Is a divorced girl generally better with her father or mother?

Updated on parenting 2024-02-09
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better for girls to follow their mothers, if your economic conditions are also quite good, because girls need to learn from their mothers a lot in the process of growing up, I think mothers are more willing to sacrifice more for their children, but what about fathers, many of them will be looking for the next wife, and it is really not very easy to say that stepmothers take care of them; If the woman finds the next one, then the child must also be considered first, because some stepfathers hurt their stepdaughters very badly. It is advisable to follow the mother.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The child is still young, it is better to follow the mother, so that you can take care of it more, and the father will not take care of the child. If you are older, you can choose by your child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Has it really reached the point of no return? 2 people have a good talk, maybe it's okay!

    If it really doesn't work, then let your daughter and her mother, women are more careful? It's better to take care of people!

    Besides, girls are good with their mothers and rely on their mothers!!

    However, it is still necessary to let the child meet his father more often, don't affect the child, the child is innocent!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Girls are generally better with their mothers, with the growth of girls, physical and psychological are gradually sound, and the mother to live, will be more suitable, there are some physiological common sense mother good education and communication.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, it cannot be generalized whether the divorced child is better than the mother or the father, and for the sake of the child, you should endure an unhappy marriage. Because what causes harm to the development of children is actually the emotions of adults and the neglect of children after divorce.

    Therefore, a family that has been in a state of cold war or quarrel for a long time, even if it does not divorce, will still keep the children in constant anxiety and pain, and it is better to have a worse environment than a healthy and happy single-parent family. In fact, the distressing behaviour that children exhibit after their parents' divorce often manifests themselves at the time of the parents' marital problems, and divorce is not a direct factor.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whoever is good to the child is better with whoever is with it, then it is better to be with the conditions than the conditions are better After all, it is better to give the child a better material environment, and it is better not to divorce It is very important for the growth of the child.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    <> if it's a girl, it's better to be with your mom! More importantly, it depends on whether the man or the woman has the conditions and time to take care of the child, and which one is beneficial to the child's growth. After my divorce, custody of my daughter will be mine.

    I took her back to her hometown in Shandong, where her father was still working hard in Guangdong. It is more convenient to go to school in my hometown, and it is more convenient for the girl's mother to take care of it. How can a child's childhood be without a mother?

    I believe that there are kind women in this world, but when their children have conflicts of interest with other women and children, they will still choose to protect the interests of their children. Because it's motherhood. Every child deserves a complete family.

    As parents, you should do your part for this complete family. Not only should they care about themselves, but they should also ignore that child's feelings.

    Because a child's growth is influenced by the environment and the people around him. With people with good personalities and a sense of responsibility, the child's life and growth will be slightly better in the future. Because the child is a blank slate, whoever teaches it is like whom.

    Therefore. When choosing a child, parents try to leave the child to the responsible party. Capable of.

    People of good character. Because of this, the child's later development and behavior will not be worse. Especially girls must be handed over to people with a sense of responsibility.

    People of good character. If you give it to a father or mother who has no sense of responsibility and bad character. Bad things happen to girls.

    Because there are more girls than boys, we need to protect them. Girls should be taught in all aspects. More protected than boys.

    So my parents divorced. Daughters should choose people who are responsible, truly love you, and have a good character. Because not all moms and dads in this world are good people.

    Not all parents are responsible. So, according to the actual situation.

    Divorce can have a very serious impact on a family, especially on children. At least it affects the relationship between the child and the parents, and at worst it affects the rest of their lives. If the child in the family is still very young and it is a girl, it is better to talk to the mother, because girls have menstrual periods when they are teenagers.

    It is very inconvenient for fathers to take with them at this time, and it is also very inconvenient for children to take a bath and change clothes when they are young. If the father is not old enough to find a wife, the girl will have a stepmother. If the stepmother is good to the child, then it's nothing.

    If it is not good for the child, it will leave a deep shadow on the girl.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that if you divorce, it is best for girls to follow their mothers, because girls who are slowly growing up are difficult to explain to their fathers about some physical factors or emotional expressions, and if they follow their mothers, they will make mothers pay more attention to the emotional changes of their children, which also plays a very important role in the children's future psychological growth.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on whether the father or mother loves the child more, whose economic conditions are better, and more importantly, who will not remarry.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's better to be with your mother, who will be more gentle, easier to understand the girl's mind, and more convenient to be with your mother.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can't generalize about who a divorced girl should go with, but I still think that with my mother, most girls are tired of their fathers when they are young (except for patriarchal ones), but they can still talk to their mothers when they are older.

    After all, when girls are older, especially physiological changes, no matter what, women avoid their fathers, and there are many little secrets that they are only willing to tell their mothers, and as a female mother, they are more careful, when girls change physiologically, there will be many changes in psychology, and they need their mother's company more at this time.

    A neighbor's little sister before me was smart, lively and cute since she was a child. But since her parents divorced, her mother left the country, and her life with her father has changed all of a sudden, especially when her father married her stepmother, her stepmother treated her badly, and her father became a "stepfather"! My academic performance plummeted, and I skipped class every day!

    The teacher was also distressed and helpless when he saw it.

    What I'm saying is just some of the ideas I got from the people around me, and I don't represent everyone! What the landlord said is: whether the divorced girl is better with her father or her mother, of course, who has the guarantee for the girl's upbringing, who loves the child more, gets along well with the child, and the daughter is the best.

    To be honest, marriage is not a family, especially if you have children, you can't easily choose to take the last path of divorce, and it's too selfish to leave if you want to. If parents have children in their hearts, they will know the importance of retreating when there is a conflict, and only with tolerance and perseverance can they keep a complete home for their children.

    Speaking of divorce, divorce is the emotional sadness of two adults, in fact, the biggest blow in spirit, and the most innocent is the underage children, they face the divorce of their parents, it is very likely to change their personality, become withdrawn and inferior, and even change the fate of the child, affecting the child's life. Isn't this a fire at the city gate that has affected the fish in the pond?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your question is inexplicable, is it appropriate for a divorced daughter and a single father? What is the meaning? Unclear thinking and misleading the answerer.

    I took a look at the comments and said everything, which is the result of your question's lack of clarity. Actually, you should say that it is appropriate for you to be with a single parent man or your daughter with a single parent man? If so, I think it's okay if you can afford to raise your child, but you can't ignore anyone's child, right?

    You tell me? (Personal opinion).

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no standard answer to this question and it varies from person to person. If the child is very young and cannot leave the mother's care, of course, being good with the mother is conducive to the healthy growth of the child. If the child is older, follow the child's wishes to see who he or she wants to follow.

    In short, divorce is a harm to children, no matter who they are with, there are flaws in their hearts, and the children of single-parent families are miserable. After divorce, try to reduce the harm to the children as much as possible, so that they grow up healthily, no matter who they are with, they should not give up their children, and they should often take time to spend with their children, participate in the process of children's growth, and make them grow up healthily. As long as the parents are responsible and responsible, it is okay to be with that party, and if they are divorced, they are also their own children.

    If you are divorced, don't treat each other as enemies, you have to look at what problems there are in time to deal with them, life is beautiful, full of love is human instinct. Is it a boy or a girl? If you're a girl, try to follow your mother.

    If it's a boy. If you want to be masculine, follow your father. But the main thing is the main thing.

    Who has the money to go with whom? Life is a little better this way. If the divorce is divorced, whether the child is better with the mother or the father, if the child has the ability to discern, then he must listen to the child's opinion, if the child is very young, it must be with the mother, but it depends on whether the mother is willing to raise it.

    If it comes to the point of non-divorce, then both parties must discuss who the child is best with, no matter who the child follows is a kind of harm, the parents can let the child live with themselves if the conditions are good, but also let the child choose who to follow, and the other must give child support until the child can live independently. If the parents divorce, the impact on the child is very great, especially on the child's growth, and it also has a considerable impact on the child's learning. Therefore, if the marriage can be managed well, it is beneficial to the family and the children, so it is impossible to divorce as a parent unless it is absolutely necessary.

    In short, according to their own actual situation. As long as two people have children in their hearts, the children can be loved and cared for. This is also a parental responsibility, and being responsible will be condemned by society.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Divorced, whether the child is better off with his father or his mother, what kind of child does this depend on? If the child is very independent and belongs to a relatively large person, it may be better to live with the father. If the child is very small, then it may be better to live with the mother, of course, the couple will discuss the specific situation.

    If Heaven doesn't do it, your court will make a reasonable decision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, it depends on who the child likes to talk to, and who can provide a safe and stable environment to ask questions, and I have been only one year old and 10 months old.

    That's good for you.

    Question: What does security and stability mean?

    I don't have a job right now.

    Her v dad has a job.

    Life is stable, the place of residence is stable, and safety can ensure that he is not harmed, so what do you raise.

    Ask questions and get ready to go to work.

    It's best not to leave the doll, and live a life that is tolerant of each other, understand each other, and ask questions about each other, but I'm afraid of the economic aspect.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Under normal circumstances, it is better to be with the mother, and then depending on the economic conditions of both parties, in general, the interests of minors should be protected.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The divorce of parents is definitely a big harm to the child, and if the child is too young, it must be safe with the mother. If the child is already older, then listen to the child's choice. Either way, you all love Him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If there is a divorce, the child is better off with the mother. Because the mother is more careful, the father is more careless, if the father takes another woman, the stepmother and the child will be even more difficult to get along, so it must be divorced, and the child must be raised by the mother.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you get divorced, I think that under normal circumstances, no matter who the child is with, it will have a certain influence, the mother may like to nag, and the father may not take care of the child. Especially after remarriage, the impact on the children will be greater. But in comparison, I think it's better to be with my mother.

    There are many examples of this around me.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, if it is not indispensable, it is best for children to be by their parents' side. If it is irretrievable, then the first thing to look at is how old the child is, as well as the parents' respective economic situation, if they are all good, I personally think that the child will be better by the mother's side. After all, women are more careful, while boys are relatively less patient, and boys are not as resistant to pressure as women.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If divorced. Whether the child is better with the mother or the father. It depends on the size of the child.

    Or boys and girls to divide. If it is said. It's a boy and he's older.

    It's better to be with my father, because it's his own home after all. If the child is younger, he should talk to his mother. Because my mother is a little more careful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If divorced. Is the child better with the mother or the father? Families in general.

    Most of the children follow their mothers. But individual cases. It needs to be decided based on reality.

    Children over eight years old. Parents divorced. The court will always seek the child's personal opinion.

    It is up to the child to decide whether he wants to follow his mother or his father.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the child is younger, it is better for the mother to be financially able to do so. If the child is already older and the father's economy is better, it is recommended to talk to the father. But the most important thing is to see who the child wants to follow.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This depends on the situation. If the child's mother is more responsible, then it is better to follow the mother. If the child's father is more responsible, then of course he follows his father.

    Generally, at this time, it depends on the ability of both parties to raise the child and the child's own choice.

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