so don't give you the QQ password.

You should work hard, care for her more, and don't always ask to sleep with her.

She wants you to take the initiative with you.

I think "Rice Propose" is very right, your girlfriend may have someone else, waiting for you to speak. I have also seen people who no longer work in the original unit at all, and still use the banner of the original unit to work overtime, go on business trips, and are not allowed to pick up and leave work, and are not allowed to be sent home, and finally have a showdown with the man and the woman herself for a month. Dude, haven't you even figured out where her home is and where she works for so long?

Just put it down.

I guess I met another man at work. Maybe you're upset when I say that, but I'm a person who has an intuition. Now there's a question of whether she gave you the first time she was conscious, whether it was because she drank too much, or for some other reason.

As for QQ, the mobile phone, if you don't want to see it, there must be a secret. You don't have the demeanor of a man, hard to look at or peek. You can talk to her, talk to her, and see what she thinks about you.

I think you should have the answer after talking about it, don't deceive yourself, men's intuition is also very accurate. If she really doesn't love you anymore, let her go.

Chastity: In this day and age, people don't care very much anymore.

Find a time when everyone is in a good mood and communicate openly with each other.

What you said, I think there must be a problem between you.

As for what happened to your girlfriend after she went to work, no one knows.

That's just for you to figure out why she's cold to you now.

Well, I'm a girl, and I think first of all, she gave you the first time, proving that she loves you. Willing to pay for you.

The recent performance is a bit strange, let's talk about her first, maybe maybe maybe I'm afraid she has a new suitor, and it's good, she's very hesitant and wandering, so she's hiding and avoiding you.

But she also lets you touch (no matter what she says, or upset), so as a girl, I think she at least hasn't given up on you in her heart. It's just that it's really a little embarrassing.,Pimple.。。

Don't ask her to look at her QQ, her phone. If you love her, you will believe in her. It doesn't matter what happened to her. Don't bother with her privacy like that.

As her first time. You love her too. You should give her space. Give her time to think. Because your girl is very good, it is natural to understand that there are people who chase her.

Give her the tenderest care.

The desire for family.

Express your love for her.

Just care about her and tell her you're waiting for her.

If she loves you, she knows how to cherish it. Then you will have a good result.

It's not that you're being stingy.

It's your girlfriend who has someone else.

Don't look at what I'm saying.

But that's the case with me.

I'm not at work right now.

But I don't want to message her all the time or something.

I said I was at work and busy.

Not really. You can send ** messages with others.

But not with her.

Because I'm annoyed.

The same goes for your girlfriend.

It's just annoying you.

But she was still embarrassed to say that she broke up.

So it's tormenting you like that.

Waiting for you to say.

You're not cranky.

The truth is cruel.

Don't listen to her one-sided words anymore.

You said you wanted to find out something.

She's already annoying you.

She's got it all to say.

Don't you understand?

Put it down? It's not so easy to say just put it down.

It's easy to say, what to do and find something to do.

Deal with another one or something.

At that time, who was still in the mood to be able to do things.

In short, this is the case.

Your girlfriend is so clear.

Don't lie to yourself.

If you want to divide it, you have to be ready to be decadent for a while.

It's good if it's been a long time.

Time will dilute everything.

She doesn't love you anymore, there are others, you let it go, ask if you understand, let it go. That's it.

Let me tell you clearly, you don't have a show, she doesn't like you.

In fact, you should accompany her when she goes home! In this way, the relationship can be deepened.

Some people mind very much, afraid that the other party's past has no past, afraid that the ex will cry and the current will lose, and some people don't care, and if they don't participate in the first half of the other party's life, they will try to be the rest of their lives.

In fact, if you care too much about the other party's past, or even linger on it, it will only estranged the current relationship and eat away at each other's trust, and in the end it must be a parting of ways, and it really doesn't make sense to punish the present with the past. The past is in the past, there is no way to erase it, and there is no way to change it, and what we can do is to cherish the present and join hands in the future.

Anyone has a past experience, and if you want to say that you don't mind at all, it's a lie, how to say it, if you really care about the other person, you will still let go of the past. After all, the present and the future are more important. In fact, everyone has some kind of experience, whether it is good or bad, those unforgettable will still leave traces in their hearts after all.

Since two people can be together, they should let go of the past. In the face of the present and the future in the future, those past things have passed, we don't have to deliberately forget those memories, it's good to be plain, it's good to be happy. What many people mind is not whether the object has been in love before, but whether he has really let go of that relationship and sincerely live the current life.

The things that went before, the days before are an integral part of a person. Perhaps it is precisely because of his experiences that he has created a different person now, which has made him enter our eyes and hearts among thousands of people, entangled in the past, it is meaningless, the important thing is the present. As long as the new and wholehearted investment in the present relationship is enough.

Love is an infinite longing for everyone, and being able to join hands with your first love is of course the result that everyone wants.

But there is also a lot of love, which can't go to the end, and has to break up for some reasons.

Life has to go on, and the wounds of falling out of love will slowly heal over time, so who doesn't have a few romances in their life, these are all normal.

Who doesn't have the past, but some people don't mind the other half's past, the past is the past, and the most important thing is the present, and some people don't mind the other half of the past very much.

Everyone has to go back, and there is nothing unusual, if you have the other half who doesn't want to say that you don't mind your other half, the general situation should not care or have no future planning, the other half has a past is not terrible, what is terrible is that she is immersed in the "glory" of the past A other half who will change for you is worthy of your love, a willing to change for you and share the same ups and downs The other half is worth your love and stay with each other for a lifetime, cherish it when you meet, don't care too much about the other half's past, This will only give you one more stumbling block on the road to love.

Regardless of the past.

Some men, when they first fall in love with a woman, will wonder how many times their girlfriends have been in love and how many men they have experienced. As a matter of fact, living in 2023 today, which is already a modern society, it is very undesirable to continue to look at this issue with old concepts and old eyes. No woman is 100% sure that the man she fell in love with will be her life partner for decades to come.

Therefore, some men are confused by how many times their girlfriends have talked about love, and they have to find an opportunity to ask for a clear question, which is very immature.

You must know that a woman is more sensitive, and perhaps she was hurt in the previous relationship and is reluctant to mention it, and it is very easy for the man to ask about the details, or even to get to the bottom of it, which can easily arouse resentment from the other party. How do you think she can answer this question? Because you care so much, if she tells you the truth, it will only increase your annoyance.

So a wise woman will tell you: I have been in love once before you, but I am in love with you for the last.

Only by ignoring the past and looking at the future can we deepen this feeling.

Be honest with each other.

Therefore, at the beginning of a relationship, both men and women should be honest and sincere, and should not avoid their own shortcomings, so that it is easier for them to understand each other and to run in before marriage.

Don't have skin-to-skin kisses too soon.

When the love is strong, the flowers bloom spontaneously. Men and women have reached a certain stage of love and are eager to have more. However, it is not necessarily a good thing for this to happen too soon.

Sometimes men are strange animals that have brain circuits that are so strange that they wonder if the other party is too casual and behaves when they get it.

Therefore, women themselves should have a good grip on their own so as not to suffer a big loss in the end.

Male friends should also remember that respecting each other is also the same as respecting oneself. A man who is restrained and patient is more likely to make a woman feel reliable and go with the flow, isn't it?

Maintain each other's good demeanor.

In love, there will inevitably be misunderstandings, quarrels, and awkwardness between lovers, and as a man, we should take the initiative and be generous, and coax and coax women to be happy. As a woman, you should also know how to take advantage of the steps to go downhill, and when the other party sincerely apologizes, you should accept it leniently, and do not hold the other party for too long, otherwise, you will really lose the other party.

The most taboo thing in love is to scold each other, tear their faces, and expose each other's scars and shortcomings when they quarrel. In the end, it will inevitably cast a shadow in the other party's heart, and it is very easy to break up and lose the other party.

Let the past pass, girls love you, don't think nonsense.

Relationship history is a part of everyone's existence, but sometimes we may feel mindful or upset. When dealing with this situation, you can consider the following approaches:

1.Self-reflection: First, reflect deeply on why you would mind your girlfriend's relationship history. Is it because of your own insecurities or jealousy? Knowing your emotional roots can help you better deal with this feeling.

2.Communicate openly and discreetly: Be open and honest with your girlfriend about your feelings, but avoid accusations or attacks. Share your feelings and ask her if she would be willing to talk about her relationship history.

3.Accept the past: Accept that the past cannot be changed, but you can control your attitudes and behaviors. Learn to let go of the past and focus on the present and the future.

4.Trust Building: Building mutual trust is the foundation of a strong relationship. Trust that your girlfriend will be loyal and sincere to you, and that her past does not affect her feelings for you.

5.Stay confident: Stick to your values and self-confidence and don't put yourself down because of her past. Your worth does not depend on someone else's past or choices.

6.Enhance your relationship: Enhance your relationship through getting along and communicating. Create wonderful memories and experiences together to strengthen your relationship.

7.Seek support: If your feelings continue to bother you, you may need to seek support from a professional counsellor to help you deal with emotional confusion and challenges.

Most importantly, build healthy communication and trust, respect each other's past, and focus on building a strong, supportive, and respectful relationship.