What does it mean for a girl to refuse first, and then take the initiative to contact after a while

I can say. Unless the woman already likes you.

Otherwise, when you are confessed, you must be the first to refuse, which is a way of self-judgment. (That's basically the case for all women.) If you happen to be lonely and empty, you need a man to comfort you. will directly agree to take a look at it first. ）

First say no, and then think about whether you have that feeling, whether it's possible, and now.

Reaching out means that you have a good impression of you and that you have a chance.

In this case, I'm talking very simply, the first column is that this woman had a bad time after breaking up with her boyfriend, intermittently, how to say it, just say with her ex-boyfriend. can only say that the ex-boyfriend broke up for a while after having an unpleasant quarrel with the two of him, and then at this time, the mood was not good, and she relied on you as her support.

Then it cracked, and her ex-boyfriend got involved with him again. So what can I say about this female column, I can only say that I am stepping on two boats, and I am with you and the two of him at the same time. But it can only be said that from beginning to end, you can only say that it is a transition period for him.

He still focuses on his boyfriend, you are just a kind of loneliness in his body and mind at that time, a kind of dependence on pain, and a kind of venting. Isn't it?

Brother, you haven't understood what I'm saying, I haven't been in contact with this woman myself, because women are not easy, he has his way of life. Since he was unhappy with the first one, he was with you. He had already betrayed his friend once as a wicked man, and now he said goodbye to you and went back to his friend, and this is another betrayal.

So what's the point of repeating it a few times. Isn't it.

In this case, it can be found in your brother. It's nothing more than two points: the first column. You are too emotional, too kind-hearted, so others treat you as a trust or a gun.

Things like this don't matter, look away, don't think too much, thinking too much is equal to zero and equal to water. Because the sun rises every day in the east. I used to be very confused in this one, oops, guarding this and guarding that, but then I thought about it, it was ridiculously ruthless.

It's a very simple story, with money and power, there will be anything.

Then it means that the other party may think carefully that you are actually not bad, so they take the initiative.

1. Girls treat you as a spare tire.

The most obvious point of a girl raising a spare tire is that she will refuse to confess, and when you are about to give up chasing her, she will take the initiative to contact you in a sedan chair, and her psychology at this time is like this: "Oh, I can't bear to raise a spare tire for so long, so it's okay to refuse." Anyway, if I take the initiative to contact him in a few days, he will come over with his ass.

If you follow her path and think you have hope, and run after her, then you will find that she will still reject you and then reach out to you again. Playing her little tricks in a loop.

2. Girls treat you as a friend.

Some girls are more nervous or may be simple, just treat you as a male girlfriend, so they can eat together, watch movies, and give each other gifts. But after you confess to her, she will think that this person is really strange, I just treat him as a friend, and he actually wants to soak me. But maybe the girl thinks you're not bad, so it's okay for you to be an ordinary friend after rejecting you.

Don't think it's impossible for a girl to have the idea of treating you as a friend, some couples can still be friends even after they break up, not to mention that you are not even a couple, and it is not strange to be rejected as friends.

For example, if a girl has refused to make you a burning object for a month, she thinks that you should be over, and she has let go, and still treats you as a friend. It's you, and you have a heart.

In this case, if you don't understand it, then it's much better to talk to the girl than to think about the east and west by yourself.

3. The girl wants you to keep chasing her.

Maybe the boys don't understand, girls will also have their own set of test standards when facing the pursuit of boys, such as testing whether they are willing to spend money for her, how long they can test how long boys can stick to their sincerity, and they will refuse when boys chase themselves, and see if the male pure liquid student will continue. At this time, the girl will think: "What's the matter with this person, he ignored me when he confessed that I failed, don't you know how to insist on it?"

If you still don't contact her, she may try to reach out to you to see if you will continue to chase her, and if you persist in persevering, you can catch her.

Hello, the girl who once rejected you contacted you again, which means that she has no boyfriend recently, she is not too annoying to you, and she feels empty in her heart, so I am looking for you again, I think you have a good impression of her, you may wish to further contact and understand, and give each other a chance to tease each other, if you find that it is really inappropriate to refuse, in fact, it is not too late, it is recommended not to refuse directly for anger.

The girl who once rejected you doesn't contact you, which means that she remembers your good again and misses you.

Girls treat you as an ordinary friend, so it's okay to keep it like that.

In fact, this situation shows that this girl still has you in her heart, and she doesn't want to completely cut off contact with you, so she should cherish it when she meets such a girl.

In love, the woman refuses and then takes the initiative to contact you, hoping that you can give him material things, but she doesn't like you personally.

The first is this girl, she may have liked someone she liked before, but he was rejected, so he will treat you as a spare tire, or he will remember to contact you.

One is that the most obvious point of a female birth spare tire is that the confession will refuse, and when you are about to give up chasing her, she will take the initiative to contact you, and the second is that some girls are more nervous than big or may be simple, just treat you as a male girlfriend, so they can eat and watch movies together and give gifts to each other.

There is no need to continue contacting, which means that this girl is a very unreliable girl, and it is very likely that she will use you as a spare tire.

When the time comes, it is a rejection of your meaning.

We introduce products to customers, and some customers will politely say after listening to Liang Cong, can you leave your business card, and then contact you when you need it, or some more direct customers will directly say, let's do it first, and then talk about it if necessary, in fact, this is a watertight way to refuse.

I contacted you when I needed to, but in the end no one contacted you. The customer said that he would contact you when he needed it, but in fact, he was politely refusing, of course, it is not excluded that some people are really busy, but this probability is very small.

If the sales are not at the last minute, you must not give up easily! So, this question, I don't think you can just sit in the office and wait for the answer, and think about it, if you can, you have to go out and go to the customer, and you have to have some planning. The test is your initiative + execution.

Guts! Even if at the end of the day, you are still rejected by the customer after a lot of hard work, what does it matter, it is not normal to do sales without being rejected by the customer.

Do your best, prepare for the worst, if even if this "failure", I believe you will definitely be a scumbag old harvest a lot, this is a personal ability experience, it is good for you to do a big single pole in the future!