Examples of famous deeds about empathy 30

The story of Clinton, a famous American entrepreneur.

The United States experienced a Great Depression in which 90 percent of small and medium-sized businesses went bankrupt, and a gear factory named Clinton nearly went bankrupt. Clinton was a very sincere person, generous, generous, considerate, made many friends, and maintained good relations with his clients.

At this difficult time, Clinton wanted to find those friends and old customers to come up with ideas and help, so he wrote a lot of letters. However, when the letter was written, he suddenly realized that he could not even afford stamps. Clinton thought that if he couldn't afford stamps, then others would certainly not be willing to spend money to buy stamps to reply to him, and then he would not be able to get help.

So Clinton sold his belongings, bought a lot of stamps, and when he sent a letter to a friend, he also attached two dollars in his heart as the stamp money for the reply, so that he received many replies from his friends, and his friends and customers were shocked when they received the letter, because the price of two dollars was far more than the price of a stamp.

Everyone was moved, and they recalled Clinton's various benefits and acts of kindness. After that, Clinton received orders, and some friends wrote that they wanted to invest in him and do something together. Clinton's business soon picked up.

In this economic depression, he is one of the few entrepreneurs who has stood and made a difference.

In interpersonal communication, "comparing the heart with the heart" and putting yourself in the shoes of others has become the "golden rule" for people to deal with interpersonal relationships. The specific manifestation of "comparing hearts to hearts" is: when there is friction and misunderstanding with others, you can stand in the position of others, put yourself in the shoes of others, and not blindly blame and blame others.

In this case, others will also put themselves in your shoes, so that the contradictions or misunderstandings between the two parties can be resolved, so that people can deepen their feelings and enhance friendship in mutual understanding.

Examples of empathetic celebrities:

1, Ye Shengtao.

Mr. Ye Shengtao thought about giving an example when educating his children to be more blind for others: A father asked his son to hand him a pen, and the son handed it over casually, not wanting to hand over the pen to his father.

The father said to his son, "Give something to someone, think about whether it is convenient for them to receive it." You hand the pen over, and they will pour it up, and if you don't have a cap, you will have to get someone else's ink.

This is especially true for items such as knives and scissors, and the tip of the knife should never be pointed at others. ”

2. Sam Walton.

The United States experienced a Great Depression in which 90 percent of small and medium-sized businesses went bankrupt, as did a gear factory owned by Sam Walton. So Clinton sold his belongings, bought a lot of stamps, and when he sent a letter to a friend, he also attached two dollars in his heart as stamp money for the reply.

Everyone was touched, and they reflected on Sam Walton's good deeds and good deeds. After that, Sam Walton received a lot of orders, and some friends wrote that they wanted to invest in him and do something together, and Sam Walton's business soon improved.

1. Empathy in life, cherish what you deserve.

A pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral by the shepherds. One day, the shepherd took the pig out of the corral, only to hear the pig cry loudly and violently resisted.

The sheep and the cows hated its cry, so they said, "We have often been caught by the shepherds, and none of them have screamed like you." ”

The pig responded: "Catching you and catching me are completely different things, he catches you only to divide your hair and milk, but to catch me is to kill me!" ”

We all have our own lives, and we all have our own sufferings. Different positions and different environments are also different, so few people can empathize with their own understanding, let alone empathize.

Leo Tolstoy said: "You are not me, how do you know the path I have walked, the pain and joy in my heart." ”

Life is not easy, and at this time, it is necessary to compare the heart with the heart and empathize, which is the most appropriate way to live.

Empathy in life, cherish what you deserve.

2. Thinking empathy, understanding is the only way to know gratitude.

A man invited a blind friend to dinner and ate late. The blind man said, "It's getting late, I'm going back."

So the master lit a lantern for him, and he was very angry and said, "I can't see it in the first place, and you give me a lantern, isn't that mocking me?" ”

The master said, "I'm worried about you and I'm going to light a lantern for you." You can't see it, others can see it, so that no one will bump into you when you walk in the night. ”

The same thing. Every thing, if you look at it from a different angle, you will actually have different opinions. Different insights naturally lead to different results.

First, try to understand what others are thinking.

Try to empathize and be more considerate of others. Understand the helplessness of others and be grateful for your luck, maybe you will feel enlightened.

Secondly, if you change your thinking and live in a different way, you may have a different plot.

In the journey of life, unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory things are common, and birth, old age, and death are the laws of nature.

Once you encounter something unhappy, you might as well adjust your mentality and think from a different perspective.

Thinking empathy, understanding is the only way to know gratitude.