If you want to find a girlfriend, you should live together for a while and then get married

This is risky and irresponsible. If you feel okay after living together for a while, it doesn't matter if you get married in the end. But if you don't feel well, how do you end it at this time, especially the woman, how will you face your new boyfriend in the future?

Therefore, the decision to oppose premarital sex, especially cohabitation, is particularly and specifically opposed.

You're an irresponsible bad guy !!

Marriage is a formality, the key depends on what your starting point is for cohabitation, and it is wrong to use cohabitation to determine the elements of marriage

Disagree. Will your words be broken up by two people? So, where do you put the girl you live with? Of little consequence? From this, you can see that you are selfish (sorry, I may have said too much).

However, you are absolutely wrong in this way.

If you're a serious responsible man, you shouldn't do that.

This is a very irresponsible performance.

It's not bad to say good, for you, it's definitely good, because that's your happiness, be careful, if you're not suitable, it doesn't make sense to get married, but it's a bit cruel to do so, maybe you'll make a girl very sad, and when it's serious, you'll ruin her life, even her life, maybe your life, be careful not to be too immoral.

If you want to get married, it's not good to live together first and then look at it. An originally good relationship and a good partner may come to naught because of cohabitation. I think this kind of behavior is risky.

I don't think it's responsible

Since you want to live together, you have to find someone who decides to get married.

How to say it, maybe it's okay if you think it's good, and other people's opinions may not be too important, hehe.

It feels okay and can be overdone, but remember that conflicts are frequent, quarrels are inevitable, and both parties must know how to be tolerant and understanding.

First of all, you have to judge whether you really love another girl and live to death, you can't live without her, or you just think she's pretty good, have a good impression of her, and like her a little. You have to distinguish between appreciation and liking. Can you guarantee that you'll be with another girl for a long time after you're with her?

Wouldn't you like another girl again?

If you like both girls at the same time, you must give up on the latter girl, because the current girlfriend has already lived with you, and you have a relationship foundation.

Therefore, if you want to make a decision, you still have to recognize how you treat the relationship between two girls, if you have no relationship with your current girlfriend, even if you don't like another girl, you should give up this relationship, if you still have a relationship with your current girlfriend, then you shouldn't do the thing of stepping on two boats, you should manage your relationship well.

Case: I talked with my girlfriend in college, I am still in school, I have lived with my girlfriend, in fact, I was introduced by a friend with her, and then naturally we were together, we are in a different place, his parents don't want her to marry far away, and my family does not allow my son-in-law to go over. Now I met a girl at home, we are elementary school classmates, we talked very much, I feel very good, I think she is very good!

Recently, a friend encountered such a problem, and when he already had a girlfriend, he met someone he liked more. On the one hand, there is a past that can't be let go, and on the other hand, there are two traction hearts, how to make a choice? This problem may be encountered in the life of many men, many people choose their current girlfriend, some choose the person they like more, if it is you, how do you make a choice?

If from a rational point of view, how to make trade-offs is mainly based on the stage of life, if you have just entered college, then the trade-off is very simple, pursue the person you like, the road ahead is still very long, if you have feelings for other people at this time, it proves that the relationship between you and your current girlfriend is not so deep. Choosing someone you like now is the best choice for yourself and for others.

If you have reached the age of marriage, and the girl and you have been together for a long time, it is best to collect your thoughts at this time, after all, you have been with your current girlfriend for so long. Of course, if you are emotionally oriented, then the choice is easier, but no matter what choice you make, it will always hurt the other person.

LZ also has a history of love, but you can let it go, and love the one in front of you intently, and your girlfriend is missing, and you are still thinking about your ex, if I were LZ, I wouldn't continue.

Then you don't know why you are critical of others, she misses her ex-boyfriend can only show that she values affection, if you are good enough, she will naturally forget her ex-boyfriend. Since she decided to be with you, it means that no matter what, even if she still loves her ex-boyfriend, they can't be after all. So you have to give her time, who hasn't been unforgettable in her youth.

Will you be able to completely forget about your former girlfriend? , it's all hidden, and everyone doesn't say it. If she cares about you, she must know how to empathize.

Haven't you been with other women, how do you know she hasn't minded? Or is it because you've been bothering yourself and haven't thought about her feelings? Besides, it was before, and it's normal to be a little unable to let go, but since she chose you, and then handed herself over to you again without fear of harm, it proves that she has your place in her heart.

The love between two people is not to look at the before but to look at the future, and the future is very long.

Have a good talk to your girlfriend. You all have a pimple in your heart, and life will not be better after marriage.

It's normal to live together in society now, and she's not your first woman, as long as you treat her with your heart, and she doesn't do anything to be sorry for you after being with you, I don't think it's okay.

You don't even want to ask her yes, who hasn't been in the past, the key is that if you like her, it's good, don't doubt too much, that will ruin the relationship.

Can anyone help you with an idea? Who can be trusted? Follow your feelings......

My wife and her ex-boyfriend have had a love life for 5 years, and then I pried it and died! The charm of a man lies in self-confidence, which is ruined by low self-esteem.

First of all, review it to see if you are doing something wrong.

2. Can you be sure she's married?

3. If she is already married, then you can ask her why.

4. If you weren't too bad, if she didn't get married out of other pressures such as family, but got married consensually, I can only say that she is a little watery.

5. If she is really married, you don't have to think about it anymore.

Live your life well, pursue and cherish the love and happiness that truly belongs to you. Maybe it's a moment of anger, maybe it's hoping that you keep her, if she is really married, she may not be happy in the future, if you like it, you can get it back, if you don't love her, forget it It means that your feelings are not deep.

If you can't have hardships, if you don't, don't want this kind of person.

Maybe it's a moment of anger, maybe it's hoping that you will keep her, if she is really married, she may not be happy in the future, if you like it, you can redeem it, if you don't love her, forget it.

It is estimated that it is arranged by the family, otherwise how can it be difficult to get along with others so quickly?

Don't think about that girl, think about yourself first. Most of the reasons for cohabitation and quarrels are due to money, and making good money is fundamental.

If you want to be dignified

Just leave. du。In love, you look at the difference in what you value, you care about the spirit, and she cares about the essence of things. Although the material is the foundation, the spirit is also indispensable.

Personally, I think that your girlfriend has almost never paid, and you have always been giving, even if you have a house and a car, you can't satisfy her.

Some of her behaviors are really very unqualified, half of them are herself, and half of them are what you are used to.

She has had 4-6 boyfriends, all of them failed, what is the reason, think about it.

She didn't have a good time with the poor, and she didn't have a good time with the rich.

If you really love her, you have to think about it: the pain of the rest of your life, the sorrow of the hellish days, whether you can bear it for the rest of your life. Maybe you can bear it for a lifetime, but she doesn't want to bear it for half her life, and she leaves you in the same way.

With your conditions, if you meet a good girl, you can meet a woman who cherishes you again.

Let's get married, make her belly bigger, and then give birth to a child, and finally look at the situation, if there is an improvement, forget it, if not, divorce, and give the child to her.

No matter what she does, you are used to it, and since you have the ability to manage her as this kind of person, then you must have the ability to accept it.

Do you have to be willful on occasions, and you can't go to the house to uncover the tiles in the future.

The landlord is writing **, this story is still good if you refine it a little more.

In general, love goes through the following four stages:

The first stage: the coexistence of branches and cavities.

This fierce shirt is a period of love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want to do, and then the other party will feel covered.

The cold shoulder. The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) other person (she) has become your (your) closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.

The second and third phases will be shortened.

It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily.

The two got together because of fate, and they knew each other because they had a heart, and they really had to cherish the blessing of the hall, not to say that the breakup was not for no reason.