Marital problems are advanced in the relationship between husband and wife

Divorce is not the best option.

But according to what you say.

It seems like you've got this worst-case scenario ready.

It seems that you have thought it through.

First of all, let me tell you that everything is settled in the divorce ?

Your mom is in her forties.

What to do with your life later I still have to take care of you.

Maybe you'll say your mom has a fixed occupation.

The premise is to take care of you.

This only increases her pressure (and maybe even more so with your dad), and you and your mother choose to divorce your dad.

Then respect what you say.

How old is your sister and whether she is an adult.

If she is already an adult.

So who did the court award your sister to.

It doesn't matter anymore.

Adults with normal capacity do not need to be monitored.

As for your case.

Find a seasoned lawyer.

It's a very simple case.

Present all this information to the court as it is.

There are good odds that the court will award you to your mother.

At the same time, your dad has to pay you monthly maintenance expenses.

This situation is very clear.

Trust that your ideas will come to fruition.

Support your parents for divorce, but the court has to decide who you award to, and what will you do if you award it to your father. What should you do with your mother, you have to think about it, my father used to be the same as your father, better than your father, but it turned out to be reconciled.

China's marriage law prohibits domestic violence, your father's behavior is obviously domestic violence, and China's marriage law also stipulates that long-term domestic violence constitutes abuse, you can ask the public security organs to impose administrative penalties on him, that is, to call the police, if it cannot be solved, you can sue for divorce, your mother's condition is more serious, depression is domestic violence caused mental damage, and you can even ask the public security organs to file a case and pursue criminal responsibility, in addition, if the divorce proceedings, It is also possible to claim moral compensation for the damage caused, and in terms of the division of property, it can even go to your mother in its entirety. But be careful to investigate the status of the property and prevent your father from transferring the property. You are a filial child, for the happiness of your mother, you have to tell her to use the law to protect herself, even for the sake of the child, you must live happily, come on, don't give up.

I sympathize with your plight, no one can understand and feel your family situation except yourself, and in my opinion, maybe divorce is the best salvation for you and your parents. First of all, in order to increase the success rate of defection in the court, it is recommended to call 110 every time there is domestic violence or quarrel, so that there will be a record at the police station. If there is an injury on the mother's body, take a picture immediately and go to the hospital to make an appraisal report.

When the material has accumulated about the same, file for divorce with your mother on the grounds that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, and it is impossible to endure domestic violence for a long time and cannot continue the legal married life. The probability of success is very high, as for you, it doesn't matter who you give it to, it's your right to live with whom, even if it's awarded to your father, you accompany your mother every day, who can control you? Don't worry, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and there is no problem that cannot be solved.

Divorce can't solve all the problems, your mother has been like this in the first half of her life, you still have to study hard, have a good job in the future, a good income, let your mother have a few days of peaceful birthday, you must know that you are your mother's future!!

Take your mother with you. After a few months of separation, it seems like an automatic divorce.

I sympathize with you. But you have to learn to be strong

I feel sorry for you and your mom and dad, and if I can, I would like to go to your place to help you and persuade your dad that you can contact me.

You can search online for legal advice that is free and it would be better to ask a lawyer.

I hope you can judge your mother, and I hope you can be happy.

Take your mom directly to the court to sue for divorce, and that's what I did.

I'm also a journalist, and I'm in charge of people's livelihood.

You seem to have a lot of this phenomenon.

The solution I'm giving you is:

Look more at your wife's strengths, even if you don't have any advantages, look for her advantages.

Look at your own shortcomings, find one to kill the other, and stay away from it if you can't do it.

This recipe is very useful, it is estimated that it will be effective in about half a year, believe it or not.

First of all, you should be sure, do you still have to live? Here I will tell you the way I want to live for the time being:

1.You have to adjust your mentality, face the problems in life objectively, and it is the responsibility of every family member to create a good family atmosphere. Everyone has to start with themselves, and when there is a problem, first reflect on whether I have done a good job.

2.You have to change your concept of treating the elderly, be tolerant, understand filial piety, and not blame. Laugh at them, and be grateful to the elderly. It is your duty to be filial to them, and it is not their duty to do housework.

3.You have to have a correct concept, couples should have their own private time, whether they are eighteen or eighty years old, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be cultivated. Don't just know the consumption, the relationship can't withstand the long-term consumption.

4.The first thing you need to do is to clear your mind, find a relaxed environment, and talk to your wife calmly about all the issues, and both parties need to reach a consensus on certain aspects. Some need to be achieved immediately, and some need to be realized over a period of time.

5.You must have a sense of communication with your wife, otherwise there will be problems in your marriage.

I hope you live happily, there is a bottom line for everything, as long as you don't touch the bottom line, there is no need to be serious about anything.

The first understanding: think about the problem from the wife's standpoint, respect her, and don't look down on her.

Clause. 2. Don't ask her for this or that, understand her growth environment and the habits she has formed, and don't try to change her, it will be counterproductive.

Clause. 3. Be clear about her interests and hobbies, train her more, coax her more, like coaxing a child.

Clause. 4. Buy a small gift for the anniversary.

Clause. Fifth, men are really tired, but they should treat tiredness as happiness!

Clause. Sixth, get more TVs at home, don't always compete with her and the elderly, and watch programs with your family if you are interested.

If you still want to continue to live, think more about her good, your parents-in-law are at home, she will definitely talk to her parents more, otherwise your father-in-law and mother-in-law are not more lonely? You also think about what you would do if you were your wife, do you have the confidence to say that you must be better than her? Aren't husbands and wives complementary?

Why do you have to fight to win who is good and who is not, even if you win, will you have a sense of joy when you win?

Seeing the situation in your family is the same as mine, I feel the same way, and I have tried to change it, but it is very difficult.

Hello: Hello, if you sincerely admit your mistake, the woman is still like this, or if you don't hide anything from the problem, I think your wife has changed her mind, and she always uses you to beat her as a reason to divorce you, I think your wife is a little too much.

1. If your wife's heart has not changed, then I think the problem you described is incomplete. When people describe problems, they always ignore their mistakes and shortcomings intentionally or unintentionally, and I don't know if you are the same. So I'm still skeptical about the completeness of the description of the problem.

Maybe you can also calm down and find out if you are ** or not doing enough. For example, did you apologize to your wife after beating her, did you change your wrong behavior in your later life, and did you treat your wife better than before?

2, your wife has changed her mind, this is the worst outcome. Maybe your other party has changed her mind, and you hit her just for an unconvincing reason, if that's the case, I don't think there's any need to redeem it. A change of heart is the scariest thing.

3. In my judgment, I think your wife should not be in the case of 2, it should be that you are not considerate and good enough. Otherwise, your wife can't go out and talk to other men for a drink. So it is recommended that you still be yourself in front of your wife, be better to her, find your own shortcomings and make him sad, and work hard to correct it, this matter cannot be rushed, you have to persevere, and slowly she will understand.

I hope you can live happily ever after, this is a little bit of advice, I hope you can take it.

Hope it helps!