My boyfriend always asks me to borrow something...

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, it's not that you're stingy, it's your boyfriend's problem, and the first thing to consider is how long you've been together. Do you know who he is, and does he really love you in his heart? Or is it more about just focusing on material help, and then you can talk to him about what you really think.

    After all, when you are together, you have to be honest with each other. I believe that if he really loves you, he will care a lot about what you think. Then the problem will be solved.

    Finally, I hope you can get true happiness. Don't push yourself too hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's definitely not that you're stingy! It's your boyfriend's problem.

    I think you should first figure out whether he is with you because he really loves you. If you are sure, then you should confess your displeasure to him, tell him that this is wrong, and ask him to correct it. If he has other intentions with you, then for the sake of your own happiness, you should know how to make trade-offs.

    Finally, I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe. Look at him himself, the kind of person who is positive. (Men borrow money from women, not to put their dignity at ease) if not.

    Get rid of it as soon as possible. He's taking advantage of you. Wait until you're done with it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're married, that's normal, if you're not married, it's mostly because he's cheating you out of money, so divide it early if you can, and always feel like he's eating soft rice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let a man like this go as far as he goes. From the description, it seems that you don't have a material life, so why not find someone who is satisfactory to you. If you love him, you tolerate him, but tolerance is not such tolerance.

    After a long time, it is inertia for him to take things from you. He doesn't think he's wrong, he's right

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Such a man, I don't think it's necessary to be together, vanity is too strong, even if the boyfriend and girlfriend have something, especially the valuable private finances, they should not be taken indiscriminately.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't seem to be your fault, the specific situation is not very clear, and it cannot be analyzed specifically, please forgive me.

    If your boyfriend really often uses your money for entertainment, then he is not a good bird, it's like basing your relationship on money, it's not worth it, it's better to divide it.

    When two people are together, the money can be used together, and it can be distributed reasonably, and it is not good to use only unilaterally, and it is even more shameless for boys to use girls' unilaterally.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're not stingy. It's he who makes you feel like you're stingy. Because you're conniving at him, don't forget about this kind of soft rice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you guess right, this guy must be a handsome guy who wants to be sweet, so you can't get tangled up like this. Can this kind of rogue boyfriend make you see hope, just eat soft rice, but this soft rice is too undignified

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you still want to ignore him, don't blame him! Some people beat and some people were beaten voluntarily! If you want to end it, hurry up! Such a man is unacceptable!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Forget it, break it off quickly, it won't come to fruition if it goes on like this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on whether you love him or not. If you really love it, borrow it generously. But also look at him clearly, oh, don't be too blind.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is reciprocal. Fair treatment. You can borrow, you can borrow, you can borrow, but you can repay it in time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's only been a little over a month, isn't it? It's not that you're too stingy, to be honest, and despise such men, although I'm also a man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He's the one you're marrying with. But you can't get used to him too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think you're being stingy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, the man who eats soft rice...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can also make friends with such people......Divide it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Such an unrestrained boyfriend, do you still want it?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You don't know what you said, can you be more detailed?

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